Gang,
I'm really frustrated. I've had multiple dates scheduled at least a week in advance with providers who have no showed after confirming. Why can't we have that in our reviews? Totally frustrating to have a date with a provider who is just absent when I'm in town.Some ladies won't tour if not enough bookings (still should have told you)
Some ladies are shitheads and play games (even those types play games with other providers FYI)
Some ladies flake and pull a NCNS (you can always call out on your local board and be fake surprised that they are like that)
You may have not passed screening and she didn't want to outright say it (she should at least)
Some ladies are great gals, others have a screwed up life.
I don't screw around and am the jerk who tells you no if I am not going to, for whatever reason. There should be a separate section about fucking around, ncns by providers. Yes, I said it. Guess why I feel that way? Gals who set appts and don't act shady should be rewarded.
BTW Calling anyone out on local board can have drawbacks. If you do so, stick to point and don't come across as being obsessed. Otherwise other gals worry about seeing you.
is happening multiple times perhaps it is the providers you are choosing.
Are they well-reviewed here?
I know ncns happens to some guys as well as some providers but when this consistently happens seems there might be more to the story.
I agree it is frustrating when a date does not show up.
Agreed. Usually more to the story and two sides to every story.
My advice is if the guy here is stressing in the hobby it's time to find a new hobby, new escort, or at least take a break.
I've had ncns happen to me and I communicated directly with the ladies it happened with. I was frank, direct, and respectful in my words to the two or three that did this to me. Two of them later reached out and I've seen them a few times now and we have fun.
Both had good reviews and knew this was out of character for either of them, her so it was confusing as fuck, especially after seeing them before. Life and shit happens.
Keep it simple, professional, and have fun. If she does not respect him, his time or resources then she's not worth it and he should move on.
Have a good daty, I mean day!!!!
join the club crazy man..
Enough said ? Try getting a deposit returned from a NCNS !!
I can attest to this.She requested travel cost by PayPal .Then no contact after that.I contacted her two hours before time..said she don't feel like coming out...then her kid won't fall asleep( (not sure which one to believe if any) ...try to re schedule with an ultimatum of two days notification because I was not gonna be without a date again on that occasion ..unfortunately same result........she don't contact me unless I contact her....so two days before I make sure to found myself a wonderful (Thai date) ...best date I ever had in this hobby).
The only regret is that she is a thief who refuse to return the $60 travel fee......only for integrity reason why I don't reveal her name her,...but I can tell you she advertise Baltimore and Alexandria.(White..age 21-25 and has a p411 account that she does not deserve.
ROB's like her are exactly why TER was created in the first place.
If you don't have the balls to name her, then I don't have even the least bit of sympathy for you, and the next guy she rips off can thank you for not having the guts to warn the community. If you won't do it here, the least you can do is post about it on your regional board.
You are right about that..she did not have any why should I show any..her id number is 267705 .....if she is your type anyway.
at the same time you are visiting a town, is like trying to shoot down a bullet with a bullet.
You'd be better off instead scheduling with a local provider in that town so at least you know she won't be cancelling a tour because she didn't have enough response, etc.
You might want to improve your search technique and re read Jaydalee's post.
searching as well.
No show professional lost business and make her business look bad.
TER need to allow us to review unwarranted NCNS ...especially those who request deposits.
There seems to be a rash of these NCNS's here in Milwaukee lately, even among well-reviewed providers. This happens after an "OMW" or "Leaving" text, then nothing. Sometimes after a day or two I'll hear from the provider with an apology and a somewhat believable excuse. The excuses become less probable after hearing the same one from different providers though.
I'm left putting my money back into my wallet and wondering if business in Milwaukee is so good that we clients just don't matter to these girls. In the end, I've spent a third of what I put aside for my extracurricular activity in the past month.
Sorry. I have been towards Madison for a few months now and am currently getting ready to leave for Chicago again (most of Sept). I will be back in Milwaukee some of October when I am not in DC if that helps. I am typically in Milwaukee FT but been trying to change things up and most regs are willing to take the drive.
I agree it is annoying when you are sitting there waiting on anyone and then they don't show. I don't accept apologies days later. If they cared, they'd get back to you as soon as able... and frankly, it is pretty unlikely in that little time frame of her "being on way" that something comes up. It happens but not often for anyone.