So, I dove back into the bowl and the preliminaries are going well. In theory, I have two BCD meetings planned for next week, and I'm pretty sure that these will happen, except for the usual maddening SB flakiness. But, assuming the best, a few questions.
Is BBBJ usually in the cards? It's a fav and CBJ is just...disappointing. In my two earlier encounters, one SB would do that and didn't need much encouragement, but it was brief and she clearly wanted to get the cover on. The other was only CBJ. MSOG? Again, this happened with one, and not the other? So, just assume it and kind of lead her there? I don't mind, and in fact enjoy, a fair amount of chit chat between rounds, and at my age that's helpful. I have recent and completely clear STD results. Has anyone ever been asked for this, or had it as a precondition for BBBJ or other fun things? And speaking of covers, and gents, feel free to use that alias to answer honestly: BBFS? I'm really not interested, because that's a safety line for me, but I'd like to hear everyone's assessment of prevalence or stories of when it happened or was offered. I'm bringing my own preferred condoms, of course and lube as well. Do SBs expect this, bring their own. How about toys or vibrators? Bring? Or it freaks them out from the hooker vibe? I feel like a newbie all over again...Bbbj and cim are easy. Fs without safety is too easy. Great skills are less common. Drama is higher.
I think you are foolish not to practice safe sex. It's just not worth it
No argument here
Is BBBJ usually in the cards? It's a fav and CBJ is just...disappointing. In my two earlier encounters, one SB would do that and didn't need much encouragement, but it was brief and she clearly wanted to get the cover on. The other was only CBJ.
I think that the last 6/7 last BCD sessions I have had involved BBBJ.
MSOG? Again, this happened with one, and not the other? So, just assume it and kind of lead her there? I don't mind, and in fact enjoy, a fair amount of chit chat between rounds, and at my age that's helpful.
Yes, I would assume. Wish, myself, I was up to it, but will continue to practice hard!
I have recent and completely clear STD results. Has anyone ever been asked for this, or had it as a precondition for BBBJ or other fun things?
Never asked or made a pre-condition. The seventh (above, no BBBJ, no effort to get me off at all, but I got her extremely wet 2/2 meets; she's adorable but truly playing hard to get) actually showed me her test results card from Planned Parenthood, and never really figured out why, lol
And speaking of covers, and gents, feel free to use that alias to answer honestly: BBFS? I'm really not interested, because that's a safety line for me, but I'd like to hear everyone's assessment of prevalence or stories of when it happened or was offered.
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I'm bringing my own preferred condoms, of course and lube as well. Do SBs expect this, bring their own. How about toys or vibrators? Bring? Or it freaks them out from the hooker vibe?
All of my SBs assumed I was bringing the condoms. My two new little vibrators appealed to my unicorn and not at all to another of the women in the rotation who I raised them with.
I feel like a newbie all over again...
Always feel like a newbie myself, even after ten months and hitting a groove in recent months. These threads have really helped me stay interested when disheartened (time commitment and flakes!) and when needing valuable tips. Just remember that we are all different boats in the same sea, so that with all these comments, YMMV.
Hi xray, glad to know you're back! Re your questions: Flakiness; I've had much less of that lately, don't know why! They mostly show up and do exactly what they say. No doubt I'm overdue for an overdose of no shows, etc!
BBBJ are what I experience, that is if BJs are on her menu at all. Some otherwise delightful SBs simply will not put a cock in their mouth. Others only if they are in the mood. But I've never had a SB ask for a CBJ! OTOH, some have unusual amazing skills. One in my current rotation has zero gag reflex. I remember the first time she was on her back in bed with her head hanging off the side and I was standing there with my cock in her mouth. I didn't want to choke the poor girl so I was taking it easy and going half strokes. She grabbed my hips and pulled me into her mouth all the way to the hilt, to let me know she was cool with it and proud of her BBBJ skills! And this was a VERY young SB!
MSOG? I've been a one and done kinda guy for a long time so this question never came up! As for the girls, many of them are multi orgasmic and seem capable of going on and on and cumming over and over as long as I can fuck them. I love that!
I have offered to show my STD results but no one has taken me up on that. I've seen some profiles where the SB says she'll want to see results before going BCD but never encountered that.
As for BBFS I've done that with one former SB. We had a long term arrangement, lots of trust, both had recent clean STD tests although we didn't actually look at each others papers, and we had an agreement not to go BB with anyone else without telling each other. OTOH I've had a few pros offer BBFS! Go figure!
I always bring toys, vibrator, condoms and lubes. On rare occasions she will bring her own condoms, but I never expect it. I only break out the toys when it seems appropriate, but I've never had a negative reaction to offering them. I have had a few girls balk at using re-used sex toys, which I can certainly understand. In that case I simply cover them with a condom and that satisfies their reluctance.
As for feeling like a newbie again, I feel that way every time I meet a new girl and I love it! Good luck this week and remember to report back!