...honestly,dont think i've had a "bad" BBBJ-wet/sloppy is ok-but i love a tight/small mouth,that matches her pussy..69 is always my most fav position...2 me,there's nothing more exciting than a woman coming in my mouth...it makes "cock in pussy" sex,afterwards,so much more exciting...if my partner is "not so fellatio" talented,...i would try 2 show her,how it feels..
What makes a great bbbj to you,fellas ? Do you like wet and sloppy, or neat and clean? Is there a certain position that turns you on more then others? Does the effort count ? She tried her best but she just wasn't fellatio talented or maybe she was good but you could tell she wasn't into it? How important is a good bbbj, do you add or take away points depending on the performance of the bbbj alone?
I personally like to sloppy wet, lots of eye connection, moving at a rhythm and changing positions.
Ladies do you have any special tricks or techniques you like to do for a great bbbj?
Jessica Jordan
My kinda guy
Sloppy and wet (isn't "neat and clean" sex kind of a contradiction in terms? lol), and lots of eye contact is a very welcome touch. I would rather have a slightly less technically skilled BJ with enthusiasm, I think, than "good but not into it." Importance? I guess I'd say it's not absolutely vital, but if it's good, it makes a big difference. In fact, at my age, sometimes the BJ *is* the main event as far as my side of the experience goes.
And I hope I don't have to add this, but--No teeth, please! 
And I hope I don't have to add this, but--No teeth, please!
Cim-Swallow is the only finishing technique that feels like real sex. Spitters are quitters! If a girl grabs a towel or runs to the bathroom to spit out spunk after CIM they might as well hit you over the head with a sledgehammer and shout "You have just had hooker sex." BBBJTC-CIM-Swallow is real GFE.
If a girl is a great cocksucker with a proper finish she will have no problem getting tricks to visit.
There's nothing like lingering with your cock in her mouth for a minute or two after finishing, or have her continue to bring it to a slow ending.
very attractive lady enjoying an ice cream cone on a hot day, just licking the ice cream as it slowly melts.
So glad dry bj was cleared up quickly. Hydration is key! Thats why I always insist on my client drinking water before he gives me a BBBJ. Going Slow and taking your time in a sensual way instead of rushing into trying to swallow the whole damn thing is so important. Let the build up to deep throating happen gradually so you don't gag yourself out of a good long cock sucking. Keep it interesting and change it up and don't over exert yourself right away - save that hard and fast pumping for the end! EOM
The blowjob is as much about technique as it is about attitude.
We're all had civvies who give bj's that are technically proficient, but it's obvious they hate every second of it. Personally, that's enough to make lil sauce pretty uninterested in the whole ordeal. So anything but that is going to be an improvement.
To put it bluntly, you have to worship the cock. Give off the vibe that this is the best thing ever for you and you're excited to be doing it. Obviously, this is some degree of bullshit, so, acting.
Agreed !
The blowjob is as much about technique as it is about attitude.
We're all had civvies who give bj's that are technically proficient, but it's obvious they hate every second of it. Personally, that's enough to make lil sauce pretty uninterested in the whole ordeal. So anything but that is going to be an improvement.
To put it bluntly, you have to worship the cock. Give off the vibe that this is the best thing ever for you and you're excited to be doing it. Obviously, this is some degree of bullshit, so, acting.
IMHO, it must include CIM, and a side of swallow, to be considered truly "great."
Neither of your two reviewed providers gave you CIM or swallow, and you gave them 10's anyway, so WTF?
The best BJ's for me are a combination of techniques: lips, tongue, fingers, deep throat, slow, fast, light pressure, more pressure. I like it when it starts out light and teasing and then builds. The worst is just the head bobbing up and down. That's something a first-timer high school girl would do.
If the woman can give the impression that she's enjoying it and getting off on it, that makes it ultra-special. Unless she's one of the few that are actually turned on by giving blow jobs, it will take some good acting. I haven't experienced that level of acting yet.
It's only since my divorce four years ago and entry into this hobby that I've learned how to successfully do DATY. I really concentrate on how the woman is reacting to what I'm doing, and adjust my movements as needed. If a woman would pay that sort of attention to a BJ, it would make a big difference. Guys send out signals just like women do.
