As others have advised, I keep a rotation and I like to "fish" for new SBs (essentially, am always doing so). I added up the fishing time last week, about 12 hours invested over seven days of emailing, texting, and chatting to current and potential SBs. [Dang, no wonder my performance review at work was lackluster! LOL]
Not complaining, just putting that out there as a "Magoo P-Chasing Unit," 12 hours a week (which does NOT count time spend in person, BCD or otherwise, with these young lusties....)Quit keeping track of how much time you are spending. lol
I have no idea how much time I spend between TER and SA. and I don't want to know.
I usually spend much more time than that. But it's a lot of fun! I love getting messages from new SBs, working up conversations with them, negotiating and planning meet ups, identifying the scammers and seeing how much of their time I can waste before they catch on that I am on to them. Oh yeah, I like having sex with them too!
I enjoy browsing profiles even when I am not actively looking for a new SB. Go figure.
and takes a good bit of time. I usually spend a little time each day checking out "new" SB's and those recently active over the past day or so. I probably spend more time than most as I have a "dual mandate" to find the young BCDs for a good time and to find a more mature (40+) to have a real sb/sd with. I am having to refine my technique as I go along as the approach to each is totally different.