...BOTH of us!
It seems that a man is just happy to have sex and all that matters to him are how attractive he finds her and how willing she is to do things. That's all it takes for a man. However the sex itself is all about pleasing the woman, making sure she's satisfied, since the man is just happy to get some in the first place....
Not all men. Some guys just use their bodies for their own personal pleasure and pay them to leave. Others are so insecure that they feel they have to prove to hookers that they are Supermen in bed. These are the ones who write reviews claiming the girl had 14 orgasms.
It doesn't take a superman in bed for the woman to have "14" orgasms. It is the woman doing it with stimulation, both physical and mental. If you are truly an "Oldtimemonger" and you have never experienced a woman having orgasm after orgasm, then I feel bad for you. Keep searching. They are out there and they are fantastic.
You mean hooker orgasms? LOL. From what I've seen 90% of sex workers already have boyfriends. Most will lie about it to avoid spoiling the fantasy for the losers who don't realize how good hookers are at faking it!
Orgasms are saved for boyfriends and husbands not tricks.
DEcades ago I asked plenty of sex workers if they had real orgasms with tricks. The best answer I got was "As
often as a cop car gets a parking ticket."
Any girl can put a KY pellet in her pussy before a date so she feels sopping wet. Any girl can learn to contract her pube muscles while moaning and groaning.
Any girl can learn how to hold her breath, hyperventilate, hold her breath, turn her head from side to side , frown and let out a big moan. Of course her face and maybe chest may be red but not from a real orgasm.
Guys who believe in the phoney moans of a hooker are the type who believe professional wrestling is real.
Pro "wrassling" isn't real???!!! Tell me it isn't so.
and yes, we have another leading BSU contender. Did you notice how many tens he's given? I bet you he gave them all multiple orgasms, What a fucking stud. lol
I give 10s because I see women that deserve 10s. It is called discernment. Go ahead and look at the reviews of the women I have seen. What are their averages? And, I never claimed I "gave" any of these women orgasms.
Sorry Oldtime, not buyin' this for one second. I get as much pleasure getting them off as I do myself. She can`t be faking when she aggressively pushes my head off her clit cause its now super sensitive or her post O' glassy eyes, change in her tone of voice, body language, purring etc. If that`s fakin' I`m buyin'
Now we have two true believers. The "sensitive clit from cuming" is easy to fake. These girls are Master Bullshit artists in the sack.
Hey there is nothing wrong with buying into it if it makes you happy. Personally I get a kick out of how well they can fake it. A good hooker is an Academy award winning actress.
They cant fake being sensitive down there or act impassioned/glossy eyed? You're buying that? I have lots of bridges to sell you in Arizona.
I think it's just about how comfortable you are with your body and how much you can relax. I've definitely had 14 orgasm sessions (with partners and clients) If the chemistry is there, it's easier for me to relax. I've found if I squeeze when having sex then I orgasm quicker ans some positions make it easier to orgasm for some reason. Either way, I'm definitely multi orgasmic and if I don't come atleast 6 times in a session, something is wrong
thanks Chloe, Point went taken.
If the chemistry is there, it's easier for me to relax. I've found if I squeeze when having sex then I orgasm quicker ans some positions make it easier to orgasm for some reason. Either way, I'm definitely multi orgasmic and if I don't come atleast 6 times in a session, something is wrong In my view the sex with most escorts is pretty much for the guy. Eating pussy, etc....are things the guy enjoys doing and he should not be so immersed in his thoughts about making sure the gal is enjoying herself as it is about him carrying out his fantasy.
I think guy's should keep in mind that this encounter isn't one that you will need to impress the gal with so that she will date you again or stay with you and it isn't about being in love, etc.....
I don't mean at all to take the encounter for granted or to be a jerk about it-just know why you are there and what it really means....Anyone care to remark ?
being pleased and it seems my interests have a direct correlation to what I get back ....
If this isn't working for you, perhaps look for one and done gals that rush you out after you get YOURS?
IMHO the Beatles nailed it with ...
the love you take, is equal to the love you make.
