**Note** I would really love to see this forum "rocking" with lively discussions on a wide spectrum of topics, with more of the lovely intelligent female providers chiming in and letting the male clients know (a little) more about them without divulging their whole story..... perhaps facilitating future dates because now you have a little more insight into each other....use this forum as a way to stand out and market yourself!**

I don't automatically start fantasizing about sex within 5 minutes of meeting. Sex is not the goal. Conversations can turn me on. I love shamelessly flirting over being wined & dined. Everyone is different. I love kinky fun over vanilla play, but am also a hopeless romantic.  

Just made a quick trip to the grocery store. I see a young woman coming in my direction. Pretty face, beautiful long hair, slim and fit body, nice legs (she's wearing a short skirt). She makes eye contact and flashes a quick smile as we pass.
I'm immediately fantasizing about those legs draped over my shoulders as I eat her pussy.

I understand where you are coming from Bia....and thanks for responding.  

I go to two places. The first thing I think when I see or first meet an attractive woman is imagining them without clothes. I’m an ass man, so I like to see them from the side and from behind before I speak to them. The image I’ve formed at that point either pushes me to a conversation or I move on. If I find her ass inviting, I start the conversation with the picture in my mind never leaving my brain - unless she’s a complete moron or is a raging woke preacher. I’m not meaning to be political - I don’t care what you personally believe, but if you lead with it, you’re out. I’m afraid of a sexual assault claim later. Assuming all is good, I’m with Queen B, some good, old-fashioned flirting goes a long way, and gets me fired up. Once in a while, that initial picture of her ass becomes reality as I watch my cock hammer her from behind. Ahhhhhhh…

how to burn the clock on the customer's dime before delivering on what he came for in the first place.  Lol

Tell me you made eye contact back, that way you can give her an inviting look 😊. You can never tell 🤷🏼‍♀️😁🤪

I'd like to think I am, but I'm probably not as much of one as I think I am.

You're not much of anything that you THINK you are.  Lol  

That's what I am starting to like about this forum, picking up terminology I have not heard in a long time, if at all.....Slack Jawed Perv is a good one....

Whoa....is that part of the "life coaching" skills you teach?   I just took a peek at your website....it didn't take 5 minutes....or 30 seconds....mercy!

I guess I should have said " we made I contact."
You're right, one can never tell, but in a grocery store, the fantasy was probably the most I could come away with happily.  

Unlike the majority here, I typically wouldn’t indulge in my fantasy thoughts immediately. Let’s say I see a hot guy (or girl occasionally) that makes me feel a little tingly. I tend to take a mental photo and move along.  
Later when I settle in to a future masturbation session, I will conjure up that mental photo and let my imagination run wild.

Ah, the self control of a beautiful, mature woman....

Within minutes of any post I make, he's there professing his desire to give me a sloppy BBBJ, using his indirect idiom of self-hatred of course.  

lol Helixir.....give the man a shot, you never know, you and cour de lion might be "soul mates" .....minus the soul part ....hehe (just kidding....I think....)

King of passive aggression.  One of his tells is when he says, "I MAY be guilty, too, sometimes.. . . ." before he levels a personal attack against someone.  But you have to respect the chutzpah of a guy who once bragged on this forum that he had been a TER member for 25 years, but at the time he said it, TER had only been in existence for 23 years.  That brings us to his other tell, whenever he is caught in a lie like this, he removes his own post, which removes the other responses to it as well.  We call that a "post-puller" and is disrespectful to all of the members who took the time to post on the branch below his post.  However, if he is just butt-hurt over someone being "mean" to him, he can report it to admin, and they will sometimes remove the post that offends his delicate sensitivities.  You will notice that not a lot of people will engage with him because there is a good chance at some point, their effort to participate in the conversation may be removed.  Some of the Yutes here tend to be self-centered.

It must be hard having such a jones for me and no way to satisfy it but typing words in your mother's darkened basement.  

Nordstrom SCP in the 90s. WOW! There was a tall beautiful blonde named Sam in men's suits (and shirts and ties) who got all my business. She knew exactly what I liked and would pull items from the Men's and Anniversary Sales for me before the sale and save them until I could get there. I worked so hard to break her away from her metrosexual pretty boy Euro boyfriend but alas I was unsuccessful. Last I heard they were Married with Children. Dammit!

intelligent, you would come up with something new.  No wonder providers find you boring.  Lol

I have not been to South Coast Plaza in nearly a decade after I moved back home to New England from California ....I think Labor day weekend 2014....what's it truly like these days?    It's an example of how only the HUGE shopping malls in densely populated regions are the ones to decisively survive in the age of the internet.  Places of such size truly have their own momentum and can weather the erosion of sales from e-commerce because they are big and diverse, and are a "Destination" instead of simply a "place to buy more shit we don't really need...."

I really love this post!  
For me, in the first 5 minutes of meeting an attractive date I'm for sure initially focused on his mouth. I imagine him putting his hands on my face and kissing me gently at first. Small, soft kisses  that lead to delicious deep french kisses where we are ravenous for one another...  
Then I imagine his sexy mouth between my legs, licking and kissing and tonguing me into oblivion.  
From there I focus on his hands, imagining him fingering me. Slowly at first, and then harder, with an added finger, finger f**king me til I beg  to ride him. And last but definitely not least  I set my sights on his delicious member, looking at his pants, staring at the outline of his buldging c*ck while I imagine him deep inside my wetness as I grab his ass & pull him deeper and deeper inside me.....

are looking for a man they can control.  I know that's not you or me, and I have a feeling it wouldn't be Gus either.   Lol

pretty girls work at malls and ugly girls work in fast food places.  

What's your excuse then? why do you have such a gigantic stick up your ass?