Short and fat is bad for anal, you want long and skinny for that.
Question for our ladies..Do you prefer 3 to 5 or 6 to 8 ? Which would be a better fit?,,
always has the biggest and best schlong.
On a serious note the length does not matter, it is the girth. Short and fat is best, kind of like the average guy that posts on this board.
xoxo
Short and fat is bad for anal, you want long and skinny for that.
That's not true for everyone. I'd rather have either a big fat, long cock or a smaller, shorter one. Nothing like a pencil shoved up my ass 😂🤣
many years ago a close female friend of mine dates this guy ...third date they get naked .. he unrolls what she referred to as a knockwurst ! .. says " i aint housing that! " LOL .. never saw him again, sad her jaw hurt for 3 days afterward LOL
so extremes are always bad . ladies correct me if wrong 5 to 8 all those work but yes girth is the key.
....is the girth of the wallet 😁
Size matters in real life ... height that is. Guys under 5'10" have extreme trouble, on average, finding women willing to date them.
Disagree. The ONLY size that matters in guys are the guy(s) that stretch your whore out just before you, making it feel like your fKing a plastic bag.
Oh boy, look, a biology lesson right away in the morning! The only thing that can stretch a vagina out that much would be a BABY. There is no dick big enough on the earth to stretch out a vagina. None. Zero. Not even yours.
Ignorant question. You obviously don't know much about basic biology.
I don't know where you came up with that Lester, but you are wrong. I am just under 5'6" and never had a problem finding a woman to date. Several were also taller than me, and slim and beautiful. I like women of all heights but my preference is is for the really petite girls.
As for other size, I am 'average' length but a bit thick, and have always received good feedback. The girls I have had sex with have almost all said the same thing - very large cocks can be uncomfortable or painful, making for a less than fun time.
So what you really mean is when there is more competition, the lower competition loses out. That might, MIGHT, make sense if everything else about men was the same. But there is more to looks than just height. And then there is personality. And there is wealth. We are not so simple that height is all that matters. I’m 5’9” and certainly did above average. I’ve known plenty of guys over 6 feet who had less game than me. Your logic is flawed.
I know ladies like the 'girth' but it can be a problem for us . You'd be surprised how many otherwise fine providers are unable to handle the girth orally. Some get offended, or at least unpleasantly surprised, when you mention the teeth too. It happens to me from time to time including the last time I saw an escort.
As for length... yes, I know it's a double edge sword. Some women love it, some women hate it. Men with large cocks promote a legend that most if not all women want 'big dicks'. Women who like 'big dicks' would often say that all women are like them. Nonsense.
Many would tell you that the proverbial 'black' size is painful and not enjoyable. Providers definitely prefer smaller dicks for obvious reasons. Moreover, you'd be surprised how often one's partner 'big dick' ends up as the main cause for ending relationships in general.
On the other hand, there are also seem to be women that would sale their soul for the 'big dick'. I suspect those women also enjoy sex on the rougher side.
What I found interesting is that these preferences don't depend on the size of a woman. You'd think that it should be proportional: a smaller female would prefer shorter fit and a larger woman would go for larger dick size. Nop. You'd see spinners that go for 'the bigger the better', and larger chicks that prefer it 'on the smaller side'. Each physic and mentality is different. That applies to all homo sapiens whether male or female or... lmao
The size of the ship that matters so much it is the motion of the ocean
or some may say different strokes for different folks
It's not the size of the boat - it's can the captain keep the boat in port long enough to get all of the passengers off?
One must also consider the depth and width of the channel when entering port.
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Especially the GIANT crabs.
It's not the size of the boat - it's can the captain keep the boat in port long enough to get all of the passengers off?
I don't think that size matter much. The main thought is how good are you in pleasing the Female that you are pleasing.
Are you kind & caring? Idgaf about your personal anatomy. Are you clean & respectful? Judging by your long list of whitelist I can assume the ladies like you. Hopefully, for more than your dick size. I do dick ratings it’s a thing now. Providers get paid to rate your penis. Send me a selfie 🤳 I can give you my professional opinion…
lol smile for me! 😁 Seriously, I do dick ratings daily it’s fun! 🤩 🔗 below 👇 virtual fun.🤩
Damn autocorrect doesn’t like dick. 😂 I am funny.
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For me anyway.... I have 3 holes that can accommodate 🤣😂 A person's energy and passion, is what really gets me going though.
Speaking as someone on the, *ahem*, larger package variety - there are some things women are just far less willing to do with me.
For example, I've only met 2 - yes, 2 - women who will accomodate Greek.
