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Jayslovintheladies 2347 reads
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I found myself in a "Bait and Switch" scenario recently. Her BP ad read something along the lines of "Gorgeous 20 year old BBW" and saw her ad pics. WOW! I mean, this woman in her profile was amazingly hot! Gorgeous lips, stacked beyond belief and a nice round ass. The pics definitely would identify her as a BBW.

Got to her hotel room (which, by the way, we scheduled to meet at 3 in the AM but she was 30 minutes late!) I vaguely remember my comment in my text message saying "You are one drop dead gorgeous woman!" No other comment after this. I'm sure you know where this is going...

Fast forward to my experience. Got to the room (Real dive of a motel), knocked and I walked in only to turn and find this woman who was just, well, let's say she fell out of the "ugly Tree" and hit every branch on the way down. FML! She asked how long I wanted to stay. Great! An escape. I told her half an hour and paid $100 for her time. She started getting naked and I told her not to bother...I just wanted to chat. Even if I closed my eyes, I wouldn't be able to get it up. I mean, I should have known better. Cheap service isn't good...Good service isn't cheap.

My 30 minutes were done, we hugged and I left. Horrible experience.

What's the best way to handle a "Bait and Switch" scenario. In hind sight, I felt like I should have just walked out...

Correction, by the way to one of my previous posts...I've spent $600 for the year of 2017 on SP's. Lol.

Posted By: Jayslovintheladies
What's the best way to handle a "Bait and Switch" scenario.
 
Submit a review, check the "fake pics" box, link to the BP ad and say, emphatically, that it was B&S. Add the ugly tree comments and other info to help your TER brothers avoid this person. If you are afraid of repercussions (blacklisting? bad reference?) from a BP escort, submit the review using an alias.
In hind sight, I felt like I should have just walked out...
Well, duh! I think you know the answer. You should have just walked out. You can behave like a mean guy or you can be polite (I'm on the polite side). "I'm sorry, I was hoping to meet the girl in the pics." .... "Not her grandmother. :-)  "  "I'm sorry, you were 30 minutes late. I deliver milk for a living and I have to be at the dairy soon, so I can't stay." ... "It's YOUR fault for being late!"  

Thanks for the replies gents. Went to submit a review regarding her BP pics and sure enough. She's up and gone. No ad listed under her name.

Milkman, eh? Good one! Lmfao.

.... "If you're not in bed by midnight........ Go home!"

You need to become familiar with google reverse image and/or  tineye.

souls_harbor40 reads

I refuse to believe it.

I've only had two bait-and-switch experiences so far. Both times, I went through with it.

First time was nearly 20 years ago, back when I still called agencies that I found in the Yellow Pages. I hadn't used this particular agency before. I requested a slender blonde, and they sent me a woman who was nearly as tall as me and probably 25 pounds heavier than me. She had really big hands but no Adam's apple, so I settled for a CBJ with my eyes closed. CBJ was standard back then.

Second time was 7 years ago, when I was using Craiglist to find providers. In the pictures, she was a pretty and slender latina. In real life, she was normal build and native american, but still attractive. We had a really nice time together. I asked her towards the end about her misleading pictures, and she explained that she wanted to give guys an idea of what she looked like without risking that someone would recognize her and out her.

I would NEVER "complete the mission" The bitches LIED to you and your response was to give them money, Grow a fucking set and stand up for yourself. If you went to a restaurant and ordered a lobster only to be served a greasy cheeseburger for the same price as a lobster would you put up with it?  

 
The rule we should all follow here is "don't reward bad behavior" SMH

The last thing you should have done was given her money. Two things to remember. Home by 7 and in bed by 8 and Take it to the bathroom because nobody gets hurt in a one man band! Lol!

Posted By: GaGambler
Re: If you are not part of the solution than you are part of the problem
I would NEVER "complete the mission" The bitches LIED to you and your response was to give them money, Grow a fucking set and stand up for yourself. If you went to a restaurant and ordered a lobster only to be served a greasy cheeseburger for the same price as a lobster would you put up with it?  
   
   
 The rule we should all follow here is "don't reward bad behavior" SMH

In general, I agree with you that the proper response to bait and switch is to cancel on sight. There were reasons why I didn't do that the two times it happened to me:

1.  Way back when, agency girls generally had a driver for security. Since it was an outcall situation, I was concerned about the provider making a scene in my apartment building. There was also the possibility that the driver would get involved, and I also wasn't sure if agencies talked to each other and had some kind of blacklist. The hobby was pretty bad back then, for both providers and clients.

