Ladies, wondering if you're comfortable masturbating while engaging with your client. For example, while he's Daty, and guides your hand to also stimulate yourself, is that a turn on and may help you O, a turn off, or just going along with it (but it really doesn't do anything for you)?  Or do you prefer using your favorite toy instead?

....she won't need any help from me 😋

Most of the time they're faking it anyway. Like an old friend says, "You can come while I'm there or you can come after I'm gone."

to me, but if it did, I would ask her to "kindly remove her hand out the way of my tongue, be patient, enjoy the ride, and she will thank me later."   I know YOU know what I'm talking about.  Lol

Masturbation is sex with someone you love. I love myself & you should too! Yes! I am extremely comfortable masturbating in front of my friends. Anyone who is not should not be a SW. I have many adult fun toys I love to show my partners how I please myself if they want to watch no problem. I enjoy  lots of eye contact & dirty talk too!

As long as the client is jerking off

sex when you don't have any customers.  Lol

I'll second that. I engage a lot of duos (just last night in fact) and I love when one lady is able to get the other off through DATY.  That's why chemistry is so important--a pair of compatible ladies will almost always get each other off. Long live women who know how to please women!

But if you are the only one in the room i’d never get hard

For me not to touch myself when with my guy(s) I love it!! I usually start with my hand but end up with toys in the mix 😘

I'm happy to, if he's into it!
If he's doing great DATY I definitely don't need to also masturbate while he's doing it to orgasm and I may be so in the moment that it won't occur to me to, but if it's a turn on for him it's also a turn-on for me and I love it!

Wow, you’ve definitely been seeing the wrong ladies. I’ve never had a date that I didn’t get off.  

And I think you misunderstood me. I"m some/many of then did get off. I'm just not kidding myself. Many of the physical signs of orgasm can be and are faked. That's just reality.

Absolutely!!! Well said ❤️

Toy show, eye contact, and dirty talk.  Where do I sign up for that?

Seems like the answers are focused on your example of masturbating during DATY.  I had one session several years ago, where after round one we were talking and looking at each other, then we started playing with ourselves while continuing to look at one another.  Nice foreplay for round 2.

Made me want to see if I'd written a review of that session, and found it:  Claudia

ALL RISE!  Here comes the Judge....Here Comes the Judge.....

on understanding basic marketing and creating a rate structure that incentivizes multiple-hour sessions.  More ladies here could learn a lesson from your understanding of this biz.  Most of the heavy lifting occurs in the first hour to 90 minutes from a work standpoint.  After that, it's mostly downhill, and there are many gents who would like to spend more social time to get to know ladies who provide an incentive to do so.  This is how you grow your own "regulars."

My clients (and personal life lovers) don't have to ask, though I think it's sexy when they do. The right touch or buzz or pressure can be just the thing to make an already great experience truly unforgettable. I show them exactly how I like to be touched, and they show me how good they are at learning