...just wondering...what makes you cum...u wanna be made loved to..or do just wanna fuck..
Ladies can cum when they want to. Having a man there is optional.
So I'm Naughty & Nice..So I Like Both , Wink Xoxo
Yes, we can come without outside help like you but somehow the scale of the orgasm I give myself are not in comparison with the one received from a partner, think 5 compare to a 8...10 with the loved one...
My solo's are to help me sleep before my afternoon nap...nice but not significant...
My thoughts exactly. I can take Pleasure myself very well but it's not the same when my body starts jerking and I start to lose energy causing my hand to lose control that only a man can handle. I do it for sleep and a piece of mind too lol stress kills!
OP I prefer love making then fucking! It's all about the momentum for me!
... or rather, my BODY'S mood. And my pussy doesn't always send me a memo to tell me what's gonna work from one day to the next. ;-P
There are times I wanna fuck and fuck HARD and it feels amazing but I'm just not getting there. Then I'll need a little clitoral stimulation (either while fucking or afterward) to get off.
Usually clitoral stimulation from oral or a little buzzy friend does the trick but occasionally I need more.
And, of course, there are the instances when NOTHING is working. This either means I'm not able to turn off my brain enough to get in the moment, or I've had too much to drink.
Yes, just as you men can have performance issues when intoxicated, so can women. 
Taking mental notes.
the performance issues are not the same. You can still perform without hard nipples. Most guys can't without a hard dick. Lol
Or if you simply can't resist the urge to be condescending.
By performance issues, I meant an inability to orgasm.
humorous word-play on other people's posts is lost here on the serious types. I will try to be more careful and exactling in my phraseology, but I absolutely refuse to dumb things down. Also, I have a long history of being obtuse to create humor and lighten things up. Speaking of lightening up . . . . . .
I knew exactly what you meant, but pretended you meant something else. O-B-T-U-S-E. Look it up.
The definition refers to an angle greater than 90 degrees.
more than one definition. Look on another word site.
Look at the word "pork." It can be a noun (had some good pork), a verb (I'm going to pork her), or can be made into an adverb to describe a decent-looking girl (she is porkable). Likewise, the other definition of Obtuse is
"Lacking quickness of perception." That is how I use it. Blond jokes usually involve obtusity.
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Not that I have a dog in this fight, but porkable would be an adjective. Porkably would be the proper construction for an adverb, but I can't really come up with a context for which that would make sense.
I stand corrected.
"She and I get along porkably."
Adverbs were never my thing. Is that right? Maybe it's supposed to be more like "She porkably shook me all night long."
You underestimate yourself, good sir. I hereby proclaim both examples acceptable.
Or used a condescending tone?
Kinda hard to discern subtle humor from the written word.... as I have learned, and re-learned here, many a time. LOL.
There's a difference between being obtuse versus taking words literally. 
Pick strawberries in our back yard, but I've never picked "nit." In fact, I'm not even sure what it is.
Thought I'd start your training with an easy example. Lol
Definition of nit
1 :the egg of a louse or other parasitic insect; also :the insect itself when young
2 :a minor shortcoming
Monkeys pick nits out of each other's body hair.
Im hard wired for sensuality. That said, sensual can be intense, but is lots of touch, DFK. Slower paced on average. DATY is a must if a man truly wants to please me.
It all depends but I'm gonna say I really love to fuck. Lol. What makes me cum is an imagination and dirty talk
I like what I call a "love fuck"
Passionately fuck me senseless!
XOXO
TL
Sure would like to try.....omg
with a descent, just laid there, subpar effort makes me cum. Really doesn't take much.
Modification is for clarification:
This is for the first pop only. The second pop is a different story.
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oral fixation!