Just curious 🤨  

How do you decide who you choose to see?  

Are there any key factors for you?

Do you have a routine you engage in when booking?

🙄 Inquiring minds would love to know your strategies.

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1) I may see an ad or a photo on the Photo Board, then check out her reviews.
2) I get contacted by a wingman who has exquisite taste about a new gal he's in love with. I've never been steered wrong by this guy.
3) Easiest of all when I'm in Costa Rica: I walk into the Cocal and wander through a bevy of chicas. Pick one out and bring her back to my condo.
4) Check out the ads in Sydney, walk into one of many fine brothels there and make my choice. I love these last two ways because it reminds me of my first forays into the world years ago when I frequented the cathouses on the East Side of Manhattan.

I have a few websites I check and I browse them. I will put in my search parameters and then start scrolling through the thumbnails. If a provider's picture catches my eye I will left click and open the ad in a new tab. I keep scrolling until I get to the end and then I start going through the ads in my new tabs. I will go through the full advertisements, looking at all the photos and gleaning some of the relevant information. I'm trying to see if their photos are consistent and determine how much effort they put into their marketing. I'm also looking for their screening procedure. Any red flags or signs of danger result in an immediate cut. This usually leaves me with 3-5 ads left. At this point I start searching for reviews, a website, onlyfans and social media.  At this point I'm trying to gauge a provider's reputation and personality while also looking for signs of burn out. Complaining about money, clients, a lack of bookings or anything industry related usually results in an immediate cut. One time I saw a provider said she didn't accept clients over a certain BMI or age and that was a big turn off, especially since she wasn't exactly a skinny woman. I'm well under the age and BMI but it was still a huge turn off.

 
Unsolicited tip for providers: the more you provide the more I am willing to provide. If you have no website, social media, reviews or reputation I am unwilling to provide personal information like ID, work information, references and other information. If you only have iPhone photos I'm not really thrilled about paying you $800/hr and putting down a 20% deposit. If you have professional photoshoots and thought out ad I feel a bit more at ease shelling these things out.

* My type (age, looks, services)
* Within my budget
* Doesn't have a million rules or require me to jump through hoops
* Well reviewed by trusted sources or I've seen her before

Almost exclusively K Agencies, so it's pretty easy shopping progress - here and another site for some intel, occasionally TOFTT on a new or unreviewed girl - but it's almost a like franchise at this point - even my worst K-girl venture was well within an acceptable level of looks / service for the $$ - Helps that I happen to love Asian women - not sure how that happened lol, but it's def a strong attraction and maybe topic for another post

1. Looks hot
2. Good reviews
3. Within my budget
4. She advertises/is experienced in duos (not essential, but significantly increases the chances I'll see her)

I decide to see someone I’ve been seeing for a long time, 9-10 years or more in most cases. There’s a handful of local providers I frequent who are super-professional, give exceptional service, have reasonable rates (and haven’t raised them for a few years at least), and have convenient and comfortable incalls. Booking is a snap—no screening drama. There’s very low risk (they’re independent; one is UTR and another has a low profile). And I always have a great time.

 
I do “dabble” occasionally, mainly because I know one of these ladies isn’t far from retirement and, for the others… you never know. But I haven’t found anyone yet who equals let alone exceeds what I have with these providers. When I see someone new, I look mainly at fit-to-budget, reviews, location, menu (e.g. offering BBFS is a Pass), appearance (must be fit and at least HWP), and personality (what I can glean from board/social presence, website, and reviews).

I have a type. Asian or Caucasian brunette. Nice firm fake tits and a supple ass.  They need to be fit and submissive. That’s how I decide. Not saying I won’t book other petite girls but that’s what I look for.

First of all, Are they 100% honest with you when they contact you about the services that you offer?!!  Or do they negotiate prices and services?!

Ditto.
I was seeing one provider for a dozen years. Probably spent 80% or more of my hobby time with her for half of those. Fortunately, when she did quit, I have a few others that I've known for many years as well and they're more than happy with the extra attention I can now give them. The downside, of course, is that they too will drift off into the sunset and the older I get, the less I enjoy the hunt for new talent.

1.    Referral from a trusted hobby bro who has seen her and gives her a good recommendation.  This is the BEST option with the lowest disappointment rate.

 
2.    A provider pops up posting on this board, I find her articulate and interesting in her viewpoints, so I read some of her reviews and PM some of her reviewers if necessary before making contact.  Sometimes I will engage with her on the board to see how she reacts to me.  

 
3.    Go on a hunt for a new playmate.  I will do an advanced search using the filters for the kinds of ladies I find attractive.  Next, I will go to her website (if she has none, the effort ends there).  Then I will read her most recent reviews and PM her reviewers with any questions I have.  (This requires VIP membership.)   After this vetting, if I'm still interested and there were no red flags, I will make contact to book an appointment.  

