45 year old Newbie

I only started a few months ago.

 
As to why:
https://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/ter-general-12/re-i-love-a-good-escort-because---942608?page=

 
Edited to add the “why” link 🧐

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So, what is your reply?

Started going to FS AMPs at 22, and that's primarily what I did until I was close to 40, around the late 90s. With the availability of more info on the internet so I could avoid being ripped off, I started seeing more escorts. It's been a mix since then.

..........eager he was and took instruction ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhsooooooooooooooo well.
Suzee

First experienced the hobby at 27. The age that I thought about being a hobbyist, not sure. Mid 20s. It was when I followed Grace Bellevue, an escort, on twitter. First direct access toan escort's point of view. I'd watched a ton Law and Order, so my thoughts of escorting were pimps and exploitation.

I was 26 and did it while in Daytona Florida in the mid 90’s. Escorts were my age, or older. Back then the way you found escort agencies was the yellow pages. Overall, it was not a great experience. Later that same year I moved out West and tried it again and ended up repeating frequently with a tall, classy brunette who was in her mid to late 30’s. I loved seeing her because she dressed so elegantly and was older and mature. She loved me because I was young. She bypassed the agency once, called me on a Saturday morning and came to my apartment OTC. That was by far the best experience I ever had with a provider to this day. I still think about her sometimes.

My youngest client was the 19 year old virgin son of a regular client. Dad paid for me to pick him up from the restaurant/bar where he was a server. He didn’t want his son to know I was a provider or that it was his doing...I had to go to dinner there three times over the course of ~2 weeks and flirt shamelessly before he took the bait.

I’ve had two other virgins age 22 and 24.

And my age the first time I hired a provider (for my ex-bf and I to enjoy together) was 21.

I prefer 35 plus..40 50 60 70 Gentlemen 👄👄

...... then a few weeks later I was working security at a brothel. Didn't have to pay very often back then.
No play from 24 till 55. Then I re-lost my heaux virginity with the end of my second marriage.
Now, with all the concussions I've had, every time is like the first time. Freaking awesome.

Age 17 - Amsterdam. Red Light District.

Age 18 - Best earliest experience and top 10. Mustang Ranch Ranch. I still remember her clear as day.

Probably thought of being a hobbyist after my first experience.

Wife stopped giving BBBJ.  Had not touched any other woman for over 25 years.  Her BBBJ were the best, until she stopped cold turkey.

This should be a lesson to all women.  Guys who don't get it at home, won't stay at home.  They will find it somewhere else.

Why? That's easy. I was a tired of being a virgin! Lol!

Had been married for 10+ years and sex was nearly nonexistent at home. My first experience was with a pretty young lady who went by the name Kara Mia - we are still friends today though she has had multiple name changes and flies UTR these days.  

BTW - still married and sex has gone from nearly nonexistent to officially  extinct at home

My first time with a provider was at the ripe age of 71.

Not sure why I started. I do know exactly why I continue though. I feel like seeing a companion is the best possible blind date. First, it isn't blind. Second, you know exactly how long it will last and how it's going to end. Third, the exciting and unknown mystery is how well you two will connect on a personal level. Bear with me, but isn't it better to get to focus on connecting with your date? Since you already know how the date will end, you can focus on the personal interaction without any ulterior motive. I sometimes think seeing a companion is an ideal opportunity to practice being a perfect gentleman. You can diligently focus on your manners, speech, courtesy and conversation.  I also think that companions tend to notice and appreciate little gentlemanly details more than civilians - companions are truly connoseiurs of men, and it is a serious but rewarding challenge to try and earn their approval.

Wasn't getting any in the real world so entered this one

I’m sure like everyone I’ve had some great experiences and some not so good. I have been extraordinarily fortunate to meet some special ladies over the years. There are a rare few I have seen more than once.  An even smaller number of these women I consider friends. Good times.

57. And at age 63, still going strong. I discussed this "nothing at home" thing once with a provider, who uttered some wise words: "When are wives going to understand that if you're not fucking your husband, someone else is?"

Sex at home stopped around 32 years old. First WG at 39 (Thailand) - just massage and HJ from time to time when traveling. First FS around 41. Started to escalate to multiple times per year more recently. I think the discovery of the German FKk around 5 years ago was a watershed moment for me.  

Last two years have been serious escalation where I spend most of my time planning my next visit. First P4P in the US last year at the tender age of 54.  

Saw 15 girls last year (mostly outside the US) and had the time of my life -- better home life too! Got lucky and have already seen 5 girls this year, so on pace for a great year!

