I don't know if I can name names, but I was looking at the website of a provider and was not merely intrigued but actually enticed by this (partial) list of offerings:

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Forced Dressing
Force-Feeding
Forced Servitude
Hot Wax
** Housework
Humiliation
Ice Play
Mummification
Water Torture
** Financial Domination
Consentual Blackmail

I could really use some help with the Housework but, even though I'm pretty neat,  I'm afraid it might lead to Financial Domination!  

I wonder if rimming (cleaning under the rim of the toilet) is an upsell

I have my limits.

That's quite an interesting list of services.

I'm into some pretty kinky, dark, and twisted stuff myself.
But housework?...  Count me out.
A man has to draw the line somewhere.

I mean ewww....

And mummification?  LOL

Which reminds me...
Q- Why do mummies make great providers?
A- Because they are so good at keeping things under wraps

sounds like the menu offered at our local penitentiary..

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Lactation sessions and cooking a client a meal (Dinner date) smh  

I don't judge but what in the world is Mummification, forced water torture and consentual blackmail? You made my morning with this thread!  

Other than that everything seems pretty normal.  

rimming is a YMMV thing most of the time ...

I know some guys love to DATO, and while that's not my thing, (actually it kind of disgusts me) I can see how hot the cute little ass of a woman can be. OTOH I have a hard time imagining how sucking the hairy ass of a man would give a woman the least bit of pleasure, but I suppose there must be at least some women who get off on it somehow.

So, do any of you ladies actually enjoy giving rim jobs?

I honestly don't do things that I don't like to do; it's too hard for me to fake it.  

Contrary to popular belief, most people that enjoy receiving rim jobs (or any kind of anal play for that matter) are pretty conscious of their hygiene.  And if they're not? To the shower with them.  It's not rocket science. Also, men have way more nerves in the perineal region of the body, so it only makes sense why so many would enjoy receiving, and why so many would actually enjoy giving.  

If you're into giving people pleasure (which I definitely am), seeing reactions and hearing the noises that come out of people while doing certain things to them is intensely erotic.  Rim jobs are no different.  

But honestly, why start out this whole question with shaming people for enjoying something as innocuous and (quite frankly) commonplace as rimming?

We are on a fuck board after all, and these activities aren't harming any third-party.

These things are pretty commonplace in the world of BDSM and fetish; if you're not actually interested in this area of sex and feel it necessary to shame others who are, why even bother looking?

The person who is offering these things, especially housework, financial domination, and consensual blackmail has to have an incredible amount of patience and savvy, as clients requesting these services tend to be the most demanding and most difficult to please.  I personally stopped offering those services ages ago because I didn't have the energy to deal with the incredibly specific demands clients would have concerning how things were done (down to vocal intonation and word usage, mind you).

That being said, others do have that patience and do enjoy offering services that I myself don't find enjoyable.  I don't knock them for providing it, and i don't knock those who seek it out. There's obviously a market for these things, or else the provider in question wouldn't be offering them.  Is there something wrong with catering to a niche market? Does the fact that certain sexual wants and desires are indeed niche negate that those people with those needs should be able to have them serviced?There is damn near something for everyone, and there's really no need to knock down someone else's wants just because you don't understand them.  

I've mummified and shrink-wrapped lots of people. I've seen the most intense and uncontrolled orgasms of my life happen while in bondage like mummification.  It's an amazing thing to experience as both a giver and a receiver, but it's not for everyone.  

Nothing is for everyone.

It was an honest question. I am of the "live and let live" philosophy where it comes to sex acts.  

I am not questioning whether or not guys enjoy it. I have had many rim jobs and while I don't crave them like I do sex, blow jobs, etc, I do find them surprisingly pleasurable. I also get guys wanting to suck every possible orifice of a hot chick, even though that's not my thing. I just wondered how many women give rim jobs for HER own pleasure and not just because she knows the guy likes it. No shaming intended.

and for the record, if the chick was hot enough and clean enough, I am not saying I wouldn't ever give a rim job, but I would only be doing it for her pleasure, not my own. I will confess I really enjoy giving DATY both because it gets many women's 'motor running" and I just actually enjoy doing it.

but when you start off a question with a phrase similar to "the thought of it actually disgusts me", the implication is that those that do enjoy the act could be disgusting. Just a little food for thought, so to speak.

And just like you enjoy getting a lady all hot and bothered by applying your tongue to her cunt,  I happen to enjoy getting people excited by playing with their assholes. Everyone has a thing, yeah?

But I did not START my question that way, I put the emphasis on asking if there were women who actually enjoyed the activity, I put my personal feeling about it as an aside, even putting them in parenthesis, which is hardly STARTING the question in a demeaning matter to those who might be answering.

If I had asked a question about cock sucking and mentioned in the course of my asking that personally the idea of sucking a cock was disgusting, would you have the same angst over it?

As GaG's personal non preference. I also find it disgusting..the act, NOT those who partake. He did not say those who do it are disgusting..big difference.

To Alyson and Erin:  

No it wasn't!! It wasn't about the unnamed her. It was about ME!  

I've heard of almost everything on the menu. No judgement. No shame.  

I was making the HUMOROUS point that if I engage her for Housework, I might become so addicted to that and the other pleasures of her company that I will end up being an unintended but self-inflicted customer of the Financial Domination services!  

And there IS the added concern that scraping the bowl brush under the rim a few times and not just making sudsy water in the bowl will be an upsell. :-

That sounds amazing!!! Maybe I'll treat myself someday to this fetish. I've never done anything like this, but I'm pretty intrigued now.

Everyone on this board has their own kinks that would shock many people in the vanilla world. Who's to say that an intense saran-wrap orgasm is any more deviant that paying for a motel room quickie with a woman half your age?  The great thing about TER is that it is a sexual supermarket -- you can shop for the same thing each week or try something new. Thank goodness there are great ladies like Erin and Alyson who can help us expand our horizons in a safe and environment.

And thus... It begins. LOL

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and the PC crowd will have NONE of that.

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...have no problem condemning, criticizing, and disapproving of you.

and don't you REALLY love just how narrow minded and bigoted, not too mention sensitive, a bunch of hookers and johns can be?

You can't make the least little joke around here without pissing somebody off, and I guess that's why since I can't please everybody, I quit trying years ago. If someone gets pissed over a little joke, fuck em!!!

I remember the first time I ever heard that there was such a thing as the "R word", I mean honestly if a person really is a retard, what the fuck would he be doing on an internet fuck board anyhow???!!! and how would he/she even understand what I was saying, much less be offended? I've lost track of how many times I have been taken to task for using the "R" word. sheesh.

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