I have been seeing this one provider and we have been gettting into having some good sex and one day I just started to gently choke her and she got really into it. Not like I yes oh baby yes but responded really well by getting harder and quicken the pace of our love making.
I had never done that and was wonderring if any other ladies like that. Im not really into the spaking and that but like a hard F@#k. Do you think she liked it or was just trying to get me going???? Ladies????
you'd stop choking her already!
I can't speak for other ladies, but if a client were to wrap his hands around my throat and start choking me, however gently, he'd get an immediate STOP IT. And if he persisted, he'd be DONE. I mean DONE, as in, get dressed now and never come back.
Anything that mimics physical violence isn't sexy to me.. it's just plain scary.
Maybe you've got a kinky girl who likes living on the edge. If you're so curious, why don't you ask her? I really don't think the ladies on this board can speak for her.
But just a hint-- I'd be extremely cautious before I started pulling that particular manuever with a provider. You never know what a cautious girl may have under her pillow!
cardiovascular problem.... this may put the problem into overdrive - and you wind up with a dead provider/hobbiest in your hot little hand. What are ya gonna do then!? I suggest that you REALLY REALLY think this through... it is not as simple as it looks.
...how many women do you expect to come forward on a standard hobby board and say that they like being choked by clients? Gently or otherwise.
I think is a dangerous thing, specially if you start to enjoy, getting turned on, more and more, every time you do it.
What happens is...you will start to put more pressure and get higher on the feeling and you will be only few steps away from actually choking her to death.
Dangerous practices are not in my menu and it should not be done by any SANE girl in this business.
BDG
...that is akin to saying that if you start with cannabis then you are on the road to crack. As long as paramters are set at the beginning and it is consensual, there is no problem. Some people would consider anal, or spanking fairly creepy.
It is the surprises half way through a session that can lead to problems.
From a lady's website "I didn't like getting spanked as a child and I don't like it now"
I like having my hair pulled from behind during doggie and having a guy gently choke me since the scm muscle is right on the sides of the neck (favorite place for massage)
I have clients who like being hit hard in the face/backslap or having their tie grabbed
I also know guy who love watching women piss on their carpet and bed or guys who play puppydog with a woman's toes.
that is what this hobby is for as most "decent" wives won't do that sort of thing
and for good reason. It certainly is subject to worst kind of abuse.
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0074102/
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1572528338/ref=imdbpov_dvd_0/104-4610036-0763935?%5Fencoding=UTF8&v=glance&n=130
It's based on a true story. The woman accidently choked the man to death, then she cut off his penis and wander the streets carrying it around.
..this has been the plot line at least twice on all 3 cities CSI pretends to be in.
Are you kidding me? My gawd... what was the logic behind cutting it off once she "accidentally" choked him to death?
I know some of my clients very well...but that is soooo crossing a line...
In Woody Allen's "Everything you Wanted to Know About Sex" There is a take off on "What's My Line" called "What's My Perversion" where a rabbi gets off by being whipped by a woman in black leather while watching his wife eat a pork chop.
I challenge anyone to supply that fantasy!
a friend told me that had seen it and that I should not go if I value my psyche. I guess they were right.
In the late 1970's, when I was a young, innocent grad student in NYC, I wander into a cinema thinking it was porn, and got a surprise.
...but a lot of ladies have started gagging when I kissed them.
When I asked about it they said, "Oh no, I wasn't gagging -- that was an orgasm. You're such a great kisser it made me come! Want a Mint?"
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...you mean do I liked to be choked? Only by a diamond necklace honey, LOL!
Don't you think you were a little hard on the beaver last night? 
...the dirtiest thing ever said on network TV.
I'll take "Millionaires and their Bimbos" for $1000, Alex.
Not to hurt a lady and make it pleasurable. So that being said most would probably decline a choking session.
And some just don't like it.
I am all for the tussle but hands on my throat and any move toward choking would def. freak me out the door.