TER General Board

Hypothetical Question.
SalmonPChase 984 reads
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As a client what would you do, assuming you were absolutely certain, if a provider gave you HSV?

Would you warn others?

If so, how?

Is it new space vehicle Elon invented?

He required to report it to the county health department. If that is the case then yes I would report her to the health official. If that is not the case then I think it would be pointless to contact the provider as she would deny giving you HSV. She would probably accuse you of extortion and would be very defensive. Just sayin.

Mommascomin52 reads

unless that was your first sexual experience (and even then you could have gotten hsv at birth, unlikely, but possible). but hsv is men is hard to test for, and can remain dormant for months/years before popping up.

imanalias54 reads

First he didn’t mention which HSV. 60% of the worlds population has HSV 1. Now if he obversed sores or lesions on her mouth or Genital area and later showed symptoms, you have to ask, WTF was he thinking.

Testing has improved and can determine which one. But there is no other way to be 100% certain she gave it to him as a parting gift. Unless as I say he obversed them or she later told him.

And you can get HSV 2 from a BBBJ or Daty from someone with HSV 1.

It’s one of those risks you weigh when in the P4P world.

John_Laroche43 reads

1. consider the benefits and risks of anti-virals.

 
2. NEVER EVER have GFE P4P again.

 
3. Contact the provider and let him or her know you tested positive shortly after your appointment and they should get tested.

 
4. Warn any RL partners.

 
I have no idea what TER's policy is on "outing" health issues either on a board or in a review. For your own protection against blowback, you could consider posting a general comment  using an alias on your local board about your recent test result without mentioning names and offer more details via PM. But, even with an alias, blowback is possible, and you need to accept the consequences of f'ing with someone's livelihood.

HappyChanges100 reads

and have a clean bill of health since a couple of months ago. I practice BBBJ and covered fucking with hookers. I very rarely DATO and DATY but will admit I have a couple of times.  I think I'm practicing safe.  

If I ever contracted an STD I'd try to convince my SO that she gave it to me from her ex boyfriend and it was dormant for all these years???  I'd lie, same way I would lie if she every found out I wasn't faithful.  

I wouldn't fool around with hookers or anybody anymore if I caught something contagious.

imanalias114 reads

I dodged that through 2 wives and 2 divorces. Almost all STD are treatable or at least manageable except when you’re married or cheating on an SO. That why so many are careless and many not only do BBBJ but BBFS, think they’re are invincible or bullet proof, SMH.  

My tests only say I’m old, prone to cancer and heart attacks, lung disease, and all that you get normally at my age.

I new the risks coming in. Fortunately though both marriages I never shared with them a gift like that. Now I’m not that concerned for things like HSV or other treatable and curable shit we share.

I’m not saying I’d go full in for BBFS, but hey, if someone I meet wants to be my soul mate, after testing, ok. Chances of that, ZERO

you are supposed to tell the person you believe you have contract it it from so that they can get tested too.

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