2. The second time it happened to me, I wasn't disappointed with the woman I saw, even though she didn't match the pictures. She was still attractive, and also delivered an enjoyable experience at a reasonable price. If I had thought to use tineye or google image search, I probably wouldn't have seen here and then I would have missed out on a good time.

Anyway, I don't worry much about bait and switch these days. I only see well-reviewed providers (both good scores and at least several reviews), and I don't impulsively seek appointments at 3 AM.

John_Laroche33 reads

I wonder if somewhere there's an escort telling her friends about some gross dude who insisted on a 3am appointment, showed up and then only wanted to talk for a half hour. She was so creeped out that she pulled all her ads and changed her phone number.

..... if by  3am he hasn't had enough beers for her to look good............. He's probably not too drunk to drive.

SMH

Never had what I would call a complete Bait and Switch but a couple of times I've been pretty sure that ladies have used photos of certain body parts that clearly don't belong to them.  If you see a photo of a sexy ass all by itself without the rest of the lady and you don't see the same ass in other photos I tend to think it's a fake and they are just trying to attract ass men hoping when they see the whole package they won't mind. Or, as one girl said, she had been working out a lot and losing weight because she wanted to win a swimsuit competition. I know that was a lie because if she ever really had the ass that was in the photo she wouldn't have wanted to lose it for a swimsuit competition.

Walk first answer questions later, and that's  a big if in alot of cases.   Seriously the 3AM creepy crawlie hookers from my experience  , have not been the ones I am worried about retribution  from.  

I agree with those who say walk away and don't look back but I think there is one possible exception to the rule. It's never happened to me but every once in a while you read a review where someone says she wasn't the girl in the photos but she looked just as good or even better and the service was great. As for why a lady would do that, one of them explained to the reviewer that it was because she had easily identifiable tattoos and didn't want to be recognized. So she used a photo she thought was fairly representative and if he wasn't happy he was free to leave, no questions asked. Mr. Johnson was well pleased with this particular bait and switch and he left a satisfied customer so I guess that's one case where a lady could be forgiven.

nothing good happens at that time. I may respond emails late if I can't sleep... but I would never schedule a date that isn't between 10 am to 10pm. Period.  

If I have a request at 3 am the first things I imagined is
-this person is on drugs
-this person is drunk

Anddddd those are not appealing at all to me.  
I don't even responded... just deleted.

Posted By: TurbayVeronica
If I have a request at 3 am the first things I imagined is  
 -this person is on drugs  
 -this person is drunk
Or maybe he's a Milkman looking for a pick-me-up before heading to the dairy to begin his daily run!  
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(Years ago, eggs, milk in glass bottles and dairy items were delivered door-to-door by horse-and-wagon and then by small step-van sized trucks filled with dairy products and wet ice.  Deliveries were usually in the very early morning so people would have fresh milk for their breakfast.  There is a scene in The 39 Steps (1935) where:  "Later that night Smith, fatally stabbed, bursts into Hannay's bedroom and warns him to flee. He finds a map of the Scottish Highlands clutched in her hand, showing the area around Killin, with a house or farm named "Alt-na-Shellach" circled. He sneaks out of his flat disguised as a milkman to avoid the assassins waiting outside.")  
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When the world should all be sleepin'
And the melody comes creepin'
Til you want to sway
It's the Milkman's Matinee.

Years ago I was communicating with a pretty thing about meeting up.  She was suppose to have 34C chest, nice legs and be a runner.  When we met her face was nice enough, but when we got to the hotel she was an A cup and she wasn't a runner.  I used to be a runner.  I know what runner legs are like.  Her legs were thin but very floppy.  Not from fat but just soft muscle I guess.  It was actually a serious turnoff and I ended up just getting more time in her mouth than anything else.  It was seriously disappointing.  Worse was she had high consideration.  After that I've always been extra careful reading posts, site photos and reviews.

I know some other people have mentioned the time of the appt being 3am and that already being a bad sign.
I guess it depends on the city you are in...speaking from a provider who is in vegas 3am appt is not unheard of.
 I have done quite a few appts at that time but those appts were booked in advanced or way back in my agency days.
The late night time,motel,low rate,BP with fake photos and no reviews all these factors together should have given you an idea of where that was heading.
If the photos were fake it would have been easier to just leave.I will say you might want to expand your spending budget.

I'm OK if someone uses body parts that closely resemble one's appearance...but you can't swap a face out and I'm huge on appearance. Can't put a raincoat on and play looking at a face that just got smacked by a Mac Truck.

A lot of the 3 AM'ers are drop dead gorgeous. They're the ladies who usually charge more because they know they can at that time of night.

Never reward false advertising. I have walked out for similar and not left a dime. That is how you handle  it. If ether party was deceptive in getting the meeting the other party has every right at ending it at the door.

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