I actually like the "no menu" concept as I think everything in P4P is YMMV anyway. I dislike providers who have a menu based on what you pay. "Pay more/get more" just destroys the session for me. I guess I don't like the constant reminders/demands for $. I'm sure I'd quit P4P if providers started handing out menus (laminated, of course) ... I'm sure someone is feeding her "idea" into a shredder right now. LOL
OK a joke, and I know they don't go here, but fuck it.
A Scottish man, an Englishman and an Irishman were sitting in a pub discussing the best pubs around. The Englishman says, ''There's a pub in the West Midlands where the landlord (bartender) buys you a drink for every drink that you buy.'' The Scot is not impressed and says, ''That's nothing! In the Highlands every time you buy a drink the landlord buys you five.'' At this point the Englishman is fairly impressed. The Irishman, totally unimpressed, says ''That's nothing. In Dublin there's this pub where the landlord buys your drinks all night, and then when the bar shuts he, or she, takes you into a room and you get to have sex with several of the best-looking patrons from the bar.'' The Scot and Englishman are well impressed and ask if the Irishman goes there a lot. He replies ''No, but my sister told me about it, and she does.''
Posted By: chelseaxlane
Many of my sex working friends started of doing FBST, then moved into escorting. For them, it's a good way to get their feet wet in a more controlled environment, so they can see what it's all about. Same thing with "menu" upgrades (though I dislike the concept of menus, and don't have one myself): certain activities may seem to be too intimate to perform with strangers, at first, but once they get right down to it, they realize it's actually not a big deal to them, and it is something they're comfortable providing.
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While I don't like to think of what I offer as a menu of services, what I do with any individual gentleman depends on how comfortable I am with him in particular. For example, I am more open to experimenting with gentlemen I have seen more than once, simply because I am more comfortable with them. It seems rather vanilla, but it's just my preference.