How do I decide who I choose to see?  
 She must be gorgeous....obviously better looking than me. She must have a toned and fit body....obviously in better shape than me. She must have two breasts of the same size and bigger than mine .....an obvious DD or better. And lastly, she must be able to write, as we flirt and get to know each other, before the scheduled session.

Are there any key factors for me?  
 Her tongue and face must be accessible and not full of hardware that my tongue gets caught on. Her tats must be explainable and not too numerous to discuss them ALL within a one hour session.
 She should be well groomed below so once again my sensitive tongue does not get twisted up. And lastly her arm pit hair needs to be shorter than mine. (okay S.H. take a breath)

Do I have a routine I engage in when booking?  I start with the photos and move to the print in the ad and then go to the website if it exists and of course, communication is #1 concern. Flirting, trumps one word and one sentence answers.......this is where the experience starts and I read into that. While trying to get to know each other in messages, sharing genuine interest, short of time wasting, is my way to start pulling at heart strings ....and is always nice when shared between us.  
Reviews are nice but because I believe YMMV applies to all and if I do my homework up front I am not worried if both have been honest to the point of the initial meeting from behind the proverbial door. And lastly the willingness to trust me with the address the night before ..... but for sure before the 10 minutes that I actually arrive driving, in the southern most suburb of the cities.  

well maybe after reading this I realize why I was getting dumped 2 hours into prom 55 years ago, I may be asking too much or trying to hard BUT the chase is always just as exciting.... happy hobbying ....good question sweet Q B

You're speaking of Coal hotel? How are the girls there, are they likely to be ok with BBFS?

If that's what you meant, re BBFS some do but most don't. There's no way to know up front because if you ask for BBFS most will not see you and will tell their friends not to see you. I used to ask first about BBBJ, which most will do, but not BBFS. I only found a couple of girls who would do that.

She has to catch my eye as someone who is "subtle"-ly beautiful, but not in a super hot "she worked hard" way

Perhaps the beauty "next door" type, but dressed in a sexy outfit, such as a suit/dress heels?  (used to date a couple of lawyers, hence the look always made me frisky)

She has to be approachable.......  and just "know" how to complement me (not in talking).  

So many gals in the biz need to learn that part and it's not always 100% about the sex itself.

I look at Tryst and Eros regularly and see which ladies are coming to my city. Then I check the information in TER reviews.

I have certain things I’m looking for.  

1. Does she have real breasts or manufactured? I much prefer real breasts. Usually in TER it lists a lot of information about each woman and one of the categories is real or fake breasts. If fake I might not see her.

2. Does she do GFE and kiss? Does she say in her ad if she does or if not is the information in Tryst reviews? I have been to women who do claim to do GFE but when I am with them they don’t kiss. Or maybe they would kiss other guys but they’re not interested in kissing me. It’s frustrating.

3. Her age. I am 56. I would rather be with older women, not women in their 20’s. I am definitely not seeing a woman who shows her age as 18. What if she’s lying and she’s under 18? No thanks. I have had some good experiences with ladies in their 20’s and 30’s but I’ve also had ED issues with younger women sometimes because I have to feel the other woman is interested in me to get turned on, some younger women aren’t as good at that and are “going through the motions” and I don’t get turned on. I like women over 40 but I have found older women lie about their age in Tryst or are ambiguous about their ages. There are guys like me out there who are more interested in older women, so I wish they would hold be more direct about it. There’s one woman I’ve seen multiple times who lists her age in Tryst as 40’s. Since I’ve seen her several times, she confided to me she’s actually 55. I personally like that, some guys might not.

4. Budget. I can have the same experience with a woman who charges $400 an hour, possibly better, than with a woman who charges $800 an hour. The last time I tried to see an $800 super-hot lady, I brought her a bottle of wine as a gift, she drank almost the whole bottle of wine and was slightly tipsy before she started paying attention to me, finally she gave me a BJ and then I had her doggy, but I was not 100 percent satisfied with her.

5. Her eyes and face. Sometimes women don’t show their faces in their pictures on Tryst. Disappointing. I like brown eyes and green eyes.  

5. Also as far as looks go, I don’t like super skinny women who look like they have to skip meals to keep their shape. I like natural-looking women. Women can have nice tits and a great ass without starving themselves.

1: In budget ( I have an 'above average' budget)
2: they are attractive to me.  
3: They offer all of the services I enjoy  
4: If I get this far its a deep dive into reputation, from peer companions and clients.
5: Mutual availability  
6: Bonus points if they offer something unique.

Manhattan cathouses in the 90s were awesome.  Blatantly advertising in Executive Action magazine lol

Do you remember Jillian Bradley's? Very upscale. (I don't remember Exec Action magazine. Just the tabloids: Screw, etc..)

Her rates are the first thing I look at. Her looks are the second thing I look at. If the two are a match then I inquire about her service level if she has no reviews. If all three are a match then I send a booking inquiry.