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Guys who don't care too much for DATY
Adrienne Baptiste See my TER Reviews 9056 reads
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Are y'all out there? Just curious.  

I remember a day and age when no one ate pussy. Now, it's all about eating pussy and if you're a real freak . . . eating ass.  

But seriously though, I've been told by some men that they would never go down and I can totally respect that because DATY is not really my thing either.

my-0.02-cents100 reads

DATY is amazing when everything is smooth with no ingrown hairs or razor burns.  

DATO is amazing when there is no discoloration back there and obviously proper communication with everybody involved. I know a provider that will not use the bathroom if she cant take a shower right after she takes care of business. Most providers I know that offer DATO and Anal are all big fans of anal douching.  

I think both have become popular because of girls, especially providers have taken hygiene to a new level.  Of course, both are off the table if there is smell or anything that does not look right.

Well.. I've been boy crazy, since I was in Kindergarten..!!  But anyway,  yes 2 out of 3 guys love Daty that I meet.. Ain't bad!!   Xoxo

A lot of folks private parts are different colors from the rest of their bodies. I don't think Discoloration is unnatural in places where the 'sun don't shine". Lol

my-0.02-cents77 reads

Anal bleaching clears up the years of poop stains left to dry that is also an eye sore. Perfect examples can be seen in porn movies from the 90s and early 00s.

I would love to see this conversation.  Hello, mice to meet you. What do you do.......im an anal bleaching tech....lol

Posted By: my-0.02-cents
Re: Anal Discoloration  
Anal bleaching clears up the years of poop stains left to dry that is also an eye sore. Perfect examples can be seen in porn movies from the 90s and early 00s.
Years of poop stains? Normal daily hygiene cleans up poop stains on your ass. Your skid marked panties might need some bleach, but not your ass.  
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Those porn movies from years ago? Those were probably strung out actors who hadn't bathed (properly) in a few days (or weeks). The shit and crust and dingleberries around an asshole would clean up with warm water and soap.  
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"The years," regardless of the pooping, are accompanied by normal aging: a pimple here or there, an "age spot" (discoloration), maybe a bruise that doesn't heal as quickly as when we were kids, ... THOSE things around their anus are the kinds of things that some people might be obsessed with enough to turn to dermatologists (or, more likely, crackpots) for help with. "Bleaching" in that sense doesn't mean cleaning your ass with Clorox. It means removing or lightening various skin discolorations using a medically appropriate procedure.

. . . and the blackest nipples I've seen on a white girl.  

I don't think her asshole is a product of shit stains. Dark assholes/armpits/nipples and even inner thighs can be genetic.

Lmao!!!! Girl, for real! You're too much!
Go on with your bad zelf! Xo

Where’s my “You go girl” gif when I need it?! Lol!

GaGambler114 reads

I tried to eat pussy a few times when in my teens, but I needed a map and a machete to get to "the promised land" and after coughing up a few hairballs I simply gave up on eating pussy until the women I was seeing discovered the razor some twenty years later. lol

 
Now I love to DATY, but I won't eat a pussy that is not at least "trimmed", and in the interest of fair play, I keep myself neatly trimmed "down there" as well.

You should have bought yourself a weed wacker GaG 😂

Posted By: GaGambler
Re: I became sexually active in the 1970's, back when the "full bush" was in vouge
I tried to eat pussy a few times when in my teens, but I needed a map and a machete to get to "the promised land" and after coughing up a few hairballs I simply gave up on eating pussy until the women I was seeing discovered the razor some twenty years later. lol  
   
   
 Now I love to DATY, but I won't eat a pussy that is not at least "trimmed", and in the interest of fair play, I keep myself neatly trimmed "down there" as well.

Back in those days I had the girlfriends trim the undergrowth to a very short lawn. At first they thought it was a little weird, but after a few daty sessions they appreciated that they had done it - maybe because so few guys did the y thing back then. Nowadays it's no big deal either for the trim or the y. (Though my personal pref is still soixante-neuf.)

I swear body discoloration is normal for all ethnicities. So if you want to put your mouth and nose where the sun don't shine do it go hard. Try sucking the soul out of her . Really when the lights are off whose worried about a little dark wet hole lol. What should be discussed is those sparse hairs down their that alway get stuck between your teeth lol....

