I reached out to an SB I haven't seen in months. She said she remembered me and had a great time with me. She was my first SB, and I was balls deep in her within a couple of hours. She lives out-of-state, so I offered to fly her out here for a long weekend. She agreed to stay with me.
This is part of an actual text I got from her: "I would certainly love to see you and have some hot sex with you babe" She's a cute, 28 year-old and I just turned 64. On our first meet, she asked for no money, but I gave her some anyway. In light of the arrangement so far, do you think I need to offer her a cash gift? She is my last remaining SB. I haven't returned to S.A., because I found it a lot of work, and my game is very weak.If she's willing to visit you and have sex there's no reason to offer her cash. I'd certainly be prepared to gift her if she asks for it though. Yes, the Sugar Bowl is a lot of work, and yes, most of us had very little game when we started. But there's a learning curve and you get better at it. At least that's how it's been for me. And the rewards are astounding! I'm almost embarrassed to say I've had two different 22 yo college girls this weekend fuck my brains out. And I have a total of 11 SBs on my rotation or call list or whatever you call it. These are lovely young women who I've dated who will have a visit with me any time I ask. I can't keep up with them all! So it's worth working it and perfecting your game.
That said, you are going to spend the weekend with her, I am sure if she is "in need" it will come up in conversation. If she alludes to being behind on her rent, car payment, or whatever, you have your answer. If she says everything is fine with her financially, a nice, non cash gift might be a better idea just so she knows you don't take her for granted.
Why not treat her like you would a FABULOUS civie girl friend and show her some appreciation by buying her a small gift to present when the moment it right and tell her how " special " she is to you ?
But also have a back up plan to deflect and resist any possible requests for $$$ or be prepared to offer her a "reasonable " donation per meet.
Either way you're sitting pretty 😋