A tantrika I see insists on it, and several others really enjoy it.

 
The tantrika has a website that explains that the various chemicals in the splooge (I forgot the fancy term she used.) have the effect of bonding the woman to the man.  A few gals have told me that they feel the same.

 
It's like caviar or other unique and exotic things - not for everyone.

but I had a civvie GF once who absolutely loved it, the bigger the load the better.  

I gave up on trying to figure out why certain people like certain things a LONG LONG time ago. All I can tell you is that not all women find it degrading.

higher volume providers don't want jizz anywhere near their faces because they don't want to have to redo their makeup or hair, not because they think is disrespectful.   Lower volume providers are more tolerant if that's your thing.  Its not mine.  I want to blow my load someplace warm.

Its a dominant act.....and many submissives like myself enjoy that....different strokes for different folks😋

Some are very submissive types that want to please, and that pleasing, and submission gets them off.  

Others like the sight of it from porn, tried it, and loved it. And for others, they tolerate it bc a certain segment of the p4p crowd enjoys it and its their niche.  

A few women have told me they offer that bc they don't do cim for health or personal reasons, and don't want to be too restrictive in their menu, so they swap in the COF for the BBBJTC.

If 2 consenting adults do it, who cares that you think it's degrading? I have no desire to be treated like a sub, restrained and/or pegged.  But I've read a few reviews by guys who loved it. I'm not going to to tell him he should stop. And what about guys who like rimming? Are they humiliating the women who do it?

I've had a couple of women squirt in my face and I loved it each time. I didn't feel degraded. I felt pretty damned turned on. And wet.

It's actually a huge turn on for me. Kind of like when you get your cock sucked the sensation. For me it has the same effect. I get off on it. Just don't get it in my eyes or near my eyes.  

And it's protein and great for the skin. I call it Cum-of-lay!

The practice is obviously one of dominance, but if it's consensual I see nothing wrong with it.  Myself, I prefer equality and in most of my limited forays these days we range back and forth over a variety of things that give us mutual pleasure, although my partners don't always express themselves vocally, because they are being paid to give us pleasure. But not everything has to be discussed; people can usually tell if their partner is happy even if the top of the mountain hasn't been reached.  Remember the great poem by Cavafy, "Ithaca," and to paraphrase, it's the journey not the destination -- "to arrive is your ultimate goal, but do not hurry the journey at all..."  

He also would not come on my face no matter how much I begged him. He said it was humiliating. Ok so how is that when I am asking you for it? I was not asking him to shit or piss on me. I wanted him to come on my face and he refused. I did not understand it and still do not but we are divorced so now I don't care.  

Obviously I don't mind cof. I have no objection to that.

MORE than  
she doesn't want the Load of cum on her FACE(and Hair).

If she is pushing for you to shoot the load of cum on the Face, she doesn't want it in her MOUTH.  
She may be thinking it's easier to wipe the germs off the Face. Yes, germs. Why do you think CBJ is gaining traction?
She cannot be booked back-to-back, if she takes a load of cum on her Face.

And, if she is using a ton of expensive makeup, she Will Not want goooo on her Face.  
She would rather have cum in her Mouth, to keep from having to apply makeup again.
It takes Time to apply makeup and Time is Money (so is the Makeup).  
Not taking the load of goooo on the Face makes it a wise Business Decision,
for a girl who will have one at the door as soon as you leave.

If she is being Dominated,
basically, it's your call.  

Otherwise, a girl is pretty good at knowing where & when that Load is going to end up.

I fail to see how receiving a load of cum all over my chest, as an example, is more dignified and honorable than if said load were to land on my face. Now, I absolutely LOVE the visual appeal and color contrast of looking down and seeing cum on my breasts and nipples.  At the same time, there is something to be said for feeling the slickness and slight warmth coating the sensitive skin on my face: fucking amazing!

Also, some of us really enjoy consensual humiliation.

I agree with you and I have not done it in years. I find it degrading but a number of the SPs enjoy the experience. So who am I to say no. To each his or her own. I have even paid male providers to give it to my SP. Pleasure is a funny thing. It is in the eyes of the beholder unless they do not like it in their eyes.

I love it! Something about being covered in cum that gets me really freaking horny! I cant explain it lol.

to see the woman he just got finished banging covered in his jizz, it's like a medal that she receives as a reward for taking it like a champ. It's also seen as a symbol of her obedience and submission. Some women claim to enjoy it as well, maybe there's something about them being slutty that really turns them on. If a provider doesn't like it, she must let her client know so that he can decide whether to stay or leave. It's really not for everyone, and it shouldn't come as a surprise because that could be a very rude awakening for someone who's not into that sort of thing, so initially there has to be a conversation about it.

Not degrading or humiliating

It is an act of sharing, of love. I have always though that CIM is much more intrusive and demanding than a mere facial. As another poster already said, why should putting it on a face be worse than putting it on any other skin.

Now if I was with a boyfriend , someone I cared about and he really wanted too I may let him. Because I would want to please him. And pleasing him would be a turn on for me. BUT I can be honest and would NOT want it every time we were intimate!! Lol

  I def don't allow it in my appts though because it just wouldn't feel right.  I am here for your pleasure and I also gain pleasure from it but I do have my lines and limits. 😊😊

I'm a little bossy so having someone get me down on my knees, looking up at then as they squirt it in my face is a huge turn on.  

It takes a very special gentleman to wrangle me.

Like others have mentioned, I don't try to judge or understand what others find pleasurable.

I think that the intent of both parties has a lot to do with how COF is interpreted.  It can be aggressive, dominating, or an expression of intimacy.  A lot of modern porn shows it as an aggressive act, but Golden Age porn often used COF as the culmination of intimacy.

I'm a fan, and like with all things sexual, it requires communication and willing participation.

COF ... different stokes for different folks.  

Just because you don't "get it" does not mean everyone feels the same.

Add me to the list of girls who said they enjoy it because it's an act of submission. I'm a very active sub in that I love to encourage my partner to dominate me or use me for his pleasure. Not only will I allow COF, I'll beg for it...under the right circumstances of course!