It messed up my neck. I got bone chips in my neck, from doing too much of it when I was younger.

souls_harbor59 reads

kinks and fetishes of all kinds, but I think the modern enthusiasm for DATY is from guys trying to please their women.

I think the good old BJ is more mainstream now as well -- cuz ladies trying to please their men.

I don't mind doing DATY if the gal enjoys it, but I could just as well skip it if it doesn't do anything for her.  If she'd just as soon spend that time blowing me, well, have at it.

SmurfC1085 reads

I love DATY especially if she has girlcum/gooey goodness when she orgasms.  However, this is rare and/or girls are shy about this.  I wish it wasn't the case!

When I first got into eating at the Y only some girls took care of things. Then once I decided to shave and found out how much the girl liked it, then I decided to take my girl to the shower if she was not shaved or trimmed. I love daty by all means and will have to give the dato a whirl and make sure to communicate it with my girl to make sure all is good down there as well.

Love love love putting my head between a woman's legs and and having a fun little dance between my tongue and her clit.  One way to descirbe it, it feels like home when I am there - just no place that I would rather be.  Makes me hard as a rock, just fucking turns me on.  Have had long BJs where it just wasn't quite happening, so went back to eating, then I could cum from almost anything within a minute.  Love it.

Me too but won`t go near it unless it`s shaved close. Consequently I would think she would want me shaved too so I manscape before each session. I`ve  gotten many thank you`s for that.

Great thing about eatin` cookie is that there`s nothing left to the imagination! Like Jstgttnstrtd just said,  you`re THERE, your f***ing HOME dude, lmao!  
A man is a human being that enters this life through a vag, then the poor bastard is compelled to spend the rest of his life trying to get back in.
I`ll always be her cookie monster and stay down on that flower for an hour if that`s what it takes to send my girl to Lala land.

As far as DATO goes, if she especially turns me on that to me is the most intimate thing there is in sex. That is her most private, sacred, intimate place. If she will receive me there, I will literally ascend into heaven. To bury my face in  her ass crack and tongue f**k her starfish for me is total nirvana. YMMV lol.  
Love this juicy thread, who started this? Good stuff.

Rarely on the first meet. But if the vibe is right and we're feeling each other then it's whatever, whenever.

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And she taught me DATO too. She was in her late 20's and her session started with her licking me from my mouth, then over every part of my body and finally ending up with BBBJ. It was so fucking hot!!

I remember telling her that I wanted to learn how to pleasure her and she smiled and showed me. It was amazing. I've been a lover of pleasing women ever since.  
Hehehe, I've been getting lots of old memories popping up lately. Really fun ones.
Thanks for the OP, Adrienne.

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Your last picture Adrienne screams Eat Me!   Very tempting and hot!

My last picture screams pull out your hard dick and fuck me lll

Unless you're "trying to suck a fart out of her", it's like licking any other body part.
Damn people are so afraid of the asshole.  
The asshole is often cleaner than the pussy. and you're very unlikely to ingest tapeworm eggs.

Posted By: Bendadick.Cuminsnatch
Re: Eating ass is freaky?
Unless you're "trying to suck a fart out of her", it's like licking any other body part.  
 Damn people are so afraid of the asshole.  
 The asshole is often cleaner than the pussy. and you're very unlikely to ingest tapeworm eggs.
Vaginal and anal flora are different. Not gonna look it up right now, but I believe that vaginal critters in a healthy (asymptomatic) Provider are mostly yeast and fungi; they can be annoying. The little critters from the shitter are associated with some really bad infectious diseases: cholera; dysentery; diarrhea; salmonella, shigella; rotavirus; norovirus; hep A and hep E; giardia; cryptosporidium; and more. A bunch of restaurant, cafeteria and supermarket cholera epidemics are traced to human waste contaminating the lettuce or strawberries and such. The carrier is asymptomatic of cholera but they contaminate things that they handle using unwashed hands (or shitting on the plants while tending the fields).

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It's a short walk; maybe less than an inch.  If your eating pussy you may as well be eating ass.

Posted By: stucaboy
Re: What prevents these "little critters"  from walking over to the Pussy?
It's a short walk; maybe less than an inch.  If your eating pussy you may as well be eating ass.
Not all of them are crawlers. Some are swimmers. And an inch is still a hell of a long distance to a microbe. It would be like trying to walk from New York to Boston through peanut butter while wearing lead boots.
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And we assume that she is showered and cleaned up before our arrival, leaving a clean pussy and the remaining critters holed up in the rear.

