Some providers have a screening process in order to limit their risks. As clients we are putting ouselves at risk which could not only change our lives abut also ones close to us.
I am curious if any of us have sat down and looked at those risks and asked ourselves is it really worth it and how did you rationalize that it is worth the risk.
There are riks in every day life. You choose to take them, or not. If your that paranoid about the "risks" involved in the hobby, find something else to occupy your time.
Im sorry if I came across as being a bitch, but think about what you just said...we risk being beaten to death, assaulted or worse. The one that does it gets to go home..we dont. And what about ones close to us? Do we not have family and freinds too???
That's right- we get scared that someone will rob us, assault us, abuse us, do things we don't agree to, kill us, have the LE visit us. We all made these choices, but no matter what, the client seems to have the lesser risks involved. And, its not there job, its a hobby for them. This is how we put a roof over our heads and food on our tables.
I did a risk reward analysis before I took the plunge and decided the rewards outweigh the risk The consequences of being caught vary with everyone. Personally, I’m divorced, no SO and own my own business. I wouldn’t want to be front page news and that’s why I stay out of MPs. Some of my friends know and don’t think it’s a big deal. Further reduce my risk by doing my homework here, other boards and seeing only high class well reviewed ladies. This hobby is the only way I have of being interment with a beautiful 20 something. I can afford to hobby and it’s about my only form of entertainment. Just my .02
including what I had to pay for the divorce.
Do your homework and reduce the risk even further if you like.
It's just not the cherry on the sundae, it is the sundae.
Though feel compelled to respond anyways. My apologies... kinda'.
A mans reputation and right to make decisions which may come back to haunt him, vs. my physical safety and personal freedom. NO CONTEST.
Take responsibility for assessing your risk and mitigating it as you wish, though please respect what us ladies are trying to protect.
I agree that the provider is taking way more risks than we are. I don't begrudge any screeneing that they do -- if its too intrusive there are other girls out there.
On ther other hand our (the hobbyist's) risks aren't insignificant, but we're lucky that with sites like TER where we can verify that the provider has reviews from one or more hobbyists with good track records makes our risks manageable, but not zero.
It still amazes me, though, that these wonderful girls, in spite of the risks and understandable apprehension, can make any fat, ugly, old fart (e.g. Splunge) that walks through the door feel like he's the sexiest man since Brad Pitt.
-- Modified on 4/4/2006 8:00:37 PM
Well, let's see,
The risks that could change your life and the lives of those close to you are pretty much the same as if you had an affair or picked up a woman in a bar and got caught. If you care so much about hurting those close to you and know that participating in this hobby will do that, then that is kind of your own choice and the risk you chose to have your fun.
The risk from LE to clients...
often clients are let go, many times just given a ticket. Chances are good that if they get a ticket for being a client it will end right there.
If a lady gets caught by LE she is arrested, she has to appear in court, if she has kids they could be taken away, she will be ostracised in her community and could loose a "day job" she holds...can even perhaps be evicted from her apartment or home if she rents, if they think or say she worked from there at all.
There is a small chance a lady could physically attack you, or that she might have a guy there that will attack you...but I must say I have read many more instances of ladies being beaten, assaulted, robbed , murdered, etc by clients; than clients being done so by providers.
So, yes, the ladies screen, because if they didn't they would be putting everything at risk, and a big risk at that...if a lady screens more than you are comfortable with...don't give her the information, and move on.