A question for providers--are you currently married or have a significant other/partner, etc? Lately I've seen a couple of ladies who currently are in a serious relationship yet their partners are OK with them staying in the hobby (at least for the time being.) Additionally, it doesn't seem to be a source of contention for them in the relationship according to what these ladies told me.
If you do have a current SO does working as a provider cause difficulties with the relationship?? I ask these questions out of a genuine curiosity as to the level of open-mindedness that exists in these types of situations. Would welcome any feedback--thank you!!
And we've been together almost four years. I am polyamorous, so I have had other relationships come and go during that time as well. They accept who I am and what I do. If I were tied to one person forever I would wither away.
We talked on/off for five years as we were just friends and nothing more. However, life circumstances drew us very close and we decided to tie the knot last month and I consider myself to be a very lucky woman in love!
Now, he is aware than I'm a provider and has been aware ever since we first met. I wasn't shy at all about telling him my life story as he is only man that I've been able to open myself up to.
I don't know . . . I guess we just clicked?
Nonethless, I got very lucky. He is supportive of all of my endevors both in the hobby and outside of the hobby. Most importantly, he is not judgmental or never airs out my dirty laundry compared to the men before him.
If you're a single lady out there reading this, there is a man who will put up with all your dirty panties 
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That's wonderful!! I really am happy for you and I hop there are more stories out there like yours!!
After reading about what recently happened on another thread concerning the public posting of confidential information---my sentiments have changed (and not for the better.)
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That is so wonderful you found a great man to love and support you for any decision you make.
Hence the "no bbj" clause in my agreement. Lol
And I will be honest. When she first returned to providing it cause lots and lots of problems. Part of it i was how she returned, but part of it was my own insecurity.
I was worried she would fall for her clients. As I am not the most attractive man alive, and well plenty of people let me know it ever since I could remember, I felt very insecure in my ability to measure up. But in time I realized I don't have to. My wife loves me for being me. Now I have zero issues with her choice to do this but it took a while to get thier
I don't know if this is idle curiosity, or a someone thinking of being a SO to a sex worker. I will say this it take effort and honesty to make it work. I will not bore everyone with how my wife and I made it work as I posted it countless times in the past. You must be very open-minded to make it work.
I have often thought of this. i have been very attracted to a number of providers over the years and wonder what marriage would be like. I think it would be fine as long as it did not interfere with our feelings for each other and as long as she was safe and happy with her work. But this is easy to say and might be very hard for me to do. I will never know since this my second marriage has been a very happy one.
Dating seems to be a hassle, and more trouble than it's worth, on both sides of the fence. But a serious relationship is usually worth it. It doesn't mean that there aren't some unique problems and stress, but if both are intent and committed to making it work(takes a lot of communication, etc) then it's pretty good!
I am very staunchly non-monogamous (and bisexual!). I've had a number of partners since starting sex work and I am always honest with them. If I can't tell someone what I do for work, then why would I want them in my life?
Right now, I am actually dating another provider who is new to the game but has been making independent porn for 5 years. I've always wanted to date another working girl and it is so refreshing and different than dating civs.
Our 1 year anniversary yesterday. My husband and I work together on occasion and he loves hearing about my "work". I am lucky I am married to a very confident and sexy man who knows that I am faithful in my heart, we don't believe in physical monogamy. It works for us and has helped our fantasies become even more wild and fun.