How many gents who actively post here have been a providers 'first?' Was it good, bad or indifferent?
CEach lady was absolutely wonderful. A bit nervous at first, which was understandable. But after we chatted and eased our way into it with LFK, they relaxed and the rest is history.
Sometimes it's been great and reminiscent of being a teenager again. A couple of times I could tell the girl was feeling rather awkward about having sex with a total stranger, but once we warmed up it was all good.
The one thing to be said about being "The First" is that you don't have to worry about getting a "scripted routine" as she doesn't have one yet.
Lately I have been spending a lot of time in the "Sugar Bowl" and since I live in a small college town, I am seeing a lot of girls just starting out and I have to admit that while most of them aren't as good at things like giving great blow jobs, I am finding that young, eager and non jaded, make up for any shortcomings in the experience department.
You surprised me saying you have been someone's first. I wouldn't have expected to find you walking that path - new to the industry yes, for all the reasons you stated, but not brand spanking new. Thinking about it...can they actually still stand after seeing you? 'Run ragged' is a visual that springs to mind lol...
One thing I have found that you alluded to is that most younger girls who are not pros don't have a lot of experience with a guy with "staying power" because with very few exceptions all of their sexual experience has been with young guys who can rarely last more than five (or two) minutes at a time. lol They are also VERY appreciative of a good tongue lashing as most of the non bi girls haven't ever been eaten properly
What I do with most of these girls who I can tell are both not used to, nor appreciative of a "good pounding" Is to take frequent breaks in the action and not just fuck the poor girls to death, which is not exactly the way to get invited back. Unless of course she gives me the green light and tells me "don't stop" in which case, I aim to please. lol
but yes, a lot of women, I would have to say the vast majority of women do not really want to be fucked all night, despite their claims to want a man who "can last all night"
Ironically in the Sugar Bowl I have been the "first" with women who were not "teeny boppers" I remember one very sexually frustrated woman of about 27 who was going through a divorce and who hadn't been properly fucked literally for years, I don't think I have ever been with a woman so sensitive and responsive to my touch in my entire life. It was kind of funny, after we were done she said out loud, "well I guess I am officially a prostitute now" I asked her if that was a "good thing or a bad thing" and she responded that she loved it, I kept seeing her for several months so I assume she was telling the truth, but of course I am not seeing her any longer, so who knows, right?
I love this post which is fucking with my head a bit because again I wasn't expecting this. I'm not going to say you're cool GaG. I'm not. I'm not. I feel like a John. I need to 'see' you again before I write the review!
Some posters are just out and out fucking jerks on EVERY post. Others are spineless jellyfish who suck up to EVERY woman on EVERY post. I try to at least keep people guessing at just which GaGambler will show up on any given post. lol
But what's their reaction when you ask them to rum you, but you tell them you won't return the favor? Maybe you are more of a Lesbian than we all thought.
I think it's called a "pillow princess" in the Lesbian community, when you just lay back and don't return the favor, but I'll defer to Lopaw for that one.
Captain Morgan suggests you bend over and rum yourself.
Autocorrect will get you everytime ... I think it's sneaky too.
I "rum" myself often, but why do I have to bend over if it's just me?
... coz they are straight girls who aren't interested in anyone but themselves. Usually found on college campuses and edgy bars/clubs where they can make themselves seen and later claim to have had a lesbian experience to impress their friends.
I was actually asked by a provider I know to be the first for a friend of hers who wanted to get into 'the industry'. She told me I'd be a 'perfect first date'. I was truly flattered until it occurred to me that I'm probably so boring that she could count on the encounter being easy and uneventful lol.
I think that's very cool. I think firsts can completely elevate or fuck with your mindset. Mine was a guy called John (oh the irony). I was with an agency and I guess they told him I was English. I pulled up to his house and he'd hung up a Union Jack and came to the door laughing wearing a bloody bowler hat. He was a daft sod but defo made it memorable. Second guy thought he was riding the rodeo until he got bucked off. What a twat he was. Ahhhh... we live and learn 🙃
Oh, how chronology can change the course of history. If John #1 behaved like john #2, well maybe that might have been your last rodeo and we'd never have this post, and instead we'd be dealing with some post about dick size in its place lol. So thanks to the daft sod for indirectly being responsible for your elevating the level of conversation here 
Fun question as, like it or not, the first of anything is surely what we recall the best.
