Two SBs have recently asked me for STD test results. One wants this before proceeding to anything uncovered. I've seen her once (20 year old dancer who was very hot and worth a 2nd appointment). The other is 18(!) or claims to be and wanted me to "send" her STD results, which I politely declined. (Can you imagine sending an electronic copy of your std results to a SB, ever? Let alone someone you haven't even met! But, I digress...)
The question: Anyone else experienced this? I think you kind of believe in the efficacy of condoms and intelligently limiting activities, or you don't. OTOH, these girls (and at 18 and 20 that's the operative descriptor) seem pretty naive, so maybe that's all it is. Other notes: YES, I plan to insist on photo ID from the supposed 18-year-old, and she says that fine. The dancer was new to SA, and went on simply because she needed money for the rent. So the old cliche about the "end of the month rush" is at least sometimes true.asking for you to "send" your test results to her sight unseen is ridiculous.
Keep in mind though, you are talking about very young women who are NOT sex professionals who could be getting all their information about STD's from their equally clueless high school friends.
Even if you were dumb enough to send her your STD results, which I know you are not, what good would it do her without knowing who you are?? Those test results could have come from anywhere. When I meet a girl I always bring my most recent results with me but I've never been asked for them! I'd have to show her my photo ID to prove the results were actually mine, right? I assume anybody playing in the Sugar Bowl accepts the value (and limitations) of condom use. Nothing is risk free, but you gotta accept what you are doing. If a girl does not, then I can't see much future in the arrangement. One exception would be if you and a SB decide you want to go BB. IF you agree to be "fluid bonded" 100% exclusively with this person only, you could go get tested together and read your results together and change your activities accordingly. But it would only work with someone you seriously trust.
but only after we met a few times.