I met some size queens for whom my average ass dick wasn't enough
I met some very tight women for whom my average dick was too big. And by the way - these encounters were not too fun. When a lady is struggling it is no fun.
I stopped worrying about dick size in like college. Not saying the op is worrying about it, but just in general. The benefits of a big ass dick are overstated. Sure you'll have some sex obsessed size queens on your side but when you struggle fitting half of that thing in a tight young Asian vagina, for example, it kinda sucks (or so I heard).
If you're looking to please a lady.
A lot (if not most?) women don't cum from vaginal penetration anyway.
If you look through the lens of an individual encounter, you are likely to find average wins out. More women probably want that sweet spot. Nothing too big. Nothing too small.
But what this fails to take into account is supply and demand. The supply of average sized dicks is plentiful. Your average sized dick. My average sized dick. Anyone else's average sized dick. They are not unique or hard to find. So, even though more women want average sized dicks, they have zero reason to chase a man becuase they found out he has an average sized dick. There are enough averaged sized dicks for them to choose from.
Small dicks. Well. Sorry fellas. Unless it's a fetish, women are not likely to chase a man for his small dick.
But if you got an anaconda, you are in rare air. You will scare some women away. You will not be in the most demand. But when word gets out, there will be like 12 women chasing your short supply large ass dick. Over the years, many have interpreted this as more women want super large dicks. No. They do not. But it doesn't take more when you are in short supply. It just takes enough for you to have a steady supply to fuck for others to think you have what most women want.
The internet has many studies on this, but from a provider perspective, what is actually average?
Theoretically, 5.7 inches, and the exact girth of the inside of a toilet paper roll.
Have no idea if that is really true..
Toilet paper roll? Maybe it's just me but that seems pretty big.
Really? The inside of one? I thought that was average too, but idk. That’s about what I’m working with and always thought of myself as average.
so how many guys are now sticking themselves inside a toilet paper roll at home to compare !?!?!?! LOL
HA!
Poor man’s fleshlight??
Hey, I guess things are tough all over. Damn inflation.
That seems a bit big, I would say average for girth is between a quarter and a 50 cent piece.
5.7 inches I think sounds average for length.
What what the actual fuck? That’s thin af. A 50 cent piece isn’t much bigger than a quarter. But heck you have seen more dicks than me. Numerous ladies have commented on my girth and I always assumed they were lying because it’s their job and my length is only 6 inches. I swear I thought they were trying to make me feel better about being average. Now I’m thinking maybe they weren’t lying.
There seems to be a huge number of people that must be measuring differently. So, I was told that especially TS providers claim sizes that are most times overstated. Girth is easier to measure accurately, but who gives their girth? Photography can be manipulated to increase apparent size. So, any measure of size is subject to question.
But, what I was told, by a really nice provider, was that hardness means more than length. She was nice enough to give me an honest assessment of my size, which she was very happy with. But what she really went over the moon about was how hard I got and stayed. And, told me that she appreciated all the oral. So, really having heard much the same from some others, I don’t think about it anymore and just enjoy.
Size doesn't matter me, how he uses what he's got is what matters to me! It doesn't matter how big he is if he doesn't know how to use it!
In my 40+ years of booking pros, every provider I've seen has said the following when I reach into my pants:
"Oh my! That is a HUGE wallet! I can't want to get my hands wrapped around that!" Good times follow...
Guess size really does matter after all.
Life is good
The Cat
But does it matter to the provider or do they know it matters to most clients and therefore complementing our size is part of their performance? Imagine if a provider said, “Oh my that’s small.”
What if she says instead: "Gosh, that looks just like a penis. Only smaller."
Or giggles and says "Oh, how cute!"
But I really don't think any ever would outside some movie.
I mean, a provider telling a client his penis is small is probably the worst thing she can possibly say. It's one of those things unless she client wants her to say it or be 100% honest, that she should never say... so many men are sensitive about their penis size.
Hell, I had a provider tell me once when encouraging me for round two that a client before me was more than twice my age and he had no problem with getting up for round 2 and fucking her hard.
.And I definitely should have had thicker skin... but that certainly rubbed me in a very wrong way for some reason. I didn't say anything, but that put a damper on the session from my side.
I could only imagine a provider mocking a client about dick size... oh boy.
That is a person who either just had a horrible day/moment or is mentally unbalanced. I cant imagine telling escort A that "escort B is much hotter than you and more skilled."
What would the point even be and how would that help her or you? smh.
I suppose it's just another aspect of the YEMV. Personally I've never had a provider say anything negative about me or my performance. The smarter ones seem to just be complimentary (but unreal in their claims) and act to make the experience enjoyable (and sometimes even memorable) some with a bit less experience perhaps go a bit over board. Certainly not the type of provider I would repeat with.
