I can't imagine having the same sex with same person for 30+ years. I get bored after few months.. Are there really men who have no desire to cheat? How do they do it?
And only started p4p in the last few months of my 2nd 16 year marriage, because I was working out how to end it. Which I did.
How did I do that? I did that because I wanted to. I agreed to, so I did.
I don't remember thinking like I was missing out on anything, until the sex ended in the 2nd marriage.
But, now I'm single and I'm an insatiable man slut. Hehehe! What was good for one part of my life, isn't appropriate in another.
Now I need my rest. I've got a stunningly beautiful woman to play with tomorrow!
Yet , the OP didn't ask and probably doesn't care.
I don't care if the OP cares or not. I put it out there, like it or not.
I could never understand the statistics that say that men cheat more than women. Aren't men cheating with women? So it isn't 1:1. The only explanation I can come up with is that some women have multiple affairs -- or are sex workers.
Anyhow, the latest stats:
In over 1/3 of marriages, one or both partners admit to cheating.
22% of men say that they've cheated on their significant other.
14% of women admit to cheating on their significant other.
36% of men and women admit to having an affair with a coworker.
17% of men and women admit to having an affair with a sister-in-law or brother-in-law.
People who have cheated before are 350% more likely to cheat again.
Affairs are most likely to occur two years into a marriage.
35% of men and women admit to cheating while on a business trip.
9% of men admit they might have an affair to get back at a spouse.
14% of women admit they might have an affair to get back at a spouse.
10% of affairs begin online.
40% of the time online affairs turn into real life affairs.
In many cases the married guy is seeing a single gal, often telling her that he is single or at least available somehow. In that case the guy is cheating twice: Once on his wife and the other on the gal he is deceiving. She, on the other hand, is not cheating.
Then there is the example of guys seeing providers, etc.
This might not be the right forum for such a poll to yield meaningful results. This is, after all, a website devoted to helping people find and book escorts. Chances are pretty good that any married men on these boards cheat on their wives regularly or they wouldn't be here. Personally, I have never cheated on anyone, but I also haven't been in a serious relationship in a very long time.
and the other half lie about it. 8o)
Of course, there is no universally agreed upon standard of what constitutes cheating. To some, even having a silent lust in your heart for someone is cheating, while other place the bar a bit lower, like doing the tube steak boogie. Somewhere in between lie the lies.
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That this forum and lifestyle leave the door of honesty wide open on that matter.
I agree with you. I am open, just ask me. Hahaha.
But, I am always surprised at the number of really closed minded, fearful humans we have here.
Every now and the, ugly jealousy pops up among mongers and sex workers alike.
I'm sure because of that, whether it's emotional or financial jealousy, there are sex workers that look at "their" monger going somewhere else as cheating.
Humans being.
I’m not proud of it, but I cheated in my marriage. I think more people do it than admit it. I am in awe of those that have never done it.
I may be the rare exception on here.
I like reading the reviews (as a VIP), but I don't use providers.
I am straight, and I have been married 24 years. First 20 years, I had thoughts of affairs but never acted on them, nor did seek other women partners.
The sex dwindled over the years and it stopped after 18 years of marriage. I am fit very sexual and I was told handsome. I came across a famous affairs website and created an account and paid the fees. In 1st year, I met and slept with 8 women. One was exclusive for 8 months. In the last 3 years since that time, I am up to 50 women total and non was a provider. About 5 of the women slept with me with their husband's knowledge (open marriages) and the rest are all cheating relationships.
I am not proud of it but I believe life is too short to pretend and to live as a hermit!
My personal belief is that the longer the monogamous relationship extends, the higher the probability of an affair.
My first marriage was a total disaster. I was miserable from year one to year 15. I was completely monogamous until about year 12 or so, then I cheated. I remarried later and the sexual relationship with wife #2 was terrific until she inexplicably lost interest in sex. I didn’t want another divorce so I just endured a sexless marriage until I discovered “the hobby”. Once I started, I could not stop. It’s just too easy to find beautiful, intelligent, sexually interested women in this environment.
I hobby with consent of my wife, but during my first six years I was monogamous and never was remotely interested in cheating. Even after I had a full green light to hobby, it was over a year before I was comfortable bedding pros even with my wife being more than OK with me doing so and playing herself.
If my wife asked me too I would give this up in a second. It is fun, but it is fake, like a movie. At home I have something real, I have no interest in trading something real for something fake.
Please don't ruin my fantasy
That said, the guy is as authentic as they come and thoroughly decent. But fun? LOL! Not hardly. But hard not to like.
but authenticity lasts forever.
Long may you run, Scoed.
I was just stating my reality.
It's just that back in his "fat fuck" days, someone offered to trade him some McRibs in exchange for his sense of humor. lol
As for the OP, I NEVER cheated while married, well let me rephrase that, I NEVER cheated while I and my ex wife were together. I did start fucking other women almost immediately after we split up, but were technically still married, but IMHO once you have said the words, "I want a divorce" and you start living 500 miles apart, it's no longer "cheating"
Cheating on someone is betrayal, and none of the women I've ever been committed to did anything to me which would warrant betrayal.
After my divorce I made the decision to start in this wonderful life and haven't looked back.
But that's my integrity, and I don't impose that on any one else.
PUI
Paid fantasy with strings.
I especially like cheating with a woman who is also cheating. It's really hot.
My wife took very good care of me. Had no need to date or touch another woman, although I did go to strip clubs for the scenery.
Then one day the wife stopped cold. That's when I found hobbyland. I would quit hobbying if the wife took good care of me again, but we both seem happy with the way things are going.