She makes a big effort to be at her best, both mentally and physically.
She laughs at my goofy jokes.
She tells me how much she's going to take from my wallet.
Try to find that out from a civie or sb date.
She treats me with respect and acceptance.
My sexual satisfaction is important to her. And my kinks are either enjoyed or at least respected.
And some of the ladies are the best friends I've ever had.
You know, we all are so lucky to have such quality ladies at our beck and call. They make everyday worthwhile! They listen to all our conversations and are able to respond in a meaningful manner and they are there to cuddle with us, to love us, and to make love with us. For us as hobbyists it just doesn't get any better. No matter the cost - it's worth every single dime to be able to spend time with either our ATF's or new friends.
Spot on Dude, spot on. EOM
...are those that are partners in your mutual exploration -- she's on board with pretty much whatever you want to do (assuming, of course, that you've had the discussion about limits, boundaries and consent). Once you've done that and perhaps had a few sessions to get to know one another's ins & outs (pun intended), things might just get better and better.
That sort of provider is one who encourages your further boundary-stretching and trying new things. Helps to get out of your rut every now and then -- while continuing to rut even more! 
Posted By: NotAnAlias
Well, I suppose Valentine's Day is an odd day for this (since I'm married!) but I was just thinking how much I LOVE being with a good escort. I started to list the reasons, and interestingly, but perhaps not surprising to most of you, a lot of it is mental, not physical.
I love a good escort because...
She kisses me like she loves kissing me.
She makes me feel like she WANTS to be with me.
She lets me fuck her in submissive doggie -- face in the bed, ass in the air.
She licks and sucks my balls like she hasn't eaten in a week.
She rides me cowgirl like she just can't get enough of me.
She lets me cum in her mouth and smiles at me after, like I've given her the best gift ever.
She makes me feel like the center of the universe.
She makes me feel like she will miss me when we part.
Ok gals, that is my list. Guys -- thoughts? Things to add or disagree with?
And again, let me say, I TRULY appreciate and RESPECT what you do. A good escort is God's gift to mankind!
I'll also add;
Invites me to her house to cook dinner.
Lets me spend the night with her.
Spending the day with her.
The ones that keep me as a client make me feel very special. They want my company and they kiss me and explore me like they cannot get enough of me. I’m considerate of their time, but they do not watch the clock and they behave as if they’re disappointed when I leave.
I feel like most of our day to day relationships are colored by so much history and expectation. Wives and girlfriends remember what you were, how you've changed, what the future holds, and all this can form an unbearable weight of expectation - as if your whole life and future are tearing you from an intimate moment with an irresistible centripetal force.
Companions meet you as you are, take you as you are, and look forward only (hopefully for both) to meeting again. It is not as deep or as complex as other relationships people have, but it is simple and in an odd sense, pure.
the present moment, accepted just as you are, no past disappointments, no future anxieties. Right in the here and now, being looked in the eyes, what feels good right this hot moment? Yes, there is where I want your focus! 
Your words define a perfect experience!
I get to be with a beautiful lady /without/ all the social performance and posturing or the anxiety of rejection that comes with trying to hook up with a civvie lady.
I get to relax and just be myself as I huge, hold, squeeze, kiss and talk to them. Sex is important as well I suppose, but I’m really there for the sensual pleasure of being with them; of connecting with these sweet, beautiful ladies.
-sigh- Man, life is /good/. 😍
Yo Boogs, perfect!! Yep, absolutely spot on.
Hello
Its always good to have a great provider and client. It works both ways !!
Cheers
I’ll be honest, I don’t particularly care for ok providers. The ok providers are great looking, but are just there to get paid for sex.
However, like the OP, I love great providers. I echo the sentiment of nearly every guy on this post. Great providers care about the experience. They want you to have an amazing time. Getting paid is secondary because they love their job, and how it feels to truly please another person.
I don’t get how these incredible ladies do it. Some days I don’t feel up to it and phone it in, so to speak. But, the great ones NEVER seem to do that. They come, and truly live in the moment.
Thank you ladies, you certainly have helped this guy’s life.
It’s because of them that I don’t have to settle for the kind of woman who I could possibly attract. And more than anything I don’t have to participate in the bullshit dating game.
....a "good" escort can and should become an "amazing sexual partner...if all options are open and agreed upon-if she knows her shit,a great fucking should be in the offering...it doesn't always end that way....we dont always fit-sometimes there's no connection...even if shes hot,u cant change that...w local providers,i like an hr visit to see whats up..on the road,i try to check every review i can before calling...there is nothing like the taste of an amazing woman...
For the fashionistas who appear to have sauntered off NYC's fashion week catwalk
With a sexual prowess rivaling porn vixens
Taut and statuesque
The allure of jasmine, sakura, and lavender
Pink pouty lips that belie an enchantress of unfathomable eroticism
A crescendo that furloughs the critical mind
The afterglow and encroaching curiosity
'Twas the familiar taste of a stranger
An unrefined intimacy
Hes A MAN..OOH LA LA 💃👿💋💋💋👿
