For the gents what do you prefer that a lady you've made an appointment with wear to the door to greet you at her incall? Black lingerie? Heels? Nothing? A long sheer gown? Doesn't matter?

And during an outcall when she goes to your hotel room or home ( not going to a fancy dinner or anything) what do you like for outerwear and what do you want to see under it?

a butt plug and a smile.

Interesting, I never tried that LOL

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I prefer a freshly showered lady with wet hair in a bath robe to greet me at the door. For outcalls, I prefer anything that is not too revealing. Simple street clothes - something that you girls would wear when you go grocery shopping.

Ava, I like it when a lady ask about her attire after a confirmed date, shows her attention to details. After all isn't that all part of the fantasy and GFE?
On a incall I always prefer lingerie, that includes nylons and heels. Color can very! I intersting enough also prefer for the most part, some items stay on during session,(nylons)maybe even heels.always exceptions during Asian or if you are a wonderful squirter!
Outcalls I do not like jeans or tank tops, too tacky! Nice dress or business suit, however with some sexy under garments and yes heels (modest selection ).
You can't ever take back first impression.
I must add I like your style and it is plain to see you are a beautiful woman of style and details.

for an outcall to me, I love to see a little sun dress (preferably with nothing underneath. That is my ultimate favorite.

Here are some others:

Jeans and a simple top, tank top, t shirt, is also fine. Denim mini skirts are another favorite. Not into the whole lingerie, stockings, garters, heels thing. Not into shoes. You can be wearing sneakers, sandals, flip flops. They all would be fine with me. (I do have a thing for girls in cowboy boots though Basically simple casual girl next door street clothes. Something that fits in for where you are meeting me, and something that comes off easily, so you are buck nekkid really quick. (hence the sun dress and no underwear with flip flops!)

For incall, you can be naked, in a bath robe, in a towel, or in any of the above mentioned attire.

I think ech individual has that image of dress that turns them on. My suggestion I to ask the client ahead of time.  

Personally, I ask the lady to dress in something comfortable, that makes her feel sexy. Women know what really looks good on their bodies.  I have found that if the lady feels sexy, things are far hotter right from the beginning, an I et an extr surprise when I walk through the door.

the sexier, the better, with lots of skin. I like a girl to dress like a hollywood boulevard streetwalker. Low cut blouse, push-up bra, short tight skirt, thigh highs and heels. You know, like any teenage girl at the mall.

I normally tell the lady I want to see what to wear depending on the situation.

In Vegas and meeting up in a public place before going on up ... I want casual wear so nobody even has a clue that the lady I'm about to go up to my room and rock my world is even close to being a provider.

(Easy to do in Vegas.)

Just me... but I like to peel clothes off and get to nice lingerie underneath.

I'm attracted to the Girl Next door look so I don't really care about an over the top wardrobe.

My first official review -- Eva was wearing the hottest little black dress in the world and EVERY single head in the casino was turned. Some whiplash was going on and some ladies were slapping their boyfriends for looking so hard. It was hot but so much attention was on us that it made me feel a little uncomfortable until we got to the elevator.

Very Hot, Hot, Hot... but I'm not booking time because of a wardrobe and wanting attention from everybody else.

Hooked up with Katie Flowers in her Jeans and Blouse at the same place and all of the heads were turning.... but everybody truly thought she was my GF.

Much more comfortable and what was underneath was absolutely amazing.

A couple of incalls.... I've met the lady dressed casually and that was pretty nice. Met a lady or two who opened the door in lingerie and heels and that really did nothing for me considering I did not know them. (Maybe If I knew them beforehand it might have turned me on.)

Personally... I think everybody has their personal preference and you just need to ask them in your correspondence with them.

They'll appreciate it.... actually turns me on when a lady asks me what I want them to wear.

Just my thoughts.

Cheers!

Hey Ava,

When it comes to incalls, it doesn't matter what the provider wears, if anything at all.

For Outcalls - Hotel / Home, I request that the provider wear her everyday clothing so that she doesn't attract attention to herself. That may be nice jeans, shirt, but not all torn up or be too revealing.

