Been seeing more ladies that have jobs and want gifts and travel. Maybe SA goes mainstream. Just commercializing what has always been
Maybe 90% of the SB's I've met, even those who want immediate p4p hook ups, have some type of job. If we bother to talk about it, they enter the sugar bowl because that job barely pays for Maslow's first two 2 levels of needs (see link). What I find interesting is the breakdown of types of jobs they have.
This is purely empirical - just my top of mind recollection. In no particular order, they are:
- RN (or nursing student)
- Admin/Secretary (or Office Manager)
- Day care provider
- Retail clerk
- Model (aspiring at least)
- Veterinarian's assistant
- Other medical/dental assistant
- Stripper (full, or part time, might be paired with one of the others on the list)
- Student (plus one ore more of the others, either PT or FT)
- Webcam model (Surprising how many of these can be induced into the sugar bowl, even without using or knowing about SA or WYP. Although the optimal conditions are rare: local to me, not married, not paranoid about web stalkers, etc. I've actually connected with no less than 4 over the years.)
Almost all of these are at minimum wage or no more than 25% over minimum wage.
Almost all of these require no college degree. The obvious exception is RN, which should pay fairly well and requires extensive education. I also find it interesting that those who work in some medical field, especially RN's are quickest to offer BBBJ or even BBFS (usually only after testing).
Typical reasons anecdotally mentioned for asking for sugar (not that I actually care, but SB's always need to justify why they will fuck for cash):
- Child care, birthday presents, clothes, etc.
- Car repair
- Help with rent each month
- Want to be "spoiled" with clothes, makeup, jewelry, trips, concert tickets, etc.
Of all the SB's who state in their profiles and/or mention when we meet that they are also interested in an older guy to share life experience or mentor for career, only 1 has actually been interested in my help in these areas. One re-written resume and a job search yielding 10 good opportunities later and the result was: zero. She never applied for any of them.
I meant decent professional jobs. I think they do this for the thrill of it. Plus ihe cash is nice and it helps their ego.
Probably the highest level SB with a decent job I've encountered in my relatively short time in the bowl was a manager of a winery, she confirmed her background in performing arts earlier in life and current employment without me even asking. This SB seriously loved sex, and for a 40 yo milf, was in pretty good shape in spite of some small lumps and bumps from bearing 2 children. I don't know how long it had been since she was with a man, but she gave me back the allowance. I insisted she take it and we settled on a 50% refund. Don't think the odds are too good that I'll be meeting any CEO, CFO types since my preferred age range for SBs is 20-35 which is probably too young to acheive that status.
I did (still do if I ever get back to the San Jose area) have one SB in that category.
She's a former top fashion model from Iran. Mid-30's and still stunningly beautiful. Love's sex and I think loves getting paid for sex as well. She drives a new BMW, lives in a 500k+ Townhome, has a great job as a VP with a major bank (a competitor to my company!) and travels on her own quite a bit. She went off the radar for about a year a while ago. I later learned from her that she hooked a Whale for a while who locked her down for a year with a 6-figure offer.
Definitely not the typical starving coed SB.
-student, many with part time jobs and looking for more income while having fun with a SD
-recent graduate, now with student debt
-server
-nanny
-massage
-separated/divorcee +/- kids needing sugar and satisfaction
-yoga/fitness instructors
-semi pro money mongers looking to be compensated "for their time". Just this week had another on of these, had a first meet scheduled at a decent restaurant, then she hits me up for she wants a couple benjamins to watch her eat. I gave her my 2 copper Lincolns that she is welcome to the reservation I made and needs a replacement since I'd prefer to get a total body waxing
Unsurprisingly, I have made the same observation over the years....Not only are RN's generally horny and uninhibited, they seem the least concerned group of women as far as 'protection' is comcerned....Perhaps daily immersion in several sick people's bodily fluids at work makes the thought of commingling with a healthy man less risky?
In fact, I would prefer a SB with a job and a life that wants money to help them jump to the next level without disrupting their lives with more school, etc etc. The ones that seem desperate for money are a real turn-off and I worry about set ups for robberies. As to new grads, these poor kids are coming out of school with so so much debt it's outrageous. The Pharmacy students that I see coming through my work, are graduating of upwards of $200K in debt...a feakin house payment. So, supplementing income for RNs, etc., to help with these expenses is not a surprise.
Just about every bargirl in Southern California is on the game as far as I can tell...
.. have included an actress on a show currently airing (in fact it was on *during* one of our dates), two physicians, and a research chemist. I can't really draw any explicit conclusions other than there's a certain type of woman who sees the SB scene as a personal validation of her desirability.