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Providers are just dumb sluts?
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Lol excuse the hard title, just want a little input. I’m On my 3rd year of college studying business law. Sooo i have a client of mine that I used to see regularly recently text me out the blue asking me if i still go to school, I answered yes why ? His response was “wow what is the point if you are already making money off this. Why do you even need school? For what? School isn’t going to help you? Isn’t this your life having sex & making money ?..... now I understand school is a scam lol but I want my damn degree dammit. Isn’t that offensive towards me

...harbors some resentment towards you and he's trying to hurt you.

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Personally, I gave up caring what stupid people think about be a LONG LONG time ago.

 
As for school, "smart sluts" know they most likely don't want to have "this" as their only way to make a living down the road, and "down the road" comes a lot faster than you could ever imagine. "Dumb sluts" don't realize this and fall for the allure of "easy money"  that doesn't require years of study. So in your case, you sound much more like a smart slut than a dumb slut so I wouldn't worry about what some guy you "used to see" thinks about what you are doing with your life.

Tippecanoe42 reads

If you're brain dead, then it doesn't really matter - case in point.

This is 100% correct. Your education and what you have worked for can never be taken from you. I as well in school and always trying to better myself and my life. Again, with escorting it is wonderful and gives you a sense of security but there is a shelf life to this. You need something to eventually fall back on and going to school and getting a education is extremely smart in my estimation. Forget what that idiot had said.

School or academic smarts does not necessarily equate to life smarts. Some of tje smartest textbook people ai know are complete idiots amd morons.

How one treats others, handles their personal affairs, plans, and makes decisions is where it's at.  Academics may help in some areas of life, but not all.

Yeah its only good for getting a job and stuff like that ...

I've also met some really smart women.  Point being, hookers are like any other group of people.  Some dumb.  Some smart.  Some in between.  Just like Smartie.  Sometimes she smart.  Sometimes she Dummie.  But she always Funnie.

perhaps not.

 
Here, this song will explain it all:

souls_harbor30 reads

in many areas.  No one can know everything about everything.  Also if you go visit the political forum you'll find that everyone there is dumb according to everyone else.  

That said, while many of us haven't really planned our futures particularly well (especially during our youthful years) it is always a good idea to develop some marketable skills.

It's certainly possible to remain in the escort business up into your late 50's (and beyond) but you generally have to have lucky genetics as I mentioned in another thread.   But there might be a danger in waiting too long after the calls start to dwindle.  You might go through a period of low income while you re-establish your career in the civie world.  It's kind of tough because a career switch is often a bit rough for a while.

Ok, that was harsh.  "Uninformed" is kinder.

Do you have any idea how many providers have careers outside of their providing work?  By my experience, lots of them.  My current 3 favs all have other careers (one owns two other businesses) and many other providers I've met over the years have/had other careers.  They do (or did) providing part time because they enjoyed it and it was great income for a few hours worked.  

And other providers I've known were funding their educations.  One was getting her masters in healthcare and was one of the sharpest minds I've ever met.  Whatever lies ahead for her, "she'll go far."

...... he sounds like a misogynistic, self important, controlling, ignorant, mean, demeaning  arsehole.

But that's just my opinionated opinion.

And being a slut has nothing to do with other life choices. I was called a man slut again yesterday. Around here, it's a badge of honor. Anyone that uses the definition of a slut in a negative way can fuck off.

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At least one of your clients is a dumb misogynist.  
You have a couple great reviews and appear to be veeery cute.  Next time he contacts you tell him to F off !

intelligence and degrees and all of that stuff is super sexy.  Degrees and escorting seem to complement each other quite well.  After all, once a lady starts pursuing her doctorate, for example, her rates usually double or triple.  Which tends to be followed by 2 hour minimums and language in her ads that suggests a strong preference for dinner dates.

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I am always happy when I here a provider is planning for the future. I find smart, ambitious women to be all the more attractive.

Best Wishes

that after you become an attorney, it won't have any effect on your escort rates.  In fact, he might respond more positively if you say the hourly rate will be the same whether he hires you for the bedroom or the boardroom.  

He don't have the right to tell you what to do with your life.You did not tell him what to do with his.You should stop seeing a stifling prick like that.  

On second though ,he probably don't know any better .You should raise your rate and get more money out t of his 'dumb ass'  to further your education  ,or let him move on.

I have clients that talk about my life on a very consistent basis. Granted, my past isnt the prettiest, i still hope to be better than this. Most of what i get is pretty close to hate speach- one thing or another about how my black boyfriend is my pimp, or that my child being "half-nigg*r" has no future with its prostitute mother. Believe me, i have so many people rooting against me. But this little bugger is tap dancing on my bladder, so I'm much too distracted.  

This lifestyle is subject to scruitny- i find it biased and a bit rude.

At least nobody is telling you you're an unfit mother for doing this. I get that comment daily. Oh, and "$400? But you arent GFE!?"  

Well, i cant be your girlfriend if im already some one else's! LOL. I didn't get pregnant by myself you know ;) ignore them, or find entertainment in the ignorance. I usually start with spelling and grammar checks ;) - men get so angry when corrected .  

To Each their own, but i sass back. No man that isn't MY MAN is gonna tell me shit about my life and how i go about it.

The "law of business" states:
Do your business, take his money (as long as everything else checks out) and ignore his comments. Remember, they're not worth anything if you don't let them to be but are worth a lot if you allow them to play on your mind.

I know it is easier said than done.

Wish you all the best in everything that you do.

The hobby is short term for most providers, or at least I hope so. Get that degree damn it!  

Saw a lady in DC many years back that was putting herself through Georgetown law school. She told me that many of her friends would be buried in student debt and that she wouldn't have any of that. She was bright, witty and really liked it in her ass  ( - :

 
MfSD>>>>

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Many lie about “college” enrollment status.

