I've had two 3somes in the last couple of months on SA. One was two SB friends on SA, the other was a SB on SA and her driver friend. The first one was suggested by the initial SB that I was talking to, the second one by me. Both were great experiences and I paid them each the same amount, which I handed to them separately. If they want to divide it differently later, that's up to them.
Ok. So...I love variety and I love theeesomes. In the month of February I have met three different SBs for an initial BCD date. All are in the 21-25 age range. I have decided to parlay my love of variety and love of threesomes into an experiment...that I hope to turn into reality, I have asked each the same questions:
1) Do you enjoy playing with women?
2) Are you into FFM threesomes?
3) Are you interested in adding this into our arrangement?
4) Do you know someone who you could ask to join us?
All three answered YES to all four questions. I am processing this, but I keep coming back to the same thought...did women in their early twenties, when i was in my early twenties (30 years ago)m enjoy other women/threesomes at the same rate as they do today? I've got to confess, I never even came close to sniffing a threesome back then!
My other question is to you guys...have you had a Sugarbaby bring a friend? If the friend was not on SA, what is the etiquette in terms of the allowance? Do I "up" the allowance for my SB so she can share with her friend? Do I give the friend the same allowance? Do I do nothing? Thoughts?
Was in vegas just prior to new years. Saw a "SB" first night tgere. She wanted to come back my last night. When I hesitated she said she would bring her friend. 5 hours later and 800 dollars later I had had my 1st 3some. But it sure seems a whole lot of ladies like ladies.
if I had ever had a 3some. I told her that I had had a few. She then said "I think I told you I'm into girls too, right?" That led to conversations about what type of women each of us was into and we agreed to bring in one of her friends at some point. Nothing specific yet. When it happens, I would ask her what allowance she thinks is right for her friend (probably a little less) and give her something fair. That seems like the right thing to do.
The only time I've had a 3some with an SB (as opposed to pros) was when I took an SB to a pro I had some history with; presented the SB as my GF. The pro was very cool; a fantastic time was had by all.
I haven't done a FFM yet - but would love to. Just now getting into the SB world. However, I do know that the 20's age group is very open to seeing the same sex, much more than when I was younger that's for sure. Might be that they grew up with it plastered all over the media. Thanks for the tips on how to approach. I'm hoping to get to use them soon.
I've had two 3somes in the last couple of months on SA. One was two SB friends on SA, the other was a SB on SA and her driver friend. The first one was suggested by the initial SB that I was talking to, the second one by me. Both were great experiences and I paid them each the same amount, which I handed to them separately. If they want to divide it differently later, that's up to them.
THOSE sound like pros! Lol
Naw. They were "college students." Lol.
I had a few with providers in the US, Amsterdam and Curacao. Plus had one with a FWB friend when we went to dinner to meet her old High School friend. Both of them got drunk on sake and we ended up back at the apartment. The two girls had fun together and my friend and I played, but the old school chum wasn't really into me. So I didn't actually have sex with both of them but I'm still going to count it as FFM. :P
Haven't had an SB bring a friend over yet, and all but one has told me she's bi. However, one of my past SB's who worked part time as a stripper offered to bring her stripper friend over if I paid each of them our established rate (4). I passed - but only because at the time my rotation was full and the extra spend would put me too far over budget for the month. Besides, I have at least 5 strippers on my books that I can call for delivery any time I want one.
PS: There's probably enough material to create a whole new board on sex with strippers both in and outside of the strip club. Anyone interested?
That's what we did here. This board was just taking up space until we turned it into the de facto SD/SB board. Maybe we could take over the Kansas board which has a thread over a year old still on the first page and turn it into the new Strip Club board?
Back the topic at hand. My first threesome was by far my best. I was 17, in the army and had been recently stationed in Germany. I met these two bi sexual girls and we did some acid together, the rest of the weekend is kind of a blur, but it may have been the sexual highlight of my entire life. This was back in the seventies and condoms were virtually unheard of as this was before anyone had ever even heard of AIDS.
I have had dozens of threesomes in the 40 years or so since then, but except for the four some I had with a GF, a lesbian friend of ours who always wanted to fuck my GF and a pro we hired to round things out so I would have someone to fuck while my GF was "occupied" none of the rest of the threesomes I have had have been too memorable.
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Coach... great post! Please continue to bring your "experiments" and their results to the group as they always make for an entertaining and insightful read.
I have a question on how best to bring up sexual topics in conversation with SBs (3somes, toys, likes/dislikes). I am a "recovering Catholic" and I was kinda brought up that you don't really talk about sex until you are REALLY comfortable with someone. For some reason, I have no issues telling pros what I want and/or like, but for some reason, I have a bit more trepidation about these conversations when discussing with SBs. When are the best times are to have these discussions (before sex, after sex, while sharing a bottle of wine, etc...)? I have some specific menu items I would like to be able to single out the SBs who will accommodate my preferences. Part of me realizes that most millennials are not scared to talk about sex and I should grow a pair and come out and ask about what I want/need. That being said, it still can be somewhat difficult for me to identify the right time and place for these convos and so any tips from the group about how/when to bring this stuff up would be helpful to me.
Im seeing my SB after lunch today so hopefully any tips will help me guide today's conversation with her. Thanks!
Toys are probably the easiest to introduce...
Next time you take her BCD just take out a couple of toys like a dildo and a vibrator and ask her which one (including your dick) looks like the most fun. Then just follow her lead...
For more adventurous activities, ask her after sex if she has any fantasies or ever wanted to try something new like role play, threesomes, unusual locations, etc. Again, follow her lead and ask her follow up questions like "Sounds fun, tell me more...?"
Thanks herb for the feedback and great advice!
The good news is that today was my 2nd time BCD with my new SB and it was even hotter than the first time. The bad news is that I was so spent after that i totally forgot to have that discussion lmao! 😂 Oh well, maybe next time!
1. My favorite SB (now married) asked me my fantasies. We had plans for a lot of hot things, but she got serious with her new boyfriend (now husband). She suggested a threesone, but we never got to it.
2. I met an excellent SB in another city a couple of months ago. On our first meet, which wound up going BCD, she offered to call her GF on the spot for a threesome. I didn't ask the price, but I didn't have enough cash for both. I've seen a photo of the "sweetheart" GF, and she is stunning. I hope to try them out.
3. One of my buddies has a great SB whom he sees every 2 weeks. They have done a fair amount of experimentation. A threesome is in their plans. The SB is looking for the other woman, with my buddy having veto power.
4. Another friend had a SB who was bi, but never had a threesome with her. He had another SB who liked women and flirted with them, but never picked one up.
I don't think too many SBs will do a threesome, but some definitely will.
how much they love women. I gotta get them together for a threesome
MFM and MFFM. We have done both and are always looking for fun times.