So, other than money, what do you think younger women might find attractive about older guys. Provider input welcome!

Had a SB living down the street who was 21 at the time. She wanted to be with an older man. Admitted that it was one of her kinks. Not just 10 or 20 years older. She was very orally gifted and enjoyed toys.

Are not in a rush to bust that nut. Knowing we likely have only one round in the chamber, we're likely to take our time and not act like a pneumatic drill with legs.

Older guys are probably not looking to pound the pussy for the whole session.

Sometimes they will offer FS, i.e. intercourse, and call it either VIP or something like "intimate time".

Besides daddy issues,
Less actual sex.
Deeper pockets as sugar daddies.

respond to sincerity.  Older guys are much more experienced than younger guys at faking sincerity, so they are more likely to attract the interest of all younger women, not just providers.

Sam is said to have said -
"The most important thing in movies is sincerity.  Once you know how to fake that, you've got it made."

Money.

"You can fool all the people all the time if the advertising is right and the budget is big enough."

I was a dick.  I'm far more responsive now.  Back then I just assumed women had the same sex drive, loved to fuck, hear dirty jokes, give head, etc.  now, I know what the women around me are down for.  I know what I want.  It's easier for me to be clear about sex.  

I will see guys of any age (over 18, of course) but my sideshow includes a lot of Seinfeld references and most guys under the age of 35 will not get any of them. And then there is just awkward silence, and that is awkward.

Been called Daddy during sex by a few girls, unprompted. Daddy issues is a thing for some of these young girls! Turn off for me because I don't have Lolita complex.

If you tried that on me and I didn't get it, it's because I don't watch much television lol.

We treasure the experience and I think the younger ladies appreciate that,
What I like to do is make this whole thing feel like a real date, not a business thing.
I would like to think that’s what young ladies like that .., or I hope they would.
But I’m just guessing because lately I’ve been pursuing women over 40. They seem more to my level these days 🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️

You make a good point. Like you, I prefer older women for the same reasons. I guess the same might be true for providers

I completely agree! That's been my experience as well

First I’m full of compliments about the provider. Next I make sure to express how lucky I am to be there! Then I take the soft, slow, sexy approach! I always tip, as long as the provider has an open mind and a good attitude!  In return it’s nice to get a compliment about my tongue or my unit! Probably any additional attraction on the part of the provider is fantasy! In most cases, I’m truly attracted to the provider! The right to choose and pay is the great thing about this hobby!

I think women that like older men like the status, wealth and power that can come with age. It isn't a looks thing. When women are in their early 20's a lot of guys their age don't have any money or responsibility. They get tired of dealing with fuckboys. They're looking for a guy who has his shit together enough to schedule dates and the money to pay for it. You can be older but you still need to wear nice clothes, take care of your appearance, have status and money. If you're some old drunk guy sitting at a random bar with jeans and a stained t-shirt you're probably not going to get any attention, even from women who like older men.

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You are absolutely correct.  Everything except your last sentence has been consistent with my personal experiences as well.  This still works for me well into my 60's.  

I saw a young female stand-up comedian say she was only dating men over 40 from now on. Money and status may have figured into it, but what she articulated was having a date with someone who didn't dress like a college sophomore, who could express complex thoughts in complete sentences, who exercised basic courtesy, and who asked questions AND listened to the answers.  

If you look like her grandpa then I'm sure she may not find you attractive and may want to get in and get out. But if you carry yourself as a "Worldly" kinda guy, in shape, dresses nice and have an engaging way about yourself then you'll capture her attention.
I'm gonna be honest here though, I don't think younger women really want to be with guys who looks like their grandpa and enjoy their time.

Fantasy is one of the many things

life I have always dated older guys. When I say older gents is my forte is not for ad marketing I really do enjoy and prefer the company of an older man even in my personal life. My last mate was 17yrs older than me and we were together for 10+yrs until he passed away. I learned so many things about life how to deal with people,business ventures,and how to deal with taking care of elderly parents. I find attractive that older gents know how to adapt to surroundings. They are more likely to wear a suit or dress attire if the occasion calls for it. The younger guys will show up wearing something too casual or inappropriate for the occasion.The info has helped me so much in the past and in current times.
Maturity and going through life and experiences. With age comes wisdom. I do not ever see myself dating a younger man or even one the same age as me.  
I adore a man with a bald head it is so sexy to me.
Just my .02

A well reviewed Provider I was friendly with once told me practically all of her clients were older guys.  It wasn't a question of preference, but rather that's where the money is.  She told me younger guys just didn't have the finances to pay for play.  The younger guys are still dealing with career advancement, kids, trying to save enough to buy homes, cars etc. etc.

Henry Kissinger had a reputation for trysts, including one well-publicized one with a belly dancer.  When asked to explain why women were attracted to him, he said power is the ultimate aphrodisiac.  Older men typically have more influence as well as more money.

the Hollywood actress Jill St. John.

No woman really  care about sone wrinkled up grey headed, old fart , with a belly and erectile problems.

Hey ! I know that..

Disagreeing with you (with a caveat).

First, it's not always fair to make generalizations; I'm happy to have seen young and older men who were wonderful.

http://nypost.com/2023/11/29/news/henry-kissinger-dated-several-celebrities-in-his-younger-days/
Henry Kissinger, once called ‘Washington’s greatest swinger,’ dated several celebs as a younger man.
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"... Kissinger romanced quite a few well-known ladies before settling down. During his bachelor days, he had been seen with the likes of Candice Bergen, Shirley MacLaine, Jill St. John, Marlo Thomas, Liv Ullman, and Samantha Eggar, as well as Diane Sawyer, then a White House staffer, according to Reuters. ..."
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http://www.whosdatedwho.com/dating/barbara-walters
Barbara Walters dating history.
"... Barbara Walters was previously married to Merv Adelson (1986 - 1992), Lee Guber (1963 - 1976) and Robert Henry Katz (1952 - 1958). Barbara Walters was in relationships with Edward Brooke (1974 - 1977), Henry Kissinger and Roy Cohn. ..."
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(I seem to recall stories that Baba Wawa and Kissinger were secretly living together for a while. THAT is how she was able to secure some exclusive interviews with Kissinger.)  
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zcns3A-IHMQ

$$$ , converation substance, no quicky, $$$, experience, maturity, respect, $$$....

Another evidence point on providers liking older guys.

When I was in my 20s, older men had that irresistible “grown-ass man” energy. They had life experience, actual opinions, and matching socks, a rare combo at the time. I was drawn to their confidence, their stories, and the fact that they could give real life advice without Googling it first.

Gen X and older are still old fashioned and do the flowers, candy, pay for expensive first dayee, spoil me thing…

Keep thinking that.