Why is that when most guys inquire about fetishes they ask for bareback? I'm confused! since when is barebacking considered to be a fetish? And why do guys think its safe to go around having unproctected sex anyhow?
Because we are generally known for covered FS. Some just think anything taboo is a fetish. Can't stop them from asking. All you can do reply with whatever answer suits you best. What is safe is relative to an individuals risk/reward factor.
Those same guys are probably have uncovered sex with their wives/GF's and some ladies are having uncovered sex with their SO's...somewhere some people are having unprotected sex. All you and the rest of us can do is do what we need to feel safe.
Since a good % of us are after bbbj and daty Is bare back such a big difference? I do not ask for it, and the 1 time it was offered I turned it down. Just did not set well. In reality if there is a sore or abbrasion in the areas we are having contact almost anything can be tranfered. Not a doctor here but I do have a light bulb in the fridge to look at what I am aboout to put in my mouth and I like one in the room. Dark is a deal breaker for me.
Making assumptions can get you into trouble. BBBJ and DATY is not equivalent to BBFS. The percentages for STD's and risk factors are not equivalent. BBFS has a higher percentage of STD's and infection than BBBJ and DAT.
http://www.thehivcare.com/blog/hiv-risks/risk-from-specific-sexual-practices/
(Shows you the risk associated with specific sexual acts as it relates to STD)
http://www.thebody.com/content/art2503.html
(similar, but more info that may interest you)
http://hivinsite.ucsf.edu/InSite?page=kb-07-02-02
(a credible source that emphasize the two websites above and provides data)
All I know it is still a risk. And I said NO. But we still do what we do no matter the risk So do not be HOLIER than thou. I think holier is spelled wrong but it passed spell check.
Didn't mean to sound like I am better than you or anything. Sorry if I did. Next time, I'll try to be more cautious of my post. Thanks!
Agree it makes a big difference! It is disgusting!
Penetration increases the risk for broken skin and/or tears......
I got so tired of being asked for it and the absolutely idiotic stupid remarks of "can I do it for just a minute or just a little bit" Like that makes a fucking difference! WOW! that I finally had to put it right there on my website BBFS=NO Not for a minute, not for a little bit NO. The requests have also decreased and attempts to slip it in have decreased since I discontinued nuru as well.
http://www.thehivcare.com/blog/hiv-risks/risk-from-specific-sexual-practices/
(Shows you the risk associated with specific sexual acts as it relates to STD)
http://www.thebody.com/content/art2503.html
(similar, but more info that may interest you)
http://hivinsite.ucsf.edu/InSite?page=kb-07-02-02
(a credible source that emphasize the two websites above and provides data)
Ugh tell me about nothing frustrates me more than when the guy dont asks he just assumes its ok and makes an attempt to slip it in WTF gives?
Maybe I should put that on my site somewhere in bold letters.
It makes a big difference if you have unprotected sex with strangers. You don't know what kind of diseases they have.
in these cases, the smaller head has a bigger IQ than the big head. Its best to just walk away Renee...
