If you feel that a provider is not into you or the fun at hand, simply move on to other activites which YOU enjoy.  There is no reason to even discuss this with a provider... unless of course, you are actually INTERESTED in satisfying her.

I certainly could be misreading, but it doesn't sound like you are interested.
"I would prefer to have an honest provider who would be the F***or and let me be the F***ee and forget about me trying to satisfy her"

IMHO, this has nothing to do with someone being an "honest provider".  If that is what you want, there are MANY ladies who will accommodate.

"I can't help but think that a provider with a client like me is not really into sex for herself 99% of the time."
That's a sad belief which seems to imply that 99% of the ladies are only here for financial gain and not financial gain WHILE enjoying themselves.  Perhaps you are seeing the wrong ladies?

If you think the ladies are not enjoying themselves you prefer to move on to simply being satisfied yourself?  Hm.  I prefer the gentlemen who will work WITH me to ensure a mutually satisfying engagement.  Perhaps ladies are not enjoying themselves as you have already created the reality that they are actresses and it's not worth your efforts?  Just a thought.

If you really believe that a lady is not enjoying herself, why bother wasting your talents on a lady who isn't enjoying them?

If you really believe in the scope of your talents, why would you believe so many ladies are NOT there enjoying themselves?

Myself, I *insist* on enjoying myself, and take full responsibility for doing so.

ask??? what about just be the best pussy eater????

One of the reasons I just LOOOOOOOVE what I do for living is because I get the best sex ever from my clients.

Civvy guys do not turn me on at all. And I have tons of them offering to come over and "take care of me for a change".

If I have to choose between a client and a civvy guy...I will pick the client for my pleasure.

Yesterday, I had three clients and they were simply wonderful. None looked like Clooney, far from it, but ohhhhh they were soooo good.

We kissed, licked, caressed each other. They ate me like there was no tomorrow and made me cum few times, they fucked me in my fave positions and we had screaming orgasms.

I was done working by 10 pm and, after dinner, I was bored and chatting with some civvy guys online.

They wanted to come over and keep me company, so I picked one of them, a guy I know for a while.

Sex with him has allways been soso. I was bored and didn't want to spend the night alone, so I invited him over.

Big mistake!!!

It was horrible. This guy is young and good looking but he was totally blah and, no matter what he did to me, I could not get off.

Sexually, he didn't hold a tiny candle compared to any of the clients I had before.

I ended up giving him a quick bj to get him off and out of the door.

So, if you the best pussy eater east of Mississipi, come ova!!!! I have a juicy kitty for yah!!!

Have fun and don't worry, just show your skills and enjoy!!!

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-- Modified on 3/5/2006 4:34:48 PM

Amen, brothers and sisters. If someone is gifted in the oral department, Im into it 100%!!

-- Modified on 3/5/2006 5:46:34 PM

Boston, we all come to the point where we realize that this is all  just massive make believe.  It seems you're finally arrived.

As I see it, you can either just enjoy yourself on whatever terms satisfy you when you hobby, or give up the hobby and return exclusively to the world of non-commercial sex.  You have plently of counterparts approaching grandma status who would be more than happy for your attention and company.


Good luck.

Oh, Mr. Pooh Bear . . .

you can lick my honey pot any day of the week and I won't complain.

Hugs,
Ciara

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