"Hand hygiene is a focus of the public health effort to stem the outbreak because the virus can spread when infected people don’t wash their hands well enough after going to the bathroom and then share food, drink or drugs, have sex or have other close contact with an uninfected person."
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"The SYMPTOMS of hepatitis A infection, which DO NOT APPEAR IN ALL CASE, include fever, fatigue, nausea, loss of appetite, yellowing of the eyes (jaundice), stomach pain, vomiting, dark urine, pale stools and diarrhea."
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Skip the middleman -- or middle hands -- and just stick your tongue directly into someone's asshole.  
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Oh ... I'm sorry. Is this more fake news?

Posted By: impposter
Re: Cleaner than what?
Posted By: Bendadick.Cuminsnatch
Re: Eating ass is freaky?  
 Unless you're "trying to suck a fart out of her", it's like licking any other body part.  
  Damn people are so afraid of the asshole.    
  The asshole is often cleaner than the pussy. and you're very unlikely to ingest tapeworm eggs.
Vaginal and anal flora are different. Not gonna look it up right now, but I believe that vaginal critters in a healthy (asymptomatic) Provider are mostly yeast and fungi; they can be annoying. The little critters from the shitter are associated with some really bad infectious diseases: cholera; dysentery; diarrhea; salmonella, shigella; rotavirus; norovirus; hep A and hep E; giardia; cryptosporidium; and more. A bunch of restaurant, cafeteria and supermarket cholera epidemics are traced to human waste contaminating the lettuce or strawberries and such. The carrier is asymptomatic of cholera but they contaminate things that they handle using unwashed hands (or shitting on the plants while tending the fields).

Image, (1): "spread when faecal matter enters the mouth."

my-0.02-cents44 reads

I agree 100%, but you would still be exposed to most of those bacterias if you are having sex with somebody because fecal matter can touch the sheets your hand will touch. Somebody can easily not was their hands and contaminate inanimate objects that so many other people will touch and can get infected if they don't wash their hands.

When I had salmonella, I was told by the doctors  
Don't kiss anybody for a week  
Don't share any food, drinks or anything that touches my mouth
Clean and wipe down toilet and sink with antibacterial wipes after using it for #2
Sex, in general, was at the bottom of the list.  

 
Don't forget everybody, please wash your hands when you get home or before eating.

Posted By: my-0.02-cents
Re: Cleaner than what?
I agree 100%, but you would still be exposed to most of those bacterias if you are having sex with somebody because fecal matter can touch the sheets your hand will touch. Somebody can easily not was their hands and contaminate inanimate objects that so many other people will touch and can get infected if they don't wash their hands.
It's the dose. We are surrounded by all sorts of nasty stuff all the time. You lie on a sheet and, after several transfers, you get contaminated by one "unit" of infectious bacteria. A reasonably healthy immune system can handle that, usually.
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Now, stick your tongue in someone's shitter and get a direct hit of ten million units of infectious bugs. They are multiplying while your own bacteria and immune system are trying to fight them off. If the bugs win, you are seriously ill, you become an infectious carrier, and maybe you die.

Just, yikes!  

Even though I'm a proficient ass eater (and ass eater giver!) I won't sit up here and say eating ass is safe than eating pussy. No matter how clean an anus is, there is still risk. With that being said, I make it a point to get tested every 3 months, sending my clients/production studios my test results if needed.

Julian747 reads

Adrienne, you got me totally confused here. Are you saying that you would rather eat ass than pussy despite the fact that eating pussy is less risky than eating ass?

I don't do DATO personally, the idea of sticking my tongue where the shit comes out is just too hard for me to get past, but given the choice between eating a woman's ass, or sucking a man's dick, even covered, there really is no choice at all. Bring on the ass. lol

 
I suppose Adrienne must feel the same way, if she doesn't "swing both ways" eating a pussy to her must be like sucking a dick to a straight man.

I wanted to see her actually and she loves her men.

DATY was the reason I started the hobby. Seems like civilian woman were not keen on a guy going down there. Forget DATO at all. It's called proper hygiene, and if women shower or bath every day, there should be no issues. The first time I did DATO was with my first service provider, the date was winding down, I mentioned doing it, she smiled wickedly, took the doggy style position and I was addicted. No discoloration on her. Everything including the backdoor was gorgeous.