But I would also not find it a motivating event and I suspect my opinon about the statement would be visible even without my saying anything.
Yeah. And that was the thing. When I was trying hard to go for round 2 DIY after she gave up after like five minutes (for a service oriented kgirl very uncommon) and I was failing in a manner that was uncommon to me, she said that...and I was already kinda..not embarrassed but annoyed with myself... And it only made things worse for me trying to get the little general to wake the eff up.
She also jokes a lot so it was hard to tell when she said something seriously or as a joke. Still, I would think on first date it's not something you joke about.
I'm not here to complain tho. She was overall a good lay and had good service. But it's something she could have avoided saying and it would be a much better session.
So I think speaking on client performance or size negatively especially during a session, especially during first ever session with the client, is just a no-no.
my Cock was kinda' small!
Yeah, I replied, but it stays hard all the time^^!
This IS a terrible thing to say to someone and you are correct, it should not be part of the visit unless it is something that the guy is into (I do get humiliation requests, so it is not that uncommon).
But....I am going to have to be that person and bring up the "honestly in reviews". Providers also have feelings and yes, reviews should be honest, but as you can see from this situation it can be very devastating to a provider's self esteem when rude comments are made about looks, weight, age etc. just like it would be for a provider to comment on your penis size and hardness. How would you guys feel if providers did reviews on guys and this is all that was the focus? For full disclosure we don't. I have never had another provider comment on a client's penis size, ability to get hard or stay hard, or ejaculate, or looks, for that matter. Never happens. We discuss clients being clean, polite, on time, not pushing boundaries, and any issues with payment or screening.
I don't think anyone needs to get thicker skin but I do think everyone needs to remember the person they are with is a human being with feelings, male or female, client or provider.
Aside from me being the person who wrote the post? My post had nothing to do with that at all! And of course I will be blamed for taking it off topic. I know I will. Oh well. Buckle up.
Please don't compare a review of a session and what is said during the session. If I think food at restaurant sucks, that doesn't mean I absolutely have to go run to the chef and tell him personally it sucks. But I can certainly put it in a review.
"reviews should be honest, but"
There is no but. Reviews should be honest. Period. The end. No les miserables sob stories and appeal to emotions should change that. Reviews are done by consumers for consumers.
"How would you guys feel if providers did reviews on guys and this is all that was the focus? "
I can't speak for everyone, but sure. Id have zero problems with it. Outside of a session I really don't care. The review of guys wouldn't be written for other guys. It would be written for other providers. Why would I care what other providers think of me? Not to mention providers don't mind a guy with a small dick or a guy who can't go round two. On the contrary, I would assume most will take him over a stallion who fucks hard af for an hour or someone with a donkey dick.
If I was selling dick, Id have no problem being told my shit is too small or soft. I mean, if I were a Gigolo I'd be responsible for my stuff being in best shape for coitus.
I think you're losing focus here trying to compare evaluation of product and service by consumers for consumers...... to someone evaluating a customer who brings money. My reviews are never written for businesses. They are written for other consumers. And so honesty is the main thing.
I know kgirls have a network where they talk and discuss customers. Some customers have nicknames and such. Often they aren't too great. Who cares? As long as they don't tell us this during a sesh I personally don't care.
As far as mean comments, I don't condone going out of your way to deliberately write constant mean things, but we need a definition of what mean things are before I fully agree with you. I think saying things such as unattractive, old, fat aren't mean. They are descriptors of what the looks are like and looks in this biz are very important to most. (Ironically, they aren't as important to me, but I am a sex addict who is a service addict. Lol). Lazy is also a fine descriptor when it comes to service. Lack of stamina. Etc.
I completely gave you a chance to take the high road and you....didn't.
Best in luck with life bud, you will need it.
xoxo
You "gave me a chance" ?
Thanks I guess, but I dont remember asking for one. I was just telling my story. Seems I somehow struck a nerve with you talking about how honest reviews are vital and now you try to bring it up every time I post something you see as related.
Best of luck to you too. I don't really know you so I don't know whether you'll need it or not. I never had an issue with you and I enjoy your posts most of the time. See you around on the boards? Lol
The fact that you continue to double down speaks volumes.
Any who, my mother once told me that arguing with a fool just makes you look like a fool as well. I am going to take her advice and move along.
Stay sane and stay safe....
But you have, all because I "doubled down"?
Oh well. I explained my position well enough and I was very polite and non-confrontational. What did that get me? Ah yes being called a fool.
Thanks I guess. Have a great day!
I prefer 5" to 10"
is if it's too big. Most providers I have met agree on that.