Serpius

as mentioned, a lady knows the best outfit to wear..something that makes her feel fantstic..love the idea of the sun dress and heels....

no matter what i love to "unwrap' my present......just like xmas..maybe someday i will grow up.....

nawwwww

show them off to the maximum benefit, and I'm seldom dissapointed by what a gal is wearing.

It's not like the clothes are going to stay on for all that much time anyways.

For what it's worth, I'm very fond of black fishnet stockings.

Many of the ladies that I spend time with have that girl next door look so I ask for a youthful, dress down look like jeans and a tight knit top. I cant help it, its what I like.

If its going to include "out of the room time"  I ask for a short skirt and sexy low cut top.

I have only done two incalls in my short career but happy to find one lady dressed casually while one was simply wrapped in a towel. The towel session was a favorite.

One outfit that I have yet to experience is a lady showing up in a short summer desss with nothing underneith.

No matter what they are wearing it is always my pleasure to take whatever clothing that stands in the way off of them myself.

... bare feet and hair in a ponytail.

no perfume, socks, tennis shoes, some simple jewelry, and a smile. I love the running to the store look.

http://www.stockroom.com/Jeweled-Anal-Plugs-P3639.aspx?ref=7666657&gclid=CPGnmcHWvrACFYuc7QodEyFznA

I prefer a hot short dress and high heels.  Also, I like to start off the hot touching before the provider takes her clothes off, it's more like a real steamy GFE session.  Usually that doesn't happen.  I guess it's a matter of prefernce too.  Underneith thong is always hot.

you forgot the rubber bands..butt plugs are optional..

In call:   Nothing but heels.  Though I rarely get that.  I am not a fan of taking off lingerie, stockings, etc.   Just wastes time.  

Outcall:  whatever makes her feel sexy and good about herself.  But I prefer no panties or lingerie.... Let's get down to business!

Agreed. Excellent answer. (eom)

If I get a request to dress in something I find uncomfortable I will say so and if it's a deal breaker, I accept that. Me being comfortable and feeling good does enhance the meeting.  

And CRB, you are right, we ladies know what feels sexy and comfortable. Some ladies can hop into anything and feel great...and kudos to those girls. Wish I could.

I'm a leg man and I love stockings! For an outcall, maybe a long coat and nothing but the stockings. Or dressed up in a business suit and then once inside it goes from business to pleasure.

I think they do. In addition to always having nice lingerie, not tattered underwear, I pay attention to other things like having nice heels, ( not beat up ones) and make sure my makeup and hair are flawless, as well as having perfectly manicured nails and toes...and supersoft skin. These are the elements to me of femininity.

For her to walk through a hotel like that??

In Reno where I live everyone is so darn casual that even wearing a suit would make me too obvious, so I tell clients I will dress casual but classy, and during the summer, that's a nice Polo shirt, white slacks or bermudas, and wedge sandals. Always classic. In the winter, a nice sweater or white button down shirt underneath a nice jacket, fitted jeans ( NEVER anything torn up) and boots.  


Now if I'm out of town and I have to do an outcall at a very upscale hotel, then I WILL wear a nice Chanel suit and carry a laptop case with my 'goodies' in it.

I am assuming you're talking about her going to your house because that would attract too much attention from hotel staff.

Guys starting bitching about "wanting to unwrap the present" so to speak, so now I wear a nice suit, dress, or costume and let them take it off to reveal what is underneath. I mean hell if you want to see me naked, it's on my site lol. I guess it is a turn on for guys to see me with clothes ON for once.

I'll call in "prepkid"  

And yes...you were so cute trying to talk.

Now who else could have gotten little London Rayne to STFU

Dear Ms. Rayne,

While you were a chipmunk on crack did you ever consider changing your underwear?  And possibly this is a TER problem in moderation?  Would you consider doing that deed again with that CPA poser...he's not a well fella.  My bud madiba and I want to help you.  

duplicitousputz

Blahniks
Caovillas
Jimmy Choos
Robert Clergerie
I could go on.  My ex is the Imelda Marcos of our area.  I had the great priviledge of paying for all of them.

So you hate those platform plastic shoes that a lot of girls seem to wear in their pix...

