if any....
on: well established providers who suddenly become delisted (or banned?) after getting multiple horrid reviews and whining about it? ... Let's get honest here. Sometimes ladies get a few bad reviews mixed in, for whatever reason. I am speaking about gals who got 6 in a row.pretty telling that something has changed, maybe her attitude, service, or she lost an arm or a leg in a car accident, but she is still "stumped" as to the reason. Any of these can impact the score a reviewer might give. There is an old saying: If one person calls you an ass, its just their opinion, of two people all you an ass, they could still both be wrong, when three people call you an ass, its time to buy a saddle. Six in row is a suggestion that she should consider retirement, IMO.
I would rather focus on ladies who have 6 good ones in a row. I went back and looked at my early reviews from 13-15 years back: three of those ladies are still providing under their original escort names and still getting solid reviews. That said, career burn out is a real thing. I had one lady I saw frequently when she toured my city tell me how lonely it was touring, the time between clients and the travel. She eventually stopped touring and only provides in her local area now.
MfSD>>>>
I think it is an indicator on her.... but not necessarily that she is directly a horrible gal who finally got called out.
IMHO it could be multiple factors which can mean at the end of the day having burnout... whether it be her personal life not going so great or getting jaded about doing this. Sometimes a few horrid experiences can bring an attitude when seeing the rest.
I was just curious on thoughts. As a client, I wouldn't go see her til she took a break from doing this and got into a better place.
I think most ladies (if not all) at some point feel stressed or annoyed about all we have to do, which doesn't even necessarily have to even do with bad experiences. Could be something as simple as being contacted all of the time by not so respectful guys that we refuse to see. We all deal with that. Thing is, got to learn to let things go and move on, not let it become an attitude thing.
That she has gotten jaded and no lomger gives the kind of service that she once did. Or, she pissed some guy off and him and 5 friends did revenge reviews. Or, she hasnt been feeling well lately and the reviews reflect the lackluster performance. Or, she ran into a group of homest reviewers for a change? Dunno, without knowing whom you are talking about I can't say, there are tons of possible reasons. I do agree that 1 or 2 mixed into otherwise great reviews mean notbing. But 6? Indication of a problem.
a provider who has six bad reviews. Those reviews are screaming, "you're not gonna have a good time". Kind of makes you wonder what the last couple of reviewers were thinking.
you run into a time period where the work performance slips. This can be due to a multitude of reasons including issues at home whether it be a spouse or SO, elderly parents, other types of family issues with siblings, neighbors, etc.
Last but least would be disinterest in your work. It is possible a provider gets mentally fatigued by multiple bad clients, clients who are gross, etc.
Who am I to concern myself with what someone else chooses to do or not do if it doesn't directly impact me?
You want to know what I think about? This...
I guess I am not surprised, considering the competitive nature of womanhood in general, that escorts don't really support each other -- like guys would support a 'bro.
I've noticed this when GaGa and his gang of lickspittles go after some escort, usually just for the sport of it. I've never seen a fellow escort come to her defense -- more likely to join in the dog pile against her.
So it is not surprising when an escort burns out suddenly -- at the first sign of trouble she's abandoned by all -- smashing the illusion that there was someone out there, anyone that would say a good word in her behalf.
I'm thinking of some specific cases, but if BOTH sides (clients and escorts) are bashing someone it might be LEGITIMATE reinforcement that it's deserved.
I guess I am not surprised, considering the competitive nature of womanhood in general, that escorts don't really support each other -- like guys would support a 'bro.
I've noticed this when GaGa and his gang of lickspittles go after some escort, usually just for the sport of it. I've never seen a fellow escort come to her defense -- more likely to join in the dog pile against her.
So it is not surprising when an escort burns out suddenly -- at the first sign of trouble she's abandoned by all -- smashing the illusion that there was someone out there, anyone that would say a good word in her behalf.
No one should ever feel abandoned if they are a good person. Not ever. The Board mentality is different than twitter. I for one have found a whole lot of support from other ladies who actually cared about one another. It is why I spend my free time helping good ladies who may need help.
Burn out is real. I even experienced it. I made sure twice in all the 10 plus years to take time off (because I save $) to enjoy life and find a balance so that I can enjoy my time with others and not be pissy about unrelated things that I would take out on others (or could potentially). We all need breaks, We all need to find happiness in life. I make sure that when I meet with guys, I am happy to see them and looking forward to it. Now I just need a screener and I would be happy 100% of the time when I tour lol. Things really are so much easier if you only see regulars vs going somewhere new and dealing with new people.
The Marino Bill that gutted the power of the DEA to enforce illegal distribution of opioids was passed thru Congress by "unanimous consent" without any dissenting comments. Both sides were NOT bashing the bill and sent it to the White House for signing.
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(Because there was no recorded vote, just "unanimous consent," I am sure that many up for reelection will proclaim "I DID NOT VOTE for that horrible bill!")
