Asj your provider. She'll tell you. Some require a thorough wash with anti-bacterial soap first.

But as always, respect your provider's rules and boundarie.

I once had a providerwho didn't allow DATY. Not due to health reasons, but because she doesn't like it. That was new to me because I love to give it, but I respected her rule. We just weren't a good match.

Treat these ladies special because they are.

wet to start with. Too many guys assume that it just flows like a waterfall after one kiss, and this is not match.com it's pay for play. Takes some time to um...warm up. During daty, I like it rubbed around the outside and put in half way, and please lord NOT your freaking thumb! You're welcome.

who would just love me putting my index finger in pussy. She showed me once how to find her G-Spot and how much pressure to apply. She also told me that I should always start slow and ask the lady for how fast to go, and then follow lady's direction...

At 20, this chic knew her body better than most 30 yr old ladies.

Not a fan at work.

There is a book which should be required reading for all DATY fans titled: "She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman" authored by Ian Kerner. It was enlightening to read that the guy should spend at least 20 minutes on foreplay before approaching the vaginal area.  Google the title and you can find it on Amazon.

I don't do FIV

I had to read my reviews to make sure I didn't forget . I only do FIV  with civilians , except a  couple  times a provider guided  my finger  in her .  Seemed rude to me ,  like forcing a kiss on a provider who doesn't kiss .  
If you think that's peculiar  , so do I .  
 I saw a provider one time because all her reviews and profile said she didn't kiss ,  to see what sex without kissing was like .   I was disappointed when she started kissing  me .  
 

For them to allow you full access to putting a finger inside. If you tried once and she pushes your hand away or moves away, just ignore trying again for a couple minutes and continue with foreplay and daty. Pay attention to the clit and try saying things to get her turned on and "comfortable." As a woman once told me (outside of the hobby) if "a woman doesn't want to cum, no matter what you try she will not" and if she is not cumming she isn't that turned on and your chances of fiv is slim.

And remember guys, not because a woman is wet, means she orgasm.

....doesn't enchance DATY for me. You're any good with just your lips & tongue i'm done 5 mins or less (it's happened lol).  I don't like fingers in my vag...I just don't doesn't get much deeper than that (no pun intended) .....gloves or not no thank you. There's not much of a way around doing something a woman doesn't want, like or allow.  If her profile says no or you ask her and she STILL says no (jic what it says on her profile is NOT incorrect) don't push it.

Some like FIV and some don’t.

Some like DATY and Some don’t.

Some like kissing and some don’t.

Some like french kissing some don’t.

Like and dislikes are as personal as fingerprint and genes which makes the wold a whole lot more fun. Besides, if you really know how to use your tongue no finger is necessary.

I bring gloves with me along with covers when I see clients.  The gloves really do come in handy (thank you, thank you, I'll be here all week).

If a gentleman or lady wished to use fingers, I would be happy to offer a glove for their use.  

Lauren

I'll usually end up fucking your hand until it becomes clear that your cock should be there instead.  

True story.

Different strokes for different folks!

I LOVE FIV and I am amazed and disappointed by the number of gentlemen who are all into DATY and expect a lady to have the big O without other stimulation..

NON FIV is the biggest reason why I can't get off with just DATY..
I just figured most gentlemen did not find it comfortable or weird or ?????

I do notice if you have washed your hands, clipped your nails and your general hygeine before play time..You could always try. If the lady does not want to she will tell you..

We can't read your mind and I try not to expect you to read mine..

Good Luck

In fact I may even ask for your finger in another opening that is close by.  When I am really turned on that is my very favorite.  Remember this is just me I am speaking of, not other women, so definately don't do that without asking.

I have even started getting manicures prior to appointments and spent money on exfoliating products to make my hands softer.  Very few ladies complaining about rough hands or finger nails, I'm a bit surprised.

when ever I FINGER FUCK, MY CLIENTS,

which i do,,,,,,,,,,men have a g spot in prostate blah b;ah we women dont have it, whatev whatev , its just anatomy, i toss a condom on my finger,,,,,,,or have toys and buy toy covers at amazing, then wash first with saop then a toy cleaner when doine,          maybe ask if you can use a tpy on em,,,,,,,but if a guy doesnt know what he isdoin and point it up while your layn down n he is facn you , oit can fuckn killl..............   make sure you aim sorta down but not too down, i had a dude use tpy on me and god he was aimn up i was layn down facn him ouch, it wasnt fun i kepot tryn to explain n he couldnt do it in a pleasurable way ............i would never insoist on anything they even remotely mention no too though,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,they may do it then feel like angry they gave in later,,,,,,,, i d just make sur eyou read reviews go to ones that like it, . if its done too rough it can ruin the sex after i think........but yeah in answeerr to question i toss a condom over my finger..........before i do prostate play.............