here are some little things that mean a lot to me
** eye contact during any activity
** light finger nails on my back during missionary
** some natural moaning during coitus
** a neatly made bed, not still messed up from previous encounter
** and of course being told i am the only guy she goes bare 
what's on your list boys and girls
her hands grabbing my butt during mish, and/or her legs draped over my shoulders… and the light fingernails on my back afterwards. And I’ll give her a pass on eye contact during doggie or RCG. 🙂
I like nails digging into my back and being bit on my neck. Copious amounts of dirty talk. There was this ballerina man she was a fucking tigress. Whatever happened to her 😂
**Freshly showered
**No semen on her breath
**No wet spots on the bed
**No gagging noises during DT**
**No cell phone use during session
**No gasping when I drop my drawers
**No semen coming out of her nose during BBBJ-CIM
**If she has an artificial limb, she keeps it on during the session
**some unnatural moaning while I move from VJ to rectum to BBBJ
**and of course being told I am the only guy she has gone bare with in the past two hours
I'll ignore the 4th as I know it was largely humor but 1-3 agree. Also for those mentioning no phone during the session (unless it's something we're doing together like looking at some personal pics looking up something of common interest or translation) fully agree.
One of my ATFs, at least the last couple of times I've seen her, seems to have developed the habit of stopping at the door to the bedroon and putting her phone on the floor outside the room. I think it's a great touch that says "For the next hour (or however long the session might be) I will focus on you.".
Sitting aside the sex part, there’s a lot of little things that make a huge difference for me.
Make eye contact*
Be completely present from beginning to end
Zero phone
Don’t be sloppy drunk
Deal w cash in bathroom
Don’t make me interrupt your monologue to get busy
Don’t talk just to talk; ask a hypothetical, give an unpopular opinion.
Don’t wear mismatched lingerie
Bring plenty of condoms
Ask before you empty the mini bar
Don’t pry, if I blow off a personal question drop it
Be beyond squeaky clean. If I’m not your only appointment today, never give me any way to guess that
* not just while giving head
Posted By: nevertoolarge
here are some little things that mean a lot to me
** and of course being told i am the only guy she goes bare
So you only date K-Girls? or do you actually know other providers (of various types, backgrounds and levels) who WILL do unprotected sex? Setting aside the absolute bonkers mentality behind this, I assume there is at least some TESTING done immediately prior to the hookup?
Naturally, being told by a provider/escort/prostitute/courtesan that you are the ONLY man who does or does not do something to her (or for her.... or with her) is most likely a lie designed to flatter the client, or endear the woman to the client so as to assure future payouts and or gifts, etc. What I have seen, heard, experienced and learned the last several months has led me to a level of cynicism about this whole "Industry" that, just a year or two ago, I never would have thought possible for me
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Lets just say it was an interesting post and I didn't wan't to take the bait but here I am. The last bullet point, when juxtaposed with the first three bullet points, tell quite the story....
**Freshly showered
**No semen on her breath
**No wet spots on the bed
To be honest I was aghast when reading this stuff because this behavior is well below bare minimum for me. You just have to remind yourself that not everyone's experiences are universal. Different guys seek out different things and different market segments. A lot of guys complaints and experiences come down to the choices they make. Keep that in mind when guys start talking like they are experts about everything. Some posters here are budget conscious and tend to seek out providers that cost less, but make up for that with higher volume. You just have to learn to sift through all the crap to see what is and what isn't relevant. On top of that there are a lot of trolls around this part of the internet and you gotta learn to not feed them.
on several of your observations. Most of my bullet points were things I experienced in my first year of seeing providers before I discovered TER and Kgirls, but they are nevertheless, legitimate things to avoid that DO happen from time to time. I was finding indies on Eros and ThatMall in those days. I will be the first to admit that I started to scale back on my spending with providers when I crossed the one-million-dollar mark about three years ago. It lasted about a year and a half before I started backsliding. I've always been a sucker for getting good value for the money I spend, and as long as there are underpriced providers out there considering the level of looks and service they offer, it's going to be really hard for me to stay on any kind of budget.
I've said this before, but I hobby three days a week on average. Years ago, I would see two new girls a week for an hour each and one repeat for two hours (all repeats are two hours for me), but since Covid hit, I have gravitated to seeing regulars more which means more repeats which average $900-1000 a session with tips for Kgirls, a few hundred more for indies. I go up to $600/hour for the indies I see. Nevertheless, anyone can do the math and see that I'm still out of control to a certain extend on my provider spending.
The only point I disagree with you on is that the trolls here are not that many and usually easily identifiable because they tend to sling their shit using an alias. Real mongers don't hide out. Even QB has complained about snarky aliases giving her a hard time and she can't put them on ignore.
*sucking my toes while fucking my holes
*bringing wine and snacks
*a dinner date or night out with me as desert
*not rubbing your stubble on me, anywhere
*little cash gifts in between between meets, just because
** like the no phone during and the lady who puts it down outside the room gets extra points
** no bare within the last 2 hours ! LOL that was funny .. kinda! sadly in some cases not always not true !
** dirty talk is wonderful when its real .. its a turn off when its obviously fake with zero emotion behind it
that after i cum and laying there ..the lady goes and gets a small washcloth, makes it moist with very warm water and uses it to clean me up.
she grew up in a place where the local men were pansies and there was a scarcity of Lesbians.
Isn’t this a given? I aim to please so I ensure I do all of these and more.
