I often post on TER when visiting a city. I always get very nice responses and almost always end of meeting someone and having a great time. I try to respond back to everyone that responds favorably to me. Often the fee is too much for me, and I am honest about that. Ladies would you prefer that I say my general donation ability in the original post? But I do not want to encourage a barrage of responses telling me I am a cheap bastard!
Imo, yes, posting that would cut out wasting time on both ends honestly
XOXO
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Its Best to be honest upfront , & The Donation for what your looking for.. Just Saying ..Xoxo
Then just say you are looking for a provider in the $200-$800/hr range. Then pick from the ones in your comfort zone. No one need know if you're a cheap bastard or not, and you still get your girl.