Ahhh....so true
And on that note, firsts that were beyond my often high expectations:
Orgasm
FMF experience
Driving lesson
House purchase
Firsts that almost broke me:
My first diving lesson (and that's not a euphemism lol)
First time on Oblivion (a U.K. Rollercoaster road)
First taste of whiskey
... and I can identify with them all (except for the Oblivion as I've avoided rollercoasters/roads imitating rollercoasters regardless of the continent).
I wish I could recall my first orgasm but I was probably too afraid my dad would come looking for his Playboy at any moment lol. I do remember my first FMF experience too as exceeding my high expectations, and exceeding them to the point where it pretty much eliminated the need for me ever needing to look at a Playboy again.
As for experiences that almost broke me I'd add my first (which was also my last) calculus test. It immediately convinced me that my experience in medicine would be that of a patient, instead of as a doctor.
Ahhh....so true
And on that note, firsts that were beyond my often high expectations:
Orgasm
FMF experience
Driving lesson
House purchase
Firsts that almost broke me:
My first diving lesson (and that's not a euphemism lol)
First time on Oblivion (a U.K. Rollercoaster road)
First taste of whiskey
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But did he put the Union Jack up the right way?
You're damn right he did. He knew how to navigate the United Kingdom - on multiple levels
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Interesting that you think you've probably been every providers first solo woman but it make sense
I have to say whilst I'm aware of a shitload of male gay escorts I don't think I've ever come across a gay female escort who ONLY sees women.....
I bet that's made for some interesting encounters...
But he is male. There actually a review site for male providers whose clients are mainly or exclusively women and/or couples. No it doesn't have the numbers TER has, but male providers for women do exist.
I thought of becoming a gigolo myself, but for some reason no one ever called. I wondered why but then I looked in the mirror. Guess I am just way to ugly to make it as a prostitute. 
It's too bad to, I hear I give good tongue . At least that is what a few the ladies I pay to be there have said. LOL.
I will admit I never heard of a female, female only provider.
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I've seen several posts by at least two other women on other boards.
I think in her rush to post a brief message that fit totally within the subject line, she left out some words.
She probably meant she was the first solo female monger to "every provider she has seen," not "every provider."
She started to cry, I asked her to leave and suggested she try to make a living another way. Worst experience ever.
Only once with a newbie who was a friend of a provider I had seen before. She turned out to be one of the most beautiful woman I had ever seen or been with. Our two hour session was dreamy. I brought her gifts, wine and a card to welcome her to the hobby and thank her for letting me be her first. She went on to become quite popular (Chicago) and left the business within the first year having fallen for a client and moved to California and got married. I often wonder about her and hope she is happy. Was one of my best memories in 8 years of hobbying.
a certain regular of mine who suggested a 3 way with a friend of hers she had just met. The let on to this friend that she was an escort, and she seemed intrigued, so she checked with me since we had done 3 ways with other acquaintances of hers and she thought this friend would be a good match for me. She was. We still meet when she's in town over 30 years later.
One went like a normal doubles session. A lady I have seen a few times had friend that was curious about her friends lifestyle. She new I was safe, respectful, and easy going. She asked if I would be interested in see them both and I did. Other then one of the ladies being visibly nervous at first. It went great. I never seen an ad for the new lady. Maybe I scared her off?
Another time I seen a woman recommended to me by my wife. She was young around 19 or so. She wasn't very sexually experienced. She was so scared she visibly shaking. I asked her a few times if she wanted to do it, she said yes. I remember this as one of my best hobby experiences. I missed the whole high school/ college experimental stage as I was a very late bloomer on the sex scene. I think that session must have been what that was like.
And another so called time I was to be a first, was kinda started like the first case but ended way differently. A different provider I was well acquainted had a friend who wanted to give it a go. She set us up for me and her friend to break her in so to speak. I got a room. Her ad appeared for the first time that day. And I was to give her her first review.
Well, things turned for worse. And when she seen me for the first time, she she called me a "Fat fucker" and basically told me no amount of money was worth fucking a man as fat and ugly as me, then walked off. I told her friend what happened and she seen me instead. Things worked out in the end, but for a while I was pissed. All she had to do is to say she changed her mind. Needless to say the anti-fat man newbie didn't last long.
I don't know if she ever actually had a successful P4P date but her ad was up for about a month. And no I never reviewed her.
All in all I would see a hobby virgin again if I knew she was light and not a cop, con or worse. Tgst though is the real problem. LE is active in my neck of the woods and in my opinion it not worth the risk to see someone that can't be screened.
