I find this a tricky one...

If I say I'm single I get asked out on dates etc
If I say I have a boyfriend, then they get upset
They dont like it that your boyfriend doesnt know.
They dont like it if he does as they say 'how can he accept what you do?
does he know your here now etc.'

This is a bit tricky and I know clients should not ask you such personal questions..BUT THEY DO!

I've asked providers this question and gotten everything from, I have a boyfriend / husband and he knows / doesn't know / knows but doesn't like it / knows and is fine with it because we are swingers, etc.

I think the best answer I've gotten and the one I like the most (whether it is true or not) is, I don't have a boyfriend and/or, It's kind of hard to have a boyfriend in this line of work.

Hey AmberLuv,

I have an easy answer for you...

Your response would be as such:

"Yes, I have a relationship with my family. They are my big priority and I would like to keep it that way."

If a hobbyist presses you for more info, tell him:

"I am sorry, but I need to keep my family relationship private. Please respect my wishes."

Simple as that.

Serpius

My personal life is none of a clients business. It takes a long time and a great track record before I will reveal anything that could come back and bite my ass.

If asked that I will answer his question with a question...usually the same one back. And if his insists, I will ask him very nicely that the line of questioning is a tad inappropriate and could we please change the subject.

Working on the beach house. It's almost done.

I'm single as well but sometimes I get asked out on dates etc. How do you handle that? Sometimes guys won't take no for an answer smh

You're freaking aswesome. Thanks!

Some providers who ended being friends have told me on their own. As far as dating, it just happens after seeing someone few times. Besides, only see one or two until one retires or disappear.

Recently, it has been just one whom I adore and seeing.

i wanna help too..you bring the nails..ill bring all the boards..

Now the only question is, where do I find the diamond?

Let's start out humble. In 10 years, I can get a mansion in Kentucky. I promise!

Ask them if they are married.
This usually shuts them up

Aside from the fact that you assume they are married and the fact that you already know they are bored out of thier minds but love and adore their wife. Not to mention, He usually states she is beautiful and she probably is.......................

If they answer, Yes, tell them you get it and who are you to judge..
if they answer, No then.. There is far less baggage for him............

Your private life is just that PRIVATE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The short answear to that is..

" You are here to meet Jessica and we are here to have a good time. lets take time to get to know each other and the rest will fall into place..............

Grab your dildo and stick it in his mouth.  That'll shut the guy up.

Works for me when gals ask too many "personal" questions...especially when I'm paying for her time.

Me personally, I never ask a lady about her relationship status, because I feel it's none of my business. But I can recall times where the lady just brought it up without me even asking about it.

For example, there have been times out of no where, she would just bring up her SO or bf, and it is a little bit of a buzz kill. Because for the 1-3 hours I'm with her, I like to think she's all mine, and no one else's. Make no mistake about it, I would never try to get too comfortable with a single provider, because I like the "Utopia" and I like to leave it at that.

I am single, but am not dating & not looking to date. I have two young children, & am not looking to bring anyone into their lives.. period. If they continue to ask me out, I will no longer see them.

What if he answers the question and goes so far as to call his wife so you two can talk?

You are not prepared for crazy of clients are you? I have been known to call my wife when a lady asks about her.


Of course I don't pry unless she starts talking about her family, or she starts asking about mine.

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...even if you have a legitimate boyfriend who does not know you are an escort and has never received money from you.

Discretion and privacy are important on both sides of the fence.

i do not believe in creating an illusion or fantasy for a client. if they are not attracted to the real me, with all that entails, then there is no point in our interaction. every man knows long before ever becoming a client, that i am a happily married woman who hides nothing from her Husband.

and yes, i expect (and receive) the same honesty/genuineness from them as well.

-- Modified on 5/31/2012 4:31:20 AM