Who said she was upset?
Why is can't you (The Hobbyists) give The Providers the respect as far as trying to set a date 24 hours to 72 hours in advance (Since y'all want Cheap Prices).
Many providers are posting call when ready of a few of the ad sites.
Translate please.
and I'm not sure if you do either", but I'll ask the obvious question . . . . .
What does respect, the time you set the date, and wanting cheap prices have to do with each other? I'm GUESSING that for a provider, it's the trifecta of when to turn down a session request, but I could be wrong. Maybe you can tell us what you mean?
Lastly, I DISAGREE with your false assertion that there are NO hobbyists that do not act favorably on all three of these concerns. Maybe some examples from your own experience would help.
Are you complaining about? If someone wants to meet you now and you can't accommodate just tell them you are not available until XX and pre booking is always good.
I sometimes have a spare moment at the last minute. Would you really be upset if I reached out to see if you were free?
For DECADES I’ve tried to do this. Majority of responses, “call one hour before.” Biggest problem with that, they won’t give out the address, so it’s pretty hard to call an hour before if you don’t know where the hell you are going. May be the clients fault, too many flakes out there. Can’t imagine the no show ratio.
Yes, this is all of us. Please share how you voodoo and know all?
Know your market, know your customers and know what you offer. You're not going to get tons of advanced bookings
You're in Atlantic City, which is filled with tourists coming in and out. Many of your clients are going to be male tourists who are drunk and horny acting on a whim. You are the escort version of fast food. People don't make reservations at McDonald's.
at McDonalds, its probably also a bad Idea to try to jump the line with her. Lol
I don't swear off McDonald's. It isn't the best but it gets the job done. Sometimes its 2AM and I've stayed up way too late smoking weed and have a case of the munchies. Sometimes I'm on a road trip and the only thing I see for miles are the golden arches. McDonald's is cheap, available, and there for me when there are no other options. Sure its greasy and I'm probably getting diarrhea later but food is food. I enjoy it while in my car, dunking my chicken nuggets into sauce and sipping on my fountain soda. But you better believe I am throwing that bag out before I get home. There's already a feeling in my stomach of regret (and indigestion) and I don't want anyone knowing I ate McDonalds.
This probably accurately describes the average client date with Kitty tbh. She thinks that pussy is Michelin rated though....
see her, so I can't tell you if she has any tread left, or not. Lol
I quit McD's about 20 years ago when I started to become repulsed by the amount of salt they use. (Could be a contributor to your stomach issues.) Granted, without the salt, where is the flavor? I rarely eat in my car unless I'm running late for an appointment. My fast-food road choice the past ten years has been Chick-fila. They have a choice of breaded or grilled nuggets, neither are greasy nor messy for car consumption.
I found one skinny burger contained 1/3 of the RDA of sodium.
That was it for me.
I LOVE chick-fil-A.....I don't eat at any other fast food joint anymore. I'm not too proud to do the surveys they give out (they take about 3 minutes once you get familiar with them...3 minutes for a 7 dollar sandwich ( a delicious sandwich) translates to 140 dollars an hour...worth it)....since 2019, I have completed 119 surveys and received 119 free sandwiches. AT today's prices that absorbs about 40% of the money I blew on my first ill-fated provider date last week....life's not so bad afterall.
Because it was founded by a Bible-Thumper and promotes an anti-gay agenda. Also, the lines are too damn long.
Chick-fil-A, and I find their billboards amusing, but my taste buds never responded joyfully to their food. Always tasted to me like food you'd get in a B diner.
they were trying to be more than a fast-food place? I've had some great food in diners, even some where it was prudent to get a tetanus shot before you go in. The food can still be excellent. If you ever have a chance to get out of LA, drive the length of Interstate 40 or 10, and you will see for yourself. Diners can be an excellent choice for road-weary travelers.
I will not spend one penny at Shit-fil-A. I had read a while back that they had laxed their strict religious based policies and were actually trying to enlighten themselves and had hired therapist to help them understand how the world really works. But I think it was all BS and only an attempt to diffuse criticism and a marketing ploy. I don't see any evidence of them having changed their views. And besides.... I'm a VAGetarian 😀😀😀
Would rather “Lick A Chick” then eat a Chick-Fil-A
As the commercial goes - “Less Filling-Tastes Great”
Whoops not their commercial.
that when it comes to business, I can separate the product or service from Politics, religion, race, gender, etc. I don't really know what their religious beliefs are, but I still like SOME of their products, and no employee has ever tried to convert me to anything while I was ordering food. I HAVE noticed that many of their young employees are nerds, but I consider that a bonus as they are probably smarter and therefore less likely to screw up my order. Lol
I don't even know what would be #2. Big Mac? The Whopper? Ick! lol.
As a rule, I will schedule a meeting a week in advance.
Only on rare occasions, when all of the planets align and my schedule unexpectedly opens up, do I contact a provider the same day for a repeat session (never a first time meeting). And, NEVER, less than four hours before. I figure, if they have the opening, they are glad for the patronage.
Proper planning prevents poor performance. I love dates who book a month to two months in advance. A week, or two advanced booking is great too! Long ago I used to sit around my incall, or hotel waiting for a date will never happen again. If you post on your ads & website what you want as a provider you will attract clients that you want it’s the law of attraction.
I try to schedule about a week in advance.
One time I travelled quite a distance to see someone I really wanted to meet and booked a date several months in advance.
Last minute/same day rarely, if ever, works for me.
...to chicken sandwiches, and back again. I really love this forum.....
I am a schedule in advance person and am very seldom available last minute. Unless I have a rare cancellation and post that I have an afternoon available guys know to book in advance. I am also a big proponent of confirmation messages the day before to keep my schedule on track. When I am touring I also do a 1-2 week reminder as well. If that is how you want your schedule to run let your regulars know they need to book in advance. I also make sure to post my schedule at least a month in advance on my website and my ad sites so guys know when I am available. It makes my life exponentially less stressful.
But why is a provider complaining about someone reaching out? Even if you are not available or need to do screening. Having a prepared message stating how to do that, going to your site, etc? Is it bad someone had a spare moment, wanted service and thought of you?
The person who started this post seems to be angry at that. I can't always schedule in advance because my work schedule is not consistent. If you are not free at that time, why get upset?
Who said she was upset?
I do not personally know Kitty, but I think that is just her writing style, I don't think she was upset when she made the post. (she can correct me if I am wrong)