Some girls give it to me better than others, and I couldn't tell you how. Except to say I like a BBJ/HJ combo, and I do have a particular way I like to receive the HJ part. Also, I like CIM.
a light touch and lots of teasing. Its all about the slow build up with a little edging that make the difference between greatness and mediocre.
The way my ATF does it with minimal use of her hands. Alternating between deep throating, ball licking and me face-fucking.
It turns out a great BBBJ does not have to be complicated and takes much effort!
The tongue can be the difference between a good BJ, and a great BJ.
Also don't stop with the first taste of cum, keep sucking until it stops flowing. (or your pushed away).
A strong, slow, and steady rubbing of the tongue against the glans (That's the under side of the tip.) feels just incredible to me.
And because the penis doesn't have to be inserted deeply, and no great amount of neck gyration is required, a gal can do this for a long time before she tires.
Me, I like a lot of tongue up and down the glans (underside, that inch or two just below the head) as well as a little DT (no gagging, thats a turn off for me). Sucking the head for a little intense action, especially a little heavy friction underneath and at the edge of the "helmet" for a while till I am squirming at the intensity followed by a "change up" of deep sloppy wet full shaft slurping for a while, then back to the intensity. Edge me a little baby, get me to where you feel me pulsing precum then smooth it and change the rythmn. Get me back to oh and ah instead of HOLY SHIT, then build me back up. Its a bit of work, but sooo awesome when done right. Then of course CIMNQNS for the 10.
There are so many variables and so many feel so good.
Every now and then, a riding crop to the balls makes for a wonderful sensation.
Damn, a good BBBJ sounds really great about now.
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Ms. Jordan always make sure that you pay attention to the frenulum so that you can induce semen during the course of the act. Then you want to vary your speeds as you go up and down the shaft so that they will come to resolution in a reasonable amount of time. Then for the some of us play with the scrotum as that contributes to an extremely pleasurable experience as well.
The best BBBJ is by a woman who LISTENS to my feedback (real time) and pays attention.
A buddy of mine once said, "There are no bad blow jobs, just bjs that need more practice." I disagreed, saying that practice without her paying attention to my feedback is just repeating her set game plan. I've had BJs that were the same program week in and week out, regardless of what I wanted or told her. Sometimes, she would pay attention, make a change for a bit but then went back to "regularly schedule programming."
it's the singer, not the song. So my advice is (1) men, SPEAK UP, tell her exactly what you like and give her feedback so she knows when she's on point; (2) women, LISTEN to what he's telling you and adjust accordingly. Of course, men should also be paying attention to her feedback when giving her oral pleasure -- this should be fun for the both of us, right?
...honestly,dont think i've had a "bad" BBBJ-wet/sloppy is ok-but i love a tight/small mouth,that matches her pussy..69 is always my most fav position...2 me,there's nothing more exciting than a woman coming in my mouth...it makes "cock in pussy" sex,afterwards,so much more exciting...if my partner is "not so fellatio" talented,...i would try 2 show her,how it feels..
One of my ATF loved to suck my cock and rub her clit on my body while I FF her.
When the time came we would both O and wet her bed and ourselves.
a very wet and enjoyable experience.
I want my BJ to be sensual, varied and delivered with attitude.
I want to feel her work her way down from my lips to my cock, not just her lips on my body but her whole body on my body. I don't want her to be between my legs; I want her to on my leg. I want to feel her hair on my stomach, her hands on my balls, her lips and spit on my unit, her breasts on my thigh and her wet pussy on my leg. Full-on, full-court whole-body press.
I want to feel and see her moving on me, hear the sounds of her mouth and hands, hear her say she wants to control me and make me cum for her.
Equal parts hands and mouth, moving in rhythm. Eyes meeting as she watches me to see what I like best, and adjustments to deliver what I respond to. A hand moving between her own legs, to show her arousal and desire.
And the finish... no blink. No towel. Just a slurp, a smile and afterglow.
Yes, that sounds pretty much how I'd like it.
For me specifically, I like the tactile sensation around the head, so wet and sloppy doesn't do it for me. I like varied pace, I like to start and stop... I like BLS, Also like some pressure on the perineum. Also, I don't like my penis to be the entire focus. If there is a body rub involved, I like some slight teasing. Some girls I tell to tease, think that means a HJ...
