I was doing my morning SB homework and saw 3 different posts for couples looking for a 3rd. Not for me but Im sure someone will go for it.
The other thing is Ive noticed more married ladies on the site lately. Is this common elsewhere?I've seen one or two couple's profiles from time to time in the Los Angeles area from time to time. Not my thing so never contacted. They don't seem to last very long.
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I tend to see a higher percentage of "married" when my age filter skews over 28-30, which is to say almost never. :p But I do see a small number of "open relationship" profiles , maybe 3-6% in the 18-28 range. For those I have messaged, almost all of them are strippers (go figure) and/or are desperate for cash, which sets off my pimp/drug user radar. There was one who said she and her BF were looking for new experiences, and he would need to be present for any BCD time. Pass.
So even if it's not a hooker/pimp situation, I'm thinking the flake factor would be too great with a third person in the mix. It's hard enough to work around my schedule and one girl's activities but to have to work around some other guy/girl's work schedule means it just wouldn't be practical for me when there are so many 18-21 yo hotties out there.
Then there's the risk of the other guy finding out and getting pissed. Or of one girl getting good jealous of the other. It's exponentially more complicated with more people in the mix.
All of my regular SBs claim to be bisexual but none have ever seen each other. A couple have asked about it, a couple have outright said they do not want to hear about my others even though they might want to bring me one of their girlfriends. Overall, they seem like they'd get jealous of each other as soon as they compared notes.
The friend is someone you've seen! Maybe they'll both stay anyway, or with my luck--they'd both leave...
There's an Asian SB I've been trying to see. She is willing to drive 2 hours to see me. She says all her friends are sugarbabies and they have an agreement not to poach on each other. So she likes some guy out of her area.
Well except for the fun of a threesome that lasts anywhere from an hour or two, to possibly an overnight date, any guy that wants that kind of thing has never actually experienced having multiple women around that you are sleeping with.
It's just like the woman who brags about her man who can "go all night" Very few women actually enjoy "going all night" so if they are "bragging" about it, it's most likely a lie. Now if she is "complaining" about it, then she is probably telling the truth. lol
The same thing applies to having multiple women around, it "sounds" like every man's dream, but in reality its a HUGE pain in the ass. I will take my women "one at a time" TYVM.
I swear, this board has some of the most experienced guys out there. I've observed this directly.
I've heard the wife and two sugar babies complain that I totally destroy them by going all night (it's really more like an hour maybe 1-3 times). One time, this happened while out on a sugar double date when I overheard the girls comparing notes. The other sugar baby seemed to be bragging that they banged all night (they banged once and it was only a few minutes). My girl immediately complained that I totally destroyed her. She noticed me walking in at that point and jokingly said "no sex tonight" to me. I ran into the other sugar baby a couple of days later and she was immediately grabbing my crotch, saying she knows I have amazing dick.
I've never even tried to do a 3 some. I only have one dick and I'm so picky it's hard to find a pair where both girls would be attractive. Not to mention I can only pop once every two hours or so.
One provider offered me a big discount for doubles so I decided to give it a try. Very distracting as I had to change condom switching between the two. I couldn’t come even after they kindly gave me extra time at no charge. That’s why I turned it down when an SB offered me a threesome with her friend. Different strokes for different folks but I will stick with one-on-one.
and for the exact reason you mention. It's very distracting to have to change condoms every time you change vaginas. lol My very first threesome way back in the 70's didn't have that issue as not only was it not P4P, but it was well before any of use started using condoms. The debaucherous feeling that comes with being in and out of two different pussies dozens of times in a single night is just not something that just can't be compared to when using a condom, but of course that great feeling isn't worth dying for. lol
I do have a suggestion for you though that will solve your problem about having to go through dozens of condom changes and that is to use the female condom. It's the closest thing I can think of to BBFS and the other upside is you don't have to change them when changing partners.
Female condoms if you can find them... saddle them both up, no need to switch anything...
I've had several threesomes over the years.
Looks good on paper lol