The following criteria must be satisfied before I eat down there;

1. You must get tested for HIV and other STDs, and brandish your test results upon request.

2. It must be done at a same day testing facility so that I can get my turn with you before you see any other clients who may compromise your STD status, or else what's the point of you even getting tested?

3. You must impress upon me that you are keen on external hygiene, as it is just as important as internal hygiene, but this last one is something that I must observe over a period of time (3 yrs or more) which is why YMMV is so important under those circumstances.

Incidentally, most girls seem to go crazy at the thought of being probed by his tongue, relationships have ended over DATY disagreements, so why are you not too keen on receiving DATY? My best guess is that the sensations from receiving DATY are so intense, that it actually becomes overbearing. If I'm right, I really can't blame you. I imagine that a lady receives some pretty powerful sensations from being eaten, and some serious bedroom accidents have been known to occur from women falling off the bed and bruising all parts of them while they were writhing and squirming from the sensations they were feeling during any kind of sex, but especially DATY, so if one is going to dabble in it then they must be careful and remember safety first.

Another possibility as to why you're not too keen on receiving DATY is that it's a cultural taboo. Down in the islands, there are many reggae singers who perform anti-DATY lyrics in their songs, and their fans usually cosign that rhetoric. But in the case that their girlfriend really loves to receive DATY, they are now faced with a predicament where they are caught between pleasing their girl, or pleasing their reggae idol who probably has no moral right to disapprove of anyone's bedroom activities, especially when you consider that he's not perfect himself. Who would they rather please in such a predicament? If they would rather fuel the disapproval of their idol than doing whatever it takes to keep their girl happy, then it probably means that they are lowkey batty man.

Finally, as far as anilingus is concerned, this is where YMMV should truly come into play. No one should feel comfortable putting their mouth on a stranger's ass. If anilingus is your thing, then it should only be reserved for your bonafide lover with whom you have been going steady for 10 or more years.

Goddamn . . . all of this just to eat pussy?

I'd feel less ashamed if we were doing BBFS.

Wouldn't you want to see my test results before you let me go down on you, or before you perform BBBJ on me? Aren't you the least bit curious? Remember, we've never met! If I'm satisfied with your test results we might as well go BBFS to make it worth both our whiles.

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If you weren't so fucking pathetic you would hilarious.

 
Oh wait, You are both pathetic AND hilarious. Chicken Little move over, you have some serious competition here. lmao

He's just mad because he's not naturally funny like me, so he resorts to acting immature just to get some attention, lol!

If I don't look at woman and think, I'll bet she tastes amazing, why would I want to fuck her?

I can't see why a woman wouldn't enjoy DATY unless 1) she is self-conscious about it on SOME level or 2) the guy doesn't know what he's doing.  

Likewise for a man and blowjobs.

(I'm sure someone'll pipe up with some medical reasons out there, or some sort of past trauma, but I'm talking generally.)

My ex thought all it took was his dick to keep me satisfied over the long haul. Needless to say, not only did I leave him, but I came out of "retirement" from this biz.  

I enjoy having a cock in my mouth because I LOVE pleasing my partner. It's my thing because I MADE it my thing. I made it my thing because it strokes my ego to be great in the sack, to KNOW I'm providing pleasure.

But I sure as hell LOVE being pleased myself. I'm a taker AND a giver.

-- Modified on 9/16/2017 12:06:23 PM

If I'm ever in Georgia....I'll be ready. :)

Posted By: sweetamanda
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I can't see why a woman wouldn't enjoy DATY unless 1) she is self-conscious about it on SOME level or 2) the guy doesn't know what he's doing.  
   
 Likewise for a man and blowjobs.  
   
 (I'm sure someone'll pipe up with some medical reasons out there, or some sort of past trauma, but I'm talking generally.)  
   
 My ex thought all it took was his dick to keep me satisfied over the long haul. Needless to say, not only did I leave him, but I came out of "retirement" from this biz.  
   
 I enjoy having a cock in my mouth because I LOVE pleasing my partner. It's my thing because I MADE it my thing. I made it my thing because it strokes my ego to be great in the sack, to KNOW I'm providing pleasure.  
   
 But I sure as hell LOVE being pleased myself. I'm a taker AND a giver.

