What the hell is that supposed to mean, anyway? I've read it in many ads, and figured if they aren't saying GFE, open minded must mean something less than that. This is one ridiculous piece of code I haven't managed to break.

Help me out?

Hey, riker,
I quess it all depends on what you girlfriends have been like.(not all my girlfriends have been open minded)
Open minded I would take to mean that you can convince her to do just about anything. She would be willing to engage in oral,anal and many positions.
On the other had a girlfriend type experience would be a girl that innitiates and participates enthusiastically in your games. They may or may not be widely varied sexually.
etienne

I've always thought it meant that a lady is "open" to pleasures that are outside of the mainstream.

It means they have a hole in their head?

OH NO!  I am one of those that state that I am open minded.  Some kind of code?  Not at all.  For me it simply means that if something is presented that I have never experienced before I am open for the new experience.  As long as it is safe and not a risk to my health and well being I am willing and want to try new things that may be presented.  Like What?  I'm not sure, depends on what it is and it may be something that I never even heard of before and wouldn't think to add to my site.

Does that take care of some of the confusion?

Lauren

I've generally found that it is a phrase to get a man's little head to take over so that he can be ripped off. I now always use TER and NEVER respond to "open minded"

http://theeroticreview.com/msgBoard/ViewMsgBody.asp?BoardID=12&Messageid=29050

When I talk about being "open minded" it tends to refer to fetish or kink.

And that makes it a "conversation ender" when I am asked it during screening or pre-meeting.  Dangerous ground.

My .02

Rebecca

open minded has meant so many different things to various providers...it doesn't seem to have one meaning ..all I want to find out was if the provider allowed kissing and recieving oral. yes yes I know see the reviews...but sometimes the reviews are not accurate, I know that is not neseccarily the norm...

What I got is not!!!!!!!!! But she used to be.... I think.... Mano, that was a long time ago.

When I think of a GFE, I think of the magic moment type experience where even touching hands is electric. I'm also lucky enough to have a few friends (one for 17 years) that, even if she walks in the room, I feel a shockwave run thru me. Familiarity has not faded the jolt.... But I think the charge is finite..... I'm sure daily exposure to me can kill anything...

Lustman is currently the luckiest man on earth!

to me open minded means that I am willing to hear what is being
proposed and I will entertain the idea, but that does,nt mean that I will be willing to do what has been proposed,( see easy
escape from issue ) and thank you to t10311387 for there thoughts
on the matter, my thoughts on the subject are very much the same
as there's are, and thanks to every one else for there input
for as we can see it means many different things to many people.
as for the original thread I have to say that I have never had
a provider use this term when I have inquried about services
available,

Dude.... I do share... that was something I had to come to grips with BEFORE SBE and I started dating.
Can't say I will feel that way forever (my crystal ball is in the shop) but for now, I have no problems with her chosen career other than she gets a lot more than I do! LOL
But that can be solved with a little cash and a TJ run!
LM

I will gladly wrap you in plastic wrap and pee on your head...sniff my armpits sure...wanna get dressed up like a girl no problem...basically to me it means if you have something off the wall you would like to experience that is within my comfort zone then I am up for it...It also means that I won't jusdge you afterwards.