It was a lame response and you knew better.
Looking to hear everyone's thoughts on providers who either never answer any communication method or are just really bad about it. If you are discreet and respectful but continue to not hear back, at what point do you all move on even if she is someone you are extremely dead set on seeing?
Don't take it personal, there is a big ocean out there with a lot of beautiful fish ranging from whale sharks to damsel fish; move on. It sounds to me that you are getting too vested in one lady. It could be you are pushing too hard and turning her off. My advice, find someone else with similar assets.
Go Sox, Go Celtics !!
Some guys hate it when a girl does not answer or when she takes forever to answer. Others simply move on to another or the next.
Don't ponder about it too long. She has a reason for. It getting back to you.
1. She does not want to
2. You somehow ended up in her spam/junk folder
3. Due to sheer volume of emails she simply overlooked you
4. Thought she pressed send, but did not.
5. Very poor at communicating.
6. Taking a break.
Personally, I don't think it's hard to reply and acknowledge and say something, it's also respectful and courteous. I love live and play by the golden rule, but not everyone does.
Find a few you enjoy seeing and don't put your hobby eggs in one basket. Have fun and dont stress about it.
Go sox!
Many providers don't want to deal with Newbies. When you get to 10 reviews, you'll get a better response rate.
Well despite my only 1 review, I have the 2-3 references that providers ask for, but my TER track record hasn't even come up yet. My current frustration is with a few providers who at once time responded to me, and now will not. I guess at some point I have to give up my persistence?
Long before I ever wrote a review I was seeing top notch ladies. Lots of guys don't write reviews or even have an account on a verification site.
What matters to a lady is what is communicated. Did he follow her requirements for screening? Did he say anything inappropriate? Where the references legit and known ladies?
Those are some of the major items. Fuck the number of reviews, means shit.
I feel so lucky to have your guidance, and in the future, I will try to be a little less obtuse. Lol
It was a lame response and you knew better.
Knows I NEVER use my TER handle to make appointment, so it was tongue in cheek humor. As you say, my 100+ reviews don't mean shit for booking appointments for me either. Don't take everything so seriously and you'll have more fun here. If it will make the world right for you, I will give him a legit response.
now we learn you're overweight, obtuse one ...
TMI ... lol
I followed all the requirements, was polite, and have very legitimate references
Apparently these women have a different opinion and have ghosted on you for "some reason"
If this was happening to everyone, I would blame the women, but I bet these women are still booking with other guys, getting reviews, etc etc, So a smart man would start looking inward for the answer to his problem.
JLS might be right, they might be looking at you as a time waster, I really have no idea without knowing how your previous conversations went, but what I do know is that you are doing SOMETHING wrong and until you are honest with at least yourself you aren't ever going to fix what's wrong. Lie to us all you want, we don't give a fuck, but it looks like you are lying to yourself as well and until you stop doing that, you'll never get the answer to your question.
LOL ... thanks for saving me the time. We can hypothesize on 1, 2 and 3, but none of us really know what transpired between you all.
Your game plan needs PATIENCE... you're "the new guy" to them. You're not the only one trying to book their time, and if you are, consider yourself lucky!
Although escorts thrive on new blood ... and cum ... regulars usually take precedence until you are one.
You're suffering from premature ejac-frustration. Cool your jets, have a plan B and consider seeing your references again. Maybe they they'll provide a more ball ringing endorsement on your behalf and your bedside manner. Unless you didn't enjoy your time with them, in which case they may feel the same
Build rapport with the gals you know and you should reap the rewards royally, unless you intend to be a one and done guy. In that case, joining P411 may help. I don't use it, I prefer to fuck thing up on my own. Lol
Hang in there, you'll gain experience by trial and error. It's just not as much fun as trial and layher. This happened to GaGa too at one time, but he just can't remember that far back.
You've gotten a lot of good advice here. Learn from it
just one more reason i use P411..you request an appointment and they usually will get back to you within 48 hours..if not they are usually not logged in..P411 will give you their last log in time..
A newbie asking how to track provider's specials, sounds like you might be looking to negotiate their donation.
Or maybe not.
I agree, it can be a few things. I get so overwhelmed with inquiries I really can't get back to a lot of people... so the ones that are polite, follow my protocol and have an actual appointment date get my attention first. The others I ask to just keep checking with me as I'm just so busy. I spend more time answering inquiries than anything else, it's crazy.
even if you prefer to screen for yourself. He/she can help you filter you mail and make requests for more verification info, etc.
I think you may have scared to OP should he have thought to contact you. 😉
Looking to hear everyone's thoughts on providers who either never answer any communication method or are just really bad about it. If you are discreet and respectful but continue to not hear back, at what point do you all move on even if she is someone you are extremely dead set on seeing?
Depends. If it's a new provider I haven't seen before, then 2 or 3 days is not unusual considering the time they'll need to check my references and other screening info. If I don't hear back after that, I'll send another email to follow up. If there's still no response then I move on. I don't have this issue with providers I've seen before, they usually respond back within a few hours.