...better understanding and appreciation of men from it. While I was a dancer I didn't have it so much, and not out of disrespect, or disdain, but because I was not able to know my clients so well and so personally as I am now; I was not able to learn the deeper aspects of their life and their selves.
I also have learned to fully adore my body for what it is. I never for one second thought I was fat, but I knew I was by no means skinny either. I am very shapely and curvey (big hips and butt, etc.), and when I was younger I didn't like it because I always thought the masses favored bone thin women, which I could never be. But having taken on this job, I have learned very much, that not only does it take all types to please, that I am what many men desire, not just on a physical level, but on an emotional and mental level as well. So on a whole I have come to appreciate myself more from this...
Anyone got any similar or different stories to share?
Dani
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For every civvy man that looks your way and is afraid to approach
---You go home and there are 80 emails from men all over the country that want to see you.
Ive learned from any man in your personal relationship that doesnt appreciate you
There are three men calling your phone that very day that does..
get and count the money first
For all the other guys under 40. I get 1 bad review from a lying asshole and now have to post under an alias so you won't be able to (see TER reviews) button to press on. Guys if you want to write a bad review at least don't lie about the events.
I am a new escort and I've never worked in this field at all.... I am learning that there are so many good men out there! I have allways fell for the "bad" guys well they are simply loosers! I meeting the BEST of the good men! (just being bad) And everyday I learn more about nyself and todays sociaty and the men and women of this world
- spermicidal condoms used during BJs make me thalk wike Elmuh Fudd fow da west ob da call.
- dropping your cell phone into the toilet while you're waiting for a client to call you for the room number can put a damper on your day pretty quickly.
- The SP law of averages: 'the longer and more convoluted the phone call/email, the less the chance he really is going to book'
- the more expensive the stockings, the faster they run
- guys who warn you that they've 'got a big cock' use the metric system to measure themselves
- boys lie. So do women. Deal with it.
- Never trust Nigerian royalty who want to send you cashiers checks as payment for sessions
- you really can lick your own eyebrows if you practice long enough
- even bad oral sex is still pretty f*ckin' good
Morgan
I'v learned that the "average" guy on the street
or at least the one in my bed is much more loving
than I ever expected when I entered this line. And not just to me but also their feelings toward
their wives or S.O.'s. They are truly good guys.
99% of them are.
Two other things.
That there is someone for everyone. Maybe I should reword that. That no matter what you look
like you can enter this biz and get a clientelle.
What a lot of people might consider a deformity
or unattractive, there are many others who will
be attracted to that.
Most men want to please women sexually. They are
not the selfish macho guys that I used to think
most men are. Most men are very open to anything
that the woman they are with wants. I suppose this
is covered in my first paragraph.
I don't think that I'v learned anything negative about men or people in general.
Even the civies that I used to think would disapprove, I'v found are generally fascinated and not disgusted by what I do. Not that I open up with strangers very often though. There is probably a lot of disgust and disapproval out there that I don't see.
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I've learned so much there isn't enough space to add everything. I toured 10 months straight visiting a different City every week. So, I toured all of the East Coast, West Coast and every major metropolitan City.
From an education level, every City had something to offer (*when you are getting the cliff notes of an occupation from an established gentleman in that field...it is easy to learn!*) So...... besides the film industry, the cattle industry, oil, stocks, professional sports, professional racing, professional rodeo, cars, wine, cigars, commodities (*both hedging, buying and selling*) horses, fishing, skiing, gambling, diamonds and jewelry, property and speculation.... I think it would take a life time to get the overview I have acquired because of the hobby.
Outside of the obvious, the other biggest addition to my life was the reality that all men can be a sexual turn on, even if I have to search deep to find out what it might be about him that turns me on. That little secret has become a routine now and I am constantly looking for the best in all people that I meet, hobbyists or not.
Thank heavens I am still learning... I find that I am still learning something new everyday. kisses ......~Tori