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I will stick to the "case by case" part, however.
I have spent 9 plus years defending gals if I felt the joking was going too far. This is very well known.
Some great ladies have been ran off the boards by not having thick skin or didn't like that they got called on their "holier than thou" posts.
I am a realist. I see both sides. I am not too stupid to see what both entitled guys and girls pull.
I give shit back, always have... but it my own sense of humor. I will say most ladies the treatment it is offputting.... but for me, you putz back in playful manner.... you all embrace it.
There are plenty of ways to handle a situation. Humor always is the best. Did you see me flip out because CDL said my fat ass wasn't to his liking? No. I told him he is just afraid I would break his dick. lol.
I would say I am a grad at JDU but they ran off with all of my money. I am thinking of enrolling in OTM-U or Manwhore-U..
See? That's a sense of humor.
Honestly I've found you do start threads like this one that frankly I wonder WHY you are ragging on some lady? I've seen you do this and I'm like WTH woman. Yes you have taken up for some, even many, I've seen it. Then, in cases like this, yeah, I'm thinking WHY are you doing this?
I have to agree with what The Senator and PART of what SoulsHarbor said. And I rarely agree with what SH says, lol.
Steph :-/
Am I not allowed to throw up threads about topics that haven't been discussed before?
This topic is a variation from the posts about if a gal has a few bad reviews mixed in vs having a whole recent string of them and becomes delisted. I highly doubt there is a well reviewed lady that even remotely fits my scenario.
No, I don't feel much respect with what you said being as I have never spoke bad about any lady on any post nor have I referenced other ladies unless in a positive light. I fully feel you are reading far too much into my posts.
Any post I have ever done relating to "providers" in general is standing up for the guy side if he got ripped off or forced to give a 10/10 review. Pretty sure anyone agrees we should treat each other with respect and not game the system (on either side). I do the same for any gal too.
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like me that write a lot of reviews thought it was a good topic. There's nothing wrong with reading between the lines when something major changes in a provider's review history. I didn't consider you were bashing this provider, just using it as an example to get some feedback from hobbyists. Some here are not really deep thinkers and can be dismissed.
But I do think the good Senator's isolationist attitude is a good overall strategy as far as impact of a particular girl's situation on most of us, but like I said, I took it merely as a convenient example of the phenomenon you were asking about.
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Where we mainly agree...
It's like we love to fight like an old married couple but yet agree on most things. Where the hell did I go wrong in my life? LMFAO. I think too much like a guy. ha ha
that thinking like me. You COULD be stuck thinking like El Turdo. Give thanks.
In the future please don't use the M word when referring to me. It makes me break out in hives. Call us "fighting like jealous lovers" or some other euphemism that's not so "permanent." You will thank me later. Lol
I said ragging. As to "rag" on someone. Secondly I took your post to mean you actually had seen a lady's profile with 6 bad reviews on it. Not that you were just putting something out there for discussion. So yes some of your posts I read seem like you are talking specifics about a lady, not in generalities about a what if situation.
My apology for interpreting your post(s) sometimes as literal. I like you so this post as well as others were confounding to me because they seemed to be a 180 from how nice you are to other ladies, including me. I won't comment late night (for me) unless I ask you specifics if a post seems to be "not like you".
Steph XO
Oh gosh, almost all of my posts are "what ifs" and not related to anyone. I think too much and was just wondering other people's thoughts if they ever were to come across something like that, what they would think. It's just a different topic to converse about, nothing more. I threw out "6 bad reviews in a row" as an example of not being confused with girls who have them infrequently mixed in.
I guess my problem is that I typically make myself clear and people get use to that.... and other times I am not so clear.
I guess I need to put disclaimers up so noone thinks I am speaking about anyone or at times the whole hobby in general (which includes all sorts not just well reviewed gals). Likely part of my problem with being misunderstood is I should clarify when posting.
Oh well, I learned I need to communicate better. No harm in what anyone replied back. I can't get mad or confused at responses if I didn't take more time explaining I was just throwing a "what if" topic out there.
I learned something new today about your posting style. It's ALLLLL good in my end. Hopefully yours too.
Steph XO
"Its all good in their end."
I am of the mindset I'd would love to meet you but am afraid my fiesty-ness and big ass would break ya'r dick.
Eh, I know I am not your typically play. I'd probably try to talk you into rimming etc and you'd be like "WTF Alex, I am not doing that shit" haha.
So you are an end sort of guy, eh? You should try Steph.
Sorry I love getting cherries and helping guys explore.
I just meant its nice to know she has a healthy colon, although some would say TMI. If you're suggesting I play there, not usually, but there are always exceptions . . . . . but the girl has to spring it on me in the spur of the moment. I never go to a session PLANNING to do Greek, but when the blood leaves my brain and goes to my dick, I often make decisions I wouldn't otherwise make. There's not enough blood in my body to run both at peak efficiency at the same time.