Some probably do lie, but in this case she had her law texts out on the desk in the room and a sample brief she was working on.

MfSD>>>>

Posted By: ordairport
Re: college  
Many lie about “college” enrollment status.
I visited someone at her Manhattan hi-rise apartment (rent out of reach for most poor students) and her B-school books and papers were on the big desk. We avoided the desk for OUR business and stuck to the bed and sofa. :-)

How do you know she wasn't studying to be a paralegal or that the books weren't just for show?

Posted By: hott_brie
Re: college  
How do you know she wasn't studying to be a paralegal or that the books weren't just for show?
First of all, I wouldn't have cared anyway!  
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Second of all, we were discussing relevant topics between thrusting and sucking. She was the real deal.

How do you know?  Did you see her at the law school she claimed to go  to?

I already have mine and my professional qualifications. Working 9-5 (or more like 8-7) doesn't suit me though!

Posted By: sirbucky
Re: college  
The hobby is short term for most providers, or at least I hope so. Get that degree damn it!  

Western concept of education is for money.
Eastern Concept of education is for seeking knowledge and better understanding of the world we live in.

"Philosophy is a way of thinking about the world in we live; RELIGION is a way of living with the things in the world in we live and; SCIENCE is a way of working with the things of the world in which we live".  

Pretty much the  eastern thinking

Posted By: anonymousfun
Re: Money and education
Western concept of education is for money.  
Eastern Concept of education is for seeking knowledge and better understanding of the world we live in.
Which explains why tens of thousands (cumulatively, hundreds of thousands) of students from the East compete for places in US colleges and universities. Because of the value of the US education and the intense competition, many of them cheat on exams and lie to immigration officials to get their student visas.  And some of them continue to lie and cheat in order to remain in the US.
"Philosophy is a way of thinking about the world in we live; RELIGION is a way of living with the things in the world in we live and; SCIENCE is a way of working with the things of the world in which we live".  

Pretty much the  eastern thinking

Money talks and students from Asia come to the US in droves in order to talk the talk ... in strictly philosophical terms, of course.

I haven't met with many escorts at this point, but a couple of them have mentioned that they attend college, presumably to move on from their current job as a provider.  

I can see the need for a Plan B. Hell, maybe escorting is the Plan B, and Plan A simply requires extra capital. I noticed older escorts typically have to charge less for their services, and I can imagine they often aren't in as high demand since younger girls come onto the scene on a constant basis. They probably even have to offer additional services they'd rather not have to do. Beauty fades and no one can stay young forever, but at the very least with a college degree a provider has the chance to switch over to a career where she won't have to worry about losing work because her boobs are starting to sag. It's a logical and sensible move, honestly.  

Were just as Smart  as we want to be..  & We Definitely make The Money.  💲💲💲💲💲 To Prove It !!   👩‍🎓  😚😚

Are you in law school or undergraduate?  I've never heard of a business law major.

You may have never set foot in a college but even grade schoolers know how to use google. There certainly is such a thing as a business law major. Whether the OP is actually in school or in that major is debatable but to say that major does not exist is just ignorant. Stick to your coloring books.

Ok, perfectshitstain.  Which school has a business law major?

Posted By: hott_brie
Re: Business Law??
Are you in law school or undergraduate?  I've never heard of a business law major.
There are so many colleges with so many programs trying to distinguish themselves from each other AND to provide exactly what a paying student wants. International environmental business forensic psychology? "Take these courses and you're good for it! Payment in advance, please."  International? I wanted US! "OK. Drop this course, add that course. Done! Payment in advance, please. .... $500 extra for gilt lettering on your diploma in place of plain black ink."  
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This kind of stuff has come up before. When a Provider mentioned that she wrote a thesis for her undergrad degree some posters called BS.  First, she was from the UK. Second, there are MANY US colleges where some departments have a thesis requirement for undergrads!

The school I got to is known for there criminal Justice programs and have many different majors other schools
Don’t have or “never heard of” so yes that’s what my major is named.

Go* ...IF YOU never heard of it just google it don’t try that “it’s the holidays bullshit” this thread isn’t giving me anymore clients LOL or “sympathy” I wanted some opinions on how people feel about that . Ignorant asses.

Yea, screw that guy (not literally, ever again lol).

Imho I think the guy was being a bit selfish in wanting to know that you quit school to take on escorting forever. Purple do make great careers out of this business and he moght just really be hoping that you stay in the business instead oid chasing your degree which again is kinda selfish on his part.

Disregard the opinions of others where your future is concerned. It is one thing to offer a suggestion and guidance and another to ridicule and criticize. There are those hobbyists who overcompensate for their own inadequacies who degrade and belittle the very women they are paying to satisfy them because they believe we are unintelligent, desperate, and codependent.  Shockingly, some of us actually do this by choice because we enjoy what we do  and the rewards that come with it.  If you think of the ludicrousness and irony of it all… It took me 27 years to become a certified teacher continuously with the exception of two semesters  and I graduated with a 4.0 college education. I also am an attorney general‘s award winner for authoring legislation and lobbying it in the state of Arizona. Let no one tell you who you are, who you should be, or tell you how you  should be living your life.  My father, who is buried in the columbarium at Arlington National Cemetery, told me in my 20s…Education is NEVER a waste and I think that is the best advice he had ever given me. For you, a steppingstone to where you are headed and even if you continued to do only this, a decision requiring no one’s unsolicited advice nor criticism and justifiable on its merit.

Some people can't walk and chew bubble gum at the same time, so they don't expect others to be able to.  It cracks me up that folks think that your job is what you do, live, eat breath, sleep and shit 24/7.  

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