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mature in our experiences and/or outlook on life can appreciate being with outstanding ladies such that we can find here on TER. No, all ladies in the sex business are not the same--not even all TER ladies. Some ladies are way more professional in what they do yet personal in how they do it with their clients.
Thank you to all the wonderful ladies I have had the pleasure of meeting or will meet in the future.
He's happy...she's happy.Whats the problem
that a woman would receive, as well as give, pleasure?
I can't imagine being with a woman and NOT enjoying mutual, shared pleasure as best we are able.
The flaw in your logic is in your own post... "how willing she is to do things". I'm quite sure the scripted, demanding guys are NOT there solely to please the woman.
As for the "just happy to get some.." nonsense - speak for yourself!
and there are LOTS of BSU's who only seem to get pleasure by deluding themselves that the lady "got hers" too. Or in the case of some of the worst of them, that the lady got 14 orgasms through DATY alone.
I'll just blame beta, lol.
Of course, man or woman asking - my answer is basically the same. I'm OK with a few delusions.
I'm OK with a few delusions.
Mostly it's about the reverse. Then there are some guys (including me) who get pleasure from giving it. Up to a point. But it's still basically about getting my nut. That's what I'm paying for. As a friend of mine says, "You can come while I'm here, or you can come after I'm gone."
What a prick. LOL!
If I'm paying her, then she is supposed to please me. If she's paying me, then I need to please her. However, if she's being paid to please me and enjoys what she's doing and happens to get an O along the way, its okay with me even though I'm paying. No need to be selfish with the O's. There's plenty to go around for everyone in the room.
...BOTH of us!
is a win-win in your case..
If I'm making love to a provider, and she's getting as much enjoyment out of it as me, not only does it make me feel good about myself, but I'm also more likely to get grandfathered rates, OTC time, and other benefits.
Making love to a provider? Wow isn't that ambitious? I thought you were just supposed to have sex or fuck em? Special.
Of course "if" the queen had balls, she'd be the king.
ERR, I am not sure if that analogy works in the TS world, I suppose the "queen" could be a pre op TS and still have her "balls" Damn, this is a confusing world, isn't it? lmao
Me, of course.
Actually, I do p4p with ladies that are either excellent at IOP (Illusion Of Passion) or are really enjoying themselves.
I'm really not trying to work out which one it is. They are excellent at what they do so I go back for more.
As long as I'm paying, I try not to mess with what is working for me.
The only acting I require is if they come off as not being annoyed by my presence. It might be worthy of an Academy Award, but I'm sort of demanding in that regard. Other than that, the dramatic O's and "squirts" I can take or leave.
no matter what she says. As a previous poster said, there's pills that can be held in the vagina to provide a lot of juice, techniques for raising body temperature, etc.
The only sure way I know to tell if a woman is having an orgasm is if her cervix drops down. I don't think that can be faked.
It seems that a man is just happy to have sex and all that matters to him are how attractive he finds her and how willing she is to do things. That's all it takes for a man. However the sex itself is all about pleasing the woman, making sure she's satisfied, since the man is just happy to get some in the first place....
This is a funny thread. After my first few encounters I learned what an idiotic thing it was to try and please a woman.
In general I find men are not very good at pleasing but we excel at receiving pleasure. Also, in my limited experience I have learned that both parties will enjoy it more if you don't obsess about pleasing her.
I do try to fuck as hard as I can though. If I am paying a few hundred bucks might as well do some damage
it's all about me busting that nut, and she doing whatever it takes to help get me there. If I'm the one pleasing her then she's supposed to be the one paying me, that's just how I see it. But don't get me wrong, it doesn't mean that she has to pay me if she just so happens to have an orgasm during the encounter, it may even help increase my mileage for future encounters. I'm talking about deliberately going out of my way to please her, I ain't talking about a coincidental orgasm. What's the point if they're faking it anyway? Why not just go along with the fantasy and not ruin the moment with an anti-climactic dose of reality?
I don't think it's that the "man is just happy to get some in the first place" it's that he's happy to make her orgasm because typically women take longer/more effort to cum. Not sure if this was a question or statement lol