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Yes it was. Thanks for the correction. I fix at least that typo. I don't know how "fat" became "Cat". I wish I could type ether on a keyboard or phone would work. Again thanks.
And I knew it from speaking to the agency. I picked up some flowers and her favorite beverage( speaking to the agency again). She was a bit neverous, but I just knew she was going to do very well as a provider, and she has done very well ...it's nice to think about being her "first", but I don't tell people about it usually. There is just something tacky about that.
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I was the second client of a delightful young woman who was paying off student loan debt. She was delightful and became a repeat for me. Her attitude that first time was sort of bemused, perhaps just a tiny bit detached, because she was learning how to act during an appointment, but the charming thing was that she really didn't understand that she would be very good at this and highly sought after. Her comment that day was "I really didn't think I could be any good at this!"
Smart, smart girl: Made her number faster than her timeline and gracefully bowed out.
Had a friend in Vegas who I saw every now and then. After our last date she ask if I'd be interested in seeing her friend who is new in town after leaving her husband. She wanted to try the business and my friend thought I'b be perfect for her first.
I was hesitant at first till I saw her pictures. Very attractive early 30 with a nice looking body. So I said yes.
But there was one condition, my friend wanted to be in the same room, to watch, monitor and maybe to coach her along.
I thought it was weird but I said "Fuck it, sure why not".
We met and she was real nervous, I assured everything would be fine, just follow me lead. As we're having our fun, everything was actually going very good. There was a strong passionate connection. All the while our friend is watching.
Then our friend pulls up next to the bed and takes her top off. Now this girl had a set of DD's that were awesome.
So as I'm with the newbie, I'm also playing with my friend tits, the whole kissing and sucking thing...it was like a "mild" duo.
At the end all three of us had a good laugh over it....The new girl lasted a few months. She got an ad, had a few good reviews then she went back to her husband.... probably alittle more savvy in the bedroom I would assume.
I had made an appointment to see someone at an AMP. I was brought to the room and Mamasan said that my date was not available. But, "New girl. You like." She led in a new girl who must have been VERY new, as in first day. She was still in civvies (jeans, sweater), not customary garb for those places. She was very nervous. Mamasan had her sit on the bed next to where I was sitting (fully clothed). The girl was sobbing quietly. Mamsan tried to press the issue ("New girl. You like.") but I told Mamasan to be quiet. I tried to communicate with the new girl in my best Korean Sign Language "you. me. no. don't worry."
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I got up and left, saying something non-committal to Mamasan like, "Maybe I'll call later to see if so-and-so is really available." Maybe I should have said more than that.
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I have since met other "new" girls who were ready and willing ... and maybe not really "new".
As others have experienced, my ATF had a friend who wanted to get started in the business, so she asked if I'd like to do a 3-way with them, something I can't ever resist. Turned out she was a former dancer who turned out to be very good at her new career. In fact, that 3-some was one of my top experiences ever. Made me think it may not have been her first time. Saw her again as her 'first' one on one (or so I was told) at what was not the greatest incall location (higher end motel), for which she apologized profusely. Again she was incredible. After that she was always at one of the best hotels in town and went on to make quite a name for herself (with the accompanying increase in her rate, although I was always grandfathered). Fell off the radar a couple of years ago and is really missed.
She told me that I was her first, that may have been a lie, who knows. I'm not sure if she fully understood the Agency/Provider dynamic, in fact I know I don't understand it for certain. She didn't speak specifically about her relationship with the Agency, but her general comments led me to my conclusion. I was her only review, not sure if I was her only client. Too bad too, she is really cute and her performance was well better than average.
My original ATF went through a phase years ago where she was more of a pimp than a provider. She thought that I would be a good first experience for her girls and reached out to me a couple of times, offering a discount.
The first time I passed because I had literally just finished masturbating to some porn and wasn't going to be ready to go again right away, so she immediately called up another regular instead.
The second time around, I said yes. This provider didn't have an incall or transportation, so I had to pick her up at my ATF's place and bring her back to my apartment. She was a little nervous but really nice. Unfortunately, she had very recently given birth and was still somewhat loose. It was a good time, but neither of us came. We had a nice conversation as I drove her back. The next day, my ATF called me to see if the new girl was at my place. She left her baby with my ATF to babysit, and disappeared shortly after I brought her back, leaving my ATF stuck with the kid. My ATF later told me that she left the kid with child protection, and the new girl had a meth habit.