Although this article discusses some reasons women cheat on their husbands, I think it applies also to why many men cheat--including seeing providers.
I thought this would be of interest, since there's been threads on the subject of married people seeing providers. Thoughts?Terrific article, I have felt this way for along time. If it`s good and ok for us to see providers then why shouldn`t it be good for them to have affairs?
All the girls I see are like sweet ripe fruit, one being an apple, one an orange and one is a pineapple. Many fruits to choose from in my basket. Some days I want/need the apple, some days the orange etc. This works excellently for me and so shouldn`t for women. What good is only having the apple everyday when today I want/need one of the others. No matter what I do that apple can only taste like an apple and it gets old.
The article in the related link confirms my feelings. Good post, Thanks
Has to do with the price of pussy here. What am I missing?
A close friend of mine did the AM thing for a couple of years. He said the site was populated by SB's, regular hookers, and frumpy MILF's with misguided GPS. In his experience, "free" pussy came with too many compromises on his part and too much drama. A lot of these women are ginned-up because they're starting menopause, which makes them BSC from the get go. P4P beats the hell out of looking for cheating wives.
It saves me from my emotional self.
It was one thing to be fucking some of these "old broads" back when I was in my twenties and it was kind of fun to fuck a 40 year old divorcee every once in a while who would buy me shit and treat me like a "boy toy" But now when I go into one of those places at age 58 with most of my hair, all of my teeth and "financially secure" these women aren't looking for a romp in the hay, these old broads are playing for keeps. lol I never thought I would be considered such a "catch' lol
Yes, it's much cheaper to fuck hookers than allow one of these old broads to sink her hooks into you.
Actually it's pretty easy to figure out why women are "cheating" more than they used to, and you don't need a doctorate or five thousand words to figure it out. They do so because "they can" Once upon a time women were almost totally dependent on a man, and would put up with all sorts of abuse knowing the alternative for many of them was to end up on the street. Those days are gone, women can take care of themselves, so they can do what they want and what they seem to want is more (and better) dick. lol I say "good for them" none of this threatens me in the slightest, I am not interested in "owning" a woman in the first place, but I will admit to loving those "short term rentals"
Once our dishes started to get broken, that's when things went to hell.
All the online dating sites are overflowing with frumpy women my age as CDL points out about his friends experience. I found only 20 women my age on Match.com I would even consider taking out from 2000 matches. 99% I wouldn't have sex with for free, much less invest time, money and effort to getting to know them and date them. Bad haircuts, overweight and unattractive sums up the majority of average women 50+ . The ones who are attractive and desirable who take care of themselves, know their dating currency is high and are very picky, often stating in their profile that they are not looking for hook ups and come off with these - if you're (fill in the blanks) don't bother contacting me attitudes. Most people I know that divorced did so because they should never have been married in the first place.
I know a lot of guys when I was young that married the girl they got pregnant, or married the one they were dating, because she was there and nothing better had come along. After the kids came and they were 5-7 years into it, things fell apart for many. What ever held people together before the children came often disappears by the seventh or eighth year of being with each other if the relationship wasn't based on a solid foundation. The sexual drive starts to fade, kids take up all the free time and for many earning under 100k a year, simply struggle and are not happy with the life the have.
One of my buddies who isn't a high earner has recently got divorced from a woman who had a child from her previous relationship. When the new baby came the daughter from the first relationship threatened to hurt the baby and was jealous and upset that my friend and the baby was taking all of her mothers attention away from her. He is living with his mother now, because after child-support and healthcare costs for the baby he can't afford to live on his own. Aside from the few people that I know who are in relationships that actually get along and are still sexually active after 17 years, The majority of people that I know who have gotten married and had children did not make it past the 10 year mark. I couldn't imagine life with out p4p.
Every time I get laid, the person I chose is young, beautiful, dressed for sex and is focusing on my needs and giving me undivided attention.
This is totally "the shoe on the other foot" territory. Women are letting themselves discover what men have know for what, eons?
Your partner can't meet every need, that's why you have fishing buddies and providers. Fishing buddies are not "immoral", providers on the other hand, are on society's DNS list. Heaven (literally) forbid that your mate can't meet all your sexual needs, especially as she gets old and her vagina dries up, thins and sex gets painful.
My marriage got a whole lot better 25 years ago, when I screwed up my courage, overcame society's taboos and climbed over the fence in the dark of night to discover the garden of Eden on the other side. The primary rule of pussy club is don't talk about pussy club and you'll be OK. I attribute the longevity, stability and contentment of my marriage (for both of us) to taking the initiative to meet one of my needs that was not being addressed.
Women in the cited article haven't taken the next step, entanglement free dalliances. They are still dealing with the emotional and logistical intrusion into their daily lives of their secret activities. Its going to take them a while to get past the Puritan hangover that is so endemic in this country. Note the slut shaming comments following that article.
The French seem so adult compared to Americans.!
Lol
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