I have been thinking about the issue of TMI, and certainly agree that no hobbyist should be dumb enough to provide any information (posts or reviews) that would threaten a lady with LE problems or other hassles (neighbors, hotel owners, SO interference, etc)
So I am wondering if it is also 'less than smart' to include any mention of the payment process. I think we can safety assume that the providers are being paid, and many post their donation rules/preferred method on their websites. Why include such information as: "She never looked at the envelope" or "I almost forgot the dontation as I was leaving", etc.
IMHO, this information will only be used by scam artists or thieves who are looking to prey on providers who show weakness. This is how criminals operate. Also, why provide LE with any advice on how a provider accepts payment that could be used against her in a sting operation.
I think the less said, the better off all will be
As modest a number as my review history reflects I have yet found it necessary to get into details that aren’t related to the providers appearance or performance.(cept' for ONE where the gal ASKED me to get into ancillary details). If a guy wants to describe how "The glow of the moon danced off her porcelain smooth, alabaster skin" FINE! We don't however need to know the name of the hotel and the room number she is or was staying at.
I don’t feel it is being a “White-Knight” to consider the two factional concerns (LE & thugs) these ladies must protect themselves from daily, and how easily we can betray the ladies when writing a review.
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I'm guilty of making reference to the donation, but agree that it's not something that really needs to be addressed. It's safely assumed that it's a part of the process &, if not, please send me the name & contact info for that provider out there who is working for free.