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Re: Ladies…when a hobbyist just…well….lays back and enjoys
Kat_RT 231 reads
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That's perfectly fine with me, it's all about making you happy.

xoxo Kat oxox

I know it’s all about green, hygiene and politeness.  But beyond that….sometimes I just want to be pampered and lay back and let her do her thing.  With no return favor from me.  Is that bad?  It just seems to ease the pressure I put on myself if I say before meeting that I’m just gonna get spoiled on this one and let her do her thing.  I love to kiss and grope and feel, but sometimes I just don’t want to DATY or FS (key word: ‘sometimes’).  Just a couple of nice, slow, sensual BBBJ’s and I’m good to go.

Does that disappoint you ladies at all?  Or do you see it maybe as an “easy” date so to speak?  Sounds like a win-win for both from time to time?

:)

MSHSEX320 reads

Of course it is NOT bad. After all, are you paying the escort or is she paying YOU?

Posted By: beach6216
I know it’s all about green, hygiene and politeness.  But beyond that….sometimes I just want to be pampered and lay back and let her do her thing.  With no return favor from me.  Is that bad?  It just seems to ease the pressure I put on myself if I say before meeting that I’m just gonna get spoiled on this one and let her do her thing.  I love to kiss and grope and feel, but sometimes I just don’t want to DATY or FS (key word: ‘sometimes’).  Just a couple of nice, slow, sensual BBBJ’s and I’m good to go.

Does that disappoint you ladies at all?  Or do you see it maybe as an “easy” date so to speak?  Sounds like a win-win for both from time to time?

:)

Kat_RT232 reads

That's perfectly fine with me, it's all about making you happy.

xoxo Kat oxox

Spoil you happy!   I dont care if we don't do anything else the entire session.

lilli444 reads

when i read statements like the one you just made about an oral-only encounter being easier, or when i hear about those who have lower rates for such encounters, i wonder what the heck kind of cocksucking are THEY doing?? lol

because in my world oral service is very serious thing, and requires 100% of my focus, energy, skill and passion. after all there is not much i can do while being soundly fucked, besides some feminine muscle movements at the right moments. but with oral worship, i believe in putting in WORK. it is challenging, it is physically draining, it can be very difficult even...but then that is why i love it. :)

of course it's important that my partner is not a statue, that even if it's more about pampering than throatfucking and such, he is expressive and and engaged. if that is the case, it will be a wonderfully enjoyable experience for us both, and i will look forward to the next opportunity to serve.


lilli101 reads

so that is what i was responding to. however, as i also pointed out, i LIKE challenging. easy is boring.

The tricky part comes into play when guys just want to jam that thing in with no primer, and I am already handicapped down there...not gonna happen. I have done hour and 90 min. straight oral dates, and love them. Makes no difference to me.

London, don't you care about getting off? Or does that happen anyway? Just asking.

If a guy expects fs with me to go smoothly, he best hook my ass up with some stimulation or it's not going to feel very good for either one of us. I don't simply reach for the fake lubricants that only hurt the point of a condom to begin with, so yes, I need a little help he he. When I first started in the biz, I did not want gfe at all. It was come in, get yours, and get out. Now, I actually get a bit annoyed when they don't at least "try" to get me off ha ha. How a few years can change things. :)

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those apts are really fun, I dont see it as disapointing, I myself would see it as an easy date yes.

in an earlier thread, there was talk of it being a bad thing for us ladies who believe that the gentleman comes first and not us.  thank you for bringing it out there, that it is about you.  you wanna let me take over, great!  you wanna spend your time on me, great!  either way, for the time you pay for...its all about you.

If I were a hobbyist, I would want the same on occasion;) nothing like being fully pampered without having to work a muscle! Hopefully you've got a gal who can endure such activity. Stamina is everything in that situation;) bring it baby!

I think an affair would be so complex and difficult in so many ways but being pampered for an hour with no strings attached is a wonderful thing!

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