My youngest client was mid-30s. He was fine but I much prefer gentlemen 45+. The 50-60 yo demographic is my very favorite!

Mother's Day, 2004.  The provider was Sexy Toni, whom I still am friends/lovers with to this day.  

First time EVER was 59

But I believe my youngest was 20.    

Back in the 90s, when I was barely legal myself, I saw a few college students as clients, but I didn't ask them how old they were so it's possible I've gone even younger.  

I worked at a brothel before and had some virgins there,  I think they were between 18 and 21.  (Ids were checked, I cannot recall if you had to be 18 or 21 to get in the door).  They were fine,  I really would have not know they were virgins if they had not told me.  
 I guess I would have to give a shout out to easy access online porn that gave them a general idea as to what to do in the bedroom!!!  

I'm only 23 so it wasn't that big of a deal to me!

youngest: 18, a couple of times.
my thoughts? no big deal, but i do prefer my clients to be atleast my age(22) or older. just a personal preference and i find older men less likely to blur the lines. i'll still see guys younger than myself as long as their introduction e-mail is well-written and they're willing to go thru screening!

xo

....but this was like right when I first started as a provider and I was just shy of 20 myself.
He always came in with his backpack straight from class.  
These days I don't really see anyone under 30.  My civvie tastes lean to men 30+ anyhow so....I apply that to the hobby and roll with that.

Started frequenting Massage Parlors and Show Clubs.  As they went away, I graduated to Agencies.  As TER evolved I started to spend time with Indy's.  There are a few cities where American MP are making a comeback.  I enjoy frequenting them if I am on a tight schedule.

It was the early 1970's, in a very seedy neighborhood in Detroit, at a "lingerie" parlor. It was the most exciting, heart pounding thrill I'd ever had in my few years on Earth. The only problem was it lasted just a few minutes.

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My youngest client was a 21 year old. He just turned 21 not long before we met.

My dad and two cousins, both more than double my age, drove us down there from Dallas.  We all went out to "boys town" and started drinking.  Dad headed back to the hotel about 11 pm and an hour or so later, my cousins decided to take the plunge (which they'd done many times before) with one of many girls lined up in front of one-room shacks on a dirt street.  I got a bbbj for two bucks; it was very quick (obvi) and she was very sweet.  Two years later, I was in NYC for college back in the days when the city was wide open. You could walk down 49th Street and have your pick.  "Wanna go out?  Five for me and five for the room."  Those were the days....

...and I didn't want a soc. relationship with a women just sex.

19 year old virgin

I don't ask for ID usually but when it is dudes under 21 I do and he had succhhhh a baby face I had to ask ID to verify his age for my sanity's sake.  

Not only was he a virgin, but he wanted to sub. That was so much fun in all the right ways  

I know it's not part of your Q but oldest gent I have entertained so far was in his 80s. That was fun too . . . .

. . . .Goddess how I love my job

Hand job in a massage parlor in Van Nuys CA. She was topless. Made a big mess.
Did full service in a providers apartment at age 25. In the middle of her day filled with guys 40-60 years of age.

Youngest client

The youngest I've seen was 21. He didn't look young at all. He conducted himself as if he's been in the hobby forever. I was shocked afterward.

I was 27 my first time with a pro. And for many years, most of the providers I had spent time with were older than me. Now that's rare. A few years ago I met a LEGIT 18 year old. Blew my mind. Girl was half my age. And she was gooooood. Surprisingly mature for her age.

I was 22

I was 22 when I had my first appointment.  Why?  I was a virgin, and needed to get that monkey off my back.  (I did DFK and then some with civvies, but nothing close to FS.)  Wow!  I stumbled out of that hotel room dazed out of my mind.  In my "impaired" state, I made the mistake of smoking a cigarette in the hotel parking lot (I *really* needed one), rather than hightailing it out of there.

The provider I who did the honors was 27.  Although I denied it when she asked me, I pretty sure she figured I was a virgin very quickly after I walked in.  I'll give her credit for being patient with me, metaphorically holding my hand through the session, and giving me a pep talk.

I suddenly got custody of my 11 year old, working 10 hour days and no time or energy to "date".  Found this small agency, run by a couple of 20 something gals who did outcalls.  After meeting a couple of them in motels, I trusted them enough to have 'em come to my house.  Put my little guy to bed, and had one of their gals come over.  I was like a kid in a candy store; probably saw a dozen of their girls for $200 and they delivered. Got me through a rough patch, and I still miss those ladies.