... you might do with a beautiful, sexy woman, I can see your POV. But there's so many other ways to have fun with a woman. That's why I never schedule less than an hour and almost always at least 90 minutes. Then there's time for (mutual) massage, if that's what we choose to do, and many other activities.
As a practical matter, I know of very few high-quality providers in my area who will do 45 minute sessions. Some will do 30, but for most providers I'd be interested in seeing the minimum is an hour.In my area, you can get a gfe 45 min session with a really good provider for 2.2...on the other hand you can get an hour fbsm for 2.
Why would anyone prefer the latter vs the former? If you go fbsm you can get extras but have to pay extra. What the reasoning for an individual to take the fbsm route? Not like the girls at the fbsm places give a real cmt quality massage.
What am I missing?
Wouldn't you rather pay the .2 extra for it all?
... rather than escort services simply because they give me everything I need, plus a half way decent massage ta boot. I know that I'm in a unique situation where I don't need "FS" and sometimes masseuse's are willing to do oral on me, so for a fraction of the price its perfect.
I still see escorts as well but I'm finding that massages give me all I need. And I can do a walk in so I'm not forced to make an appointment, tho that's an option too.
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Who wouldn't like slippery tits massaging their clit (or their dick as the case may be).
to it a few years ago. I like it because it washes off a lot faster than oil based mediums. I've had a few girls try oil slip and slide and spent twenty minutes in the shower afterward trying to get the oil out of my hair, my ears and my butt-crack. Can only imagine trying to get it out of a pussy. Give me the gel any day.
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Where I go for nuru they charge $100/hr or $40/ hhr.
I went for one today and got a great nuru with a tiny little white spinner and tipped her $50. So it cost me $150 for the hour for a massage and a happy ending. That's about 1/3 the cost of what I'd have spent on a provider.
I went for one today and got a great nuru with a tiny little white spinner and tipped her $50. So it cost me $150 for the hour for a massage and a happy ending. That's about 1/3 the cost of what I'd have spent on a provider.
Suppose you're an older gent, or have some kind of disability, or recovering from an injury or something. You still want to get your rocks off, but you may not be able to perform in a FS kind of capacity. FBSM sounds like a nice way to go. I've seen providers who aren't that great when it comes to FS, but they were amazing at FBSM. Seems to me that it is it's own skill set and it provides a different kind of experience.
I went to 1 fbsm and the massage wasnt great. More of a rubbing with oil...she let me touch her and suck on her tits n some dfk...then a happy ending. I guess i just went to the wromg fbsm provider then.
... there's providers who are great at FBSM but also offer FS, often with two different rate schedules. So whatever you're in the mood for, you can get it. Kinda like the old Mounds/Almond Joy jingle. 
I guess i just see more "value", if you will, in getting the 45 min fs for .2 more. In reviews you read that they got a massage too in fs sessions. I have been offered the massage but never took it. The point being, i can get it and more guaranteed for a tad more.
... you might do with a beautiful, sexy woman, I can see your POV. But there's so many other ways to have fun with a woman. That's why I never schedule less than an hour and almost always at least 90 minutes. Then there's time for (mutual) massage, if that's what we choose to do, and many other activities.
As a practical matter, I know of very few high-quality providers in my area who will do 45 minute sessions. Some will do 30, but for most providers I'd be interested in seeing the minimum is an hour.
I would hazard to guess you don't frequent these kind of places, but a quick perusal of his reviews shows that is exactly the kind of places he patronizes.
Was curious as to perspectives and why the fbsm choice if cost is the issue. FBSM in this area can run 200 to 220 an hour...whereas some of the top asian agencies offer 45 min for 220.
the location impacts rates more than the cost of services. DC is notoriously high for any kind of real estate.
I see why you're asking. Where I'm from, the spread is more like from 250 down to 160. There may be reputable FS GFE providers for less than 250, but I don't feel like finding out. Most of them are 300 and up.
Assuming price isn't an issue, there are still reasons to prefer FBSM to GFE. FS is not important to some guys. FBSM is its own thing, with its own fans.
Assuming price isn't an issue, there are still reasons to prefer FBSM to GFE. FS is not important to some guys. FBSM is its own thing, with its own fans.
A lot of guys (like me) find that FBSM is a good way to dip your toes (and other parts) in the hobbying waters. There are plenty who started glorious hobbying careers by getting a FBSM.
I also know of married guys who do FBSM because "it's not cheating its not FS". Then there is the subset of hobbyists who do massages because they perceive it to come with lower STD risks.
And some guys jsut like hanging out naked with hot girls who are also naked, even if there is no FS.
I also know of married guys who do FBSM because "it's not cheating its not FS". Then there is the subset of hobbyists who do massages because they perceive it to come with lower STD risks.
And some guys jsut like hanging out naked with hot girls who are also naked, even if there is no FS.
Lol as a married woman EVERYTHING I do with a stripper/escort/masseuse is definitely cheating. There is no line in the sand that separates a sexual act as cheating and another as not cheating. It all falls under that same umbrella. It is what it is. I own it and realize and accept the risks involved.
My own view is that if the SO would think it's cheating, then it's cheating. However, people will often go to interesting lengths to rationalize/justify their behavior.
One reason is sometimes it is more relaxing - I frequent an American Spa where I know FS is not on the table. Went the other day and had this very sensual relaxing hour with a lovely Latina lady. Left relaxed and rejuvenated. Cost less than FS yet I had a great time.
In my area, you can get a gfe 45 min session with a really good provider for 2.2...on the other hand you can get an hour fbsm for 2.
Why would anyone prefer the latter vs the former? If you go fbsm you can get extras but have to pay extra. What the reasoning for an individual to take the fbsm route? Not like the girls at the fbsm places give a real cmt quality massage.
What am I missing?
Wouldn't you rather pay the .2 extra for it all?
in my neighborhood, an Indy FBSM ranges from $120 topless rub and tug to $200 quality massage, nude, and YMMV on kissing, DATY, and or other fun. FS starts at $300, but is more like $400-500 for well reviewed Indies with a nice incall.
So in answer to the OP's question about the reason for FBSM route:
Apples to apples price difference is more like 50-100% not 10%.
The better FBSM girls are prettier and less jaded than the better FS girls.
A really sensual HJ can be just as satisfying or better than an in-the-hat experience.
If I'm shopping for something new on a site like BP, FBSM is a lot less risky.
Last but not least, it's kind of fun to meet a FBSM girl and stretch her boundaries or time.