I may or may not be the only one in the world that has no clue on the answer to the following question which will explain the alias.
You read all the different reviews on how this provider, or that provider was brought to an explosive "O" or she came 3 or 4 more times during the date, and on and on.
I usually don't believe a word of any of it. In my opinion if through my hard work and determination an earth shattering "O" happens for the provider it has been a truly remarkable session.
This is a question that I have wondered about for some time that is about to become very relevant for me very soon.
When spending time with a woman who is a squirter and it is noted on review after review that she can release within a few minutes of oral stimulation, and continue to release 2, 3 or 4 more times during a date, does each fluid shower represent an actual orgasm or is it something else???
Is it a sure sign of satisfaction in a woman or simply another way to fool us into thinking we are special???
Ok, Stuckonthisone,
If spending time with a woman who "releases fluid 2,3 or 4 more times during a date," it's safe to say that each fluid shower represents an actual orgasm.
My reason for saying this is very simple - you can't fake female ejaculation. It's either there or it isn't. Is it a sure sign of satisfaction? Weeeeellll, waddaya think? Like I said, you can huff and puff, roll your eyes and scream "I'm coming" at any given moment - like when Harry met Sally in a lunch restaurant, LOL - but ya just can't fool Mother Nature in ejaculating on command. Some women are just lucky that way. They orgasm easily. Now, I'm not saying that providers don't fake it - of course some do. But when they squirt, it's for real. Lucky bitches, LOL. I wanna be one of those gals!
Hope that resolves the squirting issue,
The Love Goddess
are like me. Or at least there is one, anyway - me. lol
I do experience female ejaculation but I don't identify myself as a 'squirter' because there is little force to the flow - there is quite a bit of volume though. This is an entirely different thing to the natural and normal lubrication that occurs. Also, it is not associated with an orgasm for me - it happens when I am very arroused and especially with g-spot stimulation and can happen multiple times in a session... orgasm is a separate thing though and sometimes follows, sometimes doesn't.
from all the research data we have, female ejaculation constitutes significant force to the flow, like a quick stream resembling urinating (happy to report this from personal experience as well). This has been unequivocally associated with orgasm, although it may be experienced QUALITATIVELY different than the non-ejaculatory orgasm. What this means is that you may very well exhibit the physiological signs of orgasm when you ejaculate (if that's what you do), but that this orgasm FEELS different from the non-ejaculatory orgasm.
As to which one feels more like "orgasm" to you - who are we to quibble?
Let's be happy you get'em - so many women don't,
The Love Goddess
you are discrediting it anyway. lol That's OK.
Even those who make it their business to study female ejaculation scientifically will tell you that they do not have all the answers or even many of the answers. If you read enough of them though, you will find that some females who do experience ejaculation do not experience it as a forceful stream akin to a urine stream but rather as something more like a 'gush' or sudden appearance of copious quantities of fluid.
I know what the reports and papers say... and I know what my body does.
It doesn't really matter who believes or doesn't believe what about me personally though. I was only adding my experience because it is generally considered outside the norm... next time, I'll be sure to refrain. Thanks.
who got extremely wet, strained the sheets, me, etc, but did not actually have an orgasm. Some times when we switched to a different position or to a toy they came.
Some times they have been too hung up, stressed out, high, to come. It seems natural to me that women might not be able to every time, even if they get stimulated and wet.
I like it when a woman has a big orgasm, but if we need to change things up, or it doesn't happen I don't get concerned about it.
Just my .02
Yes, TheCyclist,
staining the sheets (if that's what you mean) is not the same as having female ejaculation. A woman can fill herself up with lots of lube, get excited naturally and become extremely lubricated and NOT have an orgasm - as you point out.
Female ejaculation on the other hand, is extremely powerful. Fluid literally gushes out, almost as if in a stream. That's a definite orgasmic response and it can't be willed or faked. It just happens. And it doesn't happen to everyone, no matter how many learning videos and DVDs are out there. Some women are incapable of female ejaculation; heck, some women are incapable of having orgasms, for a variety of reasons.
Should we get hung up on it? Only if it causes distress to the person not having the orgasms. If they are happy and fine, so be it.
No orgasm police here,
The Love Goddess
squirting orgasms. Almost always 1 when we're together and, now and then, 2 if we're really horny. She is UTR and very low volume so she doesn't get a lot of action. It's an amazing experience and an incredible turn-on for me. In fact the first time it happened (and she warned me about what happens beforehand) I wasn't close to cumming but when she did it immediately put me over the edge!
She is truly blessed to have a physiology like that and I'm double blessed to be with her.
There should be a serious medical study of this squirting.
Look, everyone is responsible for HIS or HER orgasm. I make sure I get off. Yes and I mean yes, the last 3 ladies I saw, got off as well. Remember, I am paying them to get me off....
Thank you LG for your constant enlightenment.
The question has been answered (thank you) and I was dead serious BTW in asking it.
It just seemed odd to me that in the past I have worked my ass off on occasion trying to get my lady off and usually did not succeed. I also fully understand that there are so many variables involved here as to why I may not have been successful.
To spend time with a lady who is soooooo easily turned on that she can release a torrent in just a few short minutes, several times over the course of our date tells me that I wont have to work quite as hard. Yahoo !
I like to bring a handy dandy vibrator to my sessions to help assure her satisfaction.
Gal "O" while in Greek? And she wasn't even rubbing her pussy at the time either. Go figure?
For many women, this is indeed their orgasm!
Others, it is a release that feels satisfying but not quite orgasmic.
Some women can forcably release fluid if they choose, however in a sensual moment when both parties are enjoing themselves whether or not we O shouldn't matter. We are in a service industry, and we do WANT to service you! From any provider I know, your orgasm is the goal we are always aiming for. No matter what, when your happy we are happy too!!!
I have had doctors actually test my ejaqulate to prove its cumm and not urine. Some people just cannot concieve that a women can get comfortable enough or that they are being genuine when they squirt and squirt. We get that rep I think because we are all deemed actors.
Hey some of us are just really laid back and intune with our bodies. I had my first squirting O when I was just a tender 16 y/o nymph. Sex like any art requires practice and the good thing is it just keeps getting better and better. They also do not believe that a women can get off just thinking of something dirty. It is all possible if you are with the right chick..I am one of them. I am living proof.