-- Modified on 9/16/2017 12:06:23 PM

DATY and pu$$ies and rimming cleaner and safer than uncovered dick? Each their own on Daty

Daty every morning
Most economical way I've found to aquire my early morning glass of pussy juice
Heals the mind, body and soul...so I've been told

Actually, as it gets closer to winter time I step up my daty game
Nice to stock up a little
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I love hairy pussy.  I love horny musky strong scented pussy.  Not unhealthy smelly pussy but natural healthy aroma that is a mixture of horny secretions, sweat & even hints of pee.  It's a natural attractor.  Most guys seem to want no scent or it to smell of some kind of soap or body spray.  I want it to smell like a woman.  I want it to smell like Cunt!  And I do believe a nice dense bush traps all that aroma and really enhances the pheromonal experience!  

A PSA warning.  I was eating breakfast.  Now I'm not.  

I'll leave something good smelling on your upper lip

It needs to have a hint of pee, presumably for a bold finish like a good burgundy.  

I'm 60+, have enjoyed the pleasures of quite a few women in my life, but (alas) have eaten only three of them.

 
My first was a girl next door (literally) who claimed she was 19. I sensed she was much younger, and it turned out I was right. I was in my twenties and smart enough to minimize risk by stopping short at DATY. Maybe because she was so young, she had virtually no pubic hair; I loved that.

 
The second was my wife. I tried it on her once shortly after we were married. She didn't like it, so I never did it again for the next forty years. She has a very thick bush, and that makes it less than enjoyable for me, too.  

 
The third was one of five women with whom I had a civilian affair while I was married. This gal had a naturally thin bush, which I found inviting. Cunnilingus really heightened her mood for sex, so it worked well for us all during our 18-month-long relationship. (I had no inclination to eat any of the other four.)

 
Sorry, but I could never imagine doing it with a provider. Wait. Maybe only with a glass of hearty burgundy at my side. (In spite of my slim experience, I did learn that burgundy pairs well with pussy.)

I never said it "needs" to have a hint of pee.  I have however detected that at times and in the heat of the moment it's a fine layer of scent to be mixed in with everything else.  Like anything else it depends on very many factors.  If she ate asparagus I might not be so into it.  Whatever, I know you don't get it it.  It's more about the overall Essence.  Having a detectable scent doesn't mean it's dirty or unhealthy.  I wouldn't want my breakfast to smell like pussy.  But when your horny...a more odoriferous woman turns my primal switch on and I can't get enough!!!

Dick has a smell similar to pussy. It's a bit of an aphrodisiac to me as well. I know exactly where you're coming from!  

Hell, I used to smell my boyfriend's boxers.

Please do....I would be honored to wear your scent for a day!

You can skip it.....I'll rather blow you.  

I've never cum from it....almost once...

It's kinda boring to be honest, just give me some dick..use your tongue and mouth for kissing.  

 
Just my thoughts  

I envy the ladies who enjoy it....

I've got some tongue techniques that's guaranteed to make you cream all over the sheets.

Posted By: lisa0302
I've never cum from it....almost once...

I've been told that I'm good at it too. I used to do it more in sessions but not a lot lately. Also, I'll only do it if the lady is shaved and clean.  

I can't stand bush. I had a girl that I was seeing in college that had a huge bush and wouldn't shave or trim it. I ended up breaking up with her partially because it was such a turn off.

I've never heard of a guy breaking up with a girl over her bush. This is a new one. Lmao

i cant imagine making love to a woman and not tasting her first...listen,i've fucked women late at night/have had oral sex in places i wont mention...but i've never been with a woman i really wanted without my tongue in her pussy first,i learned a long time ago-if she comes first-everything else is just fine....besides,i love a woman coming in my mouth....

souls_harbor39 reads

Every time I see the title of this post, I think of the Beatles lyrics ...

"I don't care too much for DATY,
DATY can't buy me love.
Can't buy me love, love,
Can't buy me love.

I think you're doing it wrong.

Haha. Sorry, that was too easy. I couldn't resist. LoL

It's probably the pineapple infused jizz of the guy who barebacked her before him.

Fisher saw her before him?   I don't think Fisher takes the bus.  

Gagging on Jerk's jerk off like a couple of batty boys? Is that why both of you can't shut the fuck up for even a second? If you love the batty so much, keep it to yourselves, man.

That would be reserved for my SO.  (If I actually had a SO.  LOL!)

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