Ironically, we've probably seen more girls naked than the guys have if we work with other girls LOLOL

I don't even find them all that attractive for the most part. Other than the red soles to let everyone know you paid a g for a pair of shoes, I don't like pumps shaped that way. Now, Manolos...that is another story. I have the ivy leaves in black suede and adore them. I did not pay for them either lol.

The layered look is great for "Annie Hall" and generally unattractive females because we don't want to fuck em' anyway!

I want the hosiery and heels left ON!!!! Everything else is superfluous and should be by choice to remove, NOT necessity!



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OK, so I just got back from dinner in the chic little seaside New England town where I'm staying.  I took a stroll after dinner and immediately find myself behind two hot women, very over-dressed, and the one in skin-tight pants is teetering along the old brick sidewalk in a pair of Loubies that were NEVER meant to be walked in.
Immediately I think, "Hookers!"  Then I realize no hooker I've ever been with (or would be with) would walk around in public like that.  My theory is, following porn becoming reverse-chic, the same thing is happening with hookers.  Bet you gals didn't know you were so damn chic.  But the reality is that's it's only chic to LOOK like a hooker.  Too bad, IMHO.

I'm short and round, and I think the "platform plastic shoes" make my legs look a little bit better in pictures. Plus, nobody in my civvie life knows I have them, so they were a safe bet for photos on the 'net.

In person I wear my "Loubies" and Choos. And as someone said, Louboutins were never made for walking! Lol. I own two pair and they have to be the most uncomfortable shoes I have ever walked in. I am convinced CL is a sadistic foot fetishist! Lol!

Did you know that Danielle Steele owns over 6000 pairs of Louboutins? And that Princess Caroline of Monaco was his first customer? He's an interesting guy.

But maybe that's the thrill! ?

And the truth is I do not understand 100% it myself.  I have never like heels. They have never turned me on. It makes me think the lady is trying to hard and that is a turn off. Then by being in lingerie you take away the fun of unwrapping you. Plus it makes things feel like I am just a number that you wish to rush though. I am comfortable with it being a business arrangement, even to the point I actually prefer it when you count the money so I can see. But it is like you want to hurry up and get it over with and want to save time getting dressed and undressed. Outside of the hobby you don't meet people in their underwear.

I know most of that is in my head, but at the door, it has a negative effect on my libido. I like to see women in lingerie just not at the start. I really dislike heels.

Does any of that make sense? I doubt it but it is how my brain fries.

after reading hiddenhills' post. (prior to all these other replies, which would have made it clear)
But then I hate heels anyway (like scoed) I don't 'get' them. I don't find them attractive. As I said in several of my other posts, I am happier to see a gal in sneakers, flats, sandals, flip flops or barefoot. But I do like a gal in cowboy boots!

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Yes a hotel outcall or an incall.

For this reason I dont like outcalls at my house at all.  Many have a driver and I don't need the neighbors asking questions or worse "Johnny" dropping by.

Wrong!  I looove stripper heels!  The sluttier the better.

I only see providers for bedroom sessions, not for dinner dates.  Well, I'd only see a provider outside of the bedroom for free, that's not something I'd ever pay for.  Such being the case there would be no reason for me to ask her to wear business attire, as she would not have to meet the dress code of a formal establishment, like a strict restaurant at a country club or something.

Since I am only seeing her in private I basically prefer clothes that can be easily removed without the risk of ripping or tearing them.  Excessive buttons, straps, velcro, zippers and other little things that secure clothes in place just slow down the process.  I do prefer her to be fully clothed, minus a bra, shoes and stockings.  On the outcall note, I wouldn't expect a provider to show up at a hotel without shoes... but for incall this is good.  So a top, bottom, panties and maybe even an open vest.  I don't like 1 piece outfits.  The process of taking off the clothes is fun and helps me get aroused.

Make sense?

Because just a few messages up another guy (can't remember who) posted that he wanted less time wasted getting the clothes off. It's really fascinating how people view the hobby and how their libidos respond to different things!

Thanks for explaining. It makes perfect sense to me.

If she met you in a nice, regular outfit and underneath she had lingerie on. Better?

My issue