There's a lot of technique involved in delivering BJS's that other's can comment on better, and of course attitude is super important.. everyone wants to feel wanted, and a good BJ attitude conveys that.
But the thing that ties it all together and separates amazing from very good is the ability to accurately gauge the partner's state. Is what you are doing at any instant working? Is he ready to come and is it too soon? Has it stopped feeling good? The best lovers know the answers in pretty much real time and use it to produce mind bending results. I'm guessing it's a combination of native talent, lots of experience and a conscious effort to develop that level of sensitivity.
I've mentioned before that my ex was the queen of BJ's. I don't think there's anyone better.
She started by concentrating around the head, very slowly alternating between licking it with the very tip of her tongue, and lightly touching with her lips. She built up on that before even taking it into her mouth.
When she had built the intensity to a certain level, she would grab my buttocks and pull my hips toward her in rhythm with her mouth. Grabbing them firmly gave the impression that she was really into it.
Once or twice during the BJ she would take my cock with her hand and press it against her cheek, with a facial expression that said she was loving it all. It was probably a way for her to take a rest, but it was very stimulating to see.
She made a big show of it all, a virtuoso performance. To pull it off, a woman has to actually be into it that much, or able to act that well. Sometimes when she'd finish, there would be a big puddle on the floor from her squirting. I think she was into it.
I love cock in my mouth. Now that I'm knocked up, I sometimes prefer it over fs. It gets me super wet. Like wet dripping onto my thighs juicy.
I love to give a teasing bj- running my fingers between his thighs, kissing and licking. I really have fun with cocks that can reach my throat but not too huge. I enjoy stuffing them in my mouth as far back as they can go; it makes my mouth wetter. I love letting my tongue roam all over it while I slurp and suck up and down. A few more tricks but my favorite part is the cum. If I like the guy, I'll let him nut all over my tits, my face, or in my mouth so that I may swallow.
To me it doesn't particularly matter that much. I mean I love a good BBBJ, especially if she can DT and play with the boys, but it's usually how things get going instead of how things finish. Most of the provider's I've seen are great at BBBJ. And when it comes to that and that alone, there's nothing any of them did that could make them stand out more from anyone else. In other words, most providers are really good at it. I've seen a couple providers that weren't very good at it at all. And a couple where their BBBJ skills blew me away. I can't say that it's any one thing that they did that made them better than anyone else other than it was obvious to me that BBBJ was their favorite thing to do in the bedroom. So if giving BBBJ is your favorite thing in the world, you're probably going to be great at it. And if it's not, you're probably still really good at it, and I can't hold it against anyone for having different preferences.
Best BBBJ I ever had was a bait and switch by the local agency. Sweet little early 20 something. She went down on that thing and I swear to God she could wrap her tongue around my cock with it balls deep in her mouth. She didn't even bring a condom for sex and I asked her how she got away with that (we were at my home so I had one and she decided to give it up) and she said "It usually doesn't get that far" and I believe her. What talent!! BTW I finished with a nice CIM.
I had a repeat session with a lovely woman yesterday who knows what she's doing and loves having my dick in her mouth. She has the cutest look of concentration on her face as she's sliding all the way down to the base, stops, sucks and then looks like into my eyes with this devilish gleam.
I swear she was smiling around my cock -- oh my!
I should clarify don't spit on me! I don't really care if you spit in the sink after, but some ladies spit as lube and I really don't like to be spit on.
Regardless of the specific routine or moves, it has to be natural. Way less fun if it's mechanical/scripted
paramount to one's enjoyment on the receiving end.
Also, the eye contact, slippery slide wetness, and the playfulness
which I instill makes for a superb oral encounter!
It makes me instantly hot!
Warmest,
Angelina Jones
What makes a great bbbj to you,fellas ? Do you like wet and sloppy, or neat and clean? Is there a certain position that turns you on more then others? Does the effort count ? She tried her best but she just wasn't fellatio talented or maybe she was good but you could tell she wasn't into it? How important is a good bbbj, do you add or take away points depending on the performance of the bbbj alone?
I personally like to sloppy wet, lots of eye connection, moving at a rhythm and changing positions.
Ladies do you have any special tricks or techniques you like to do for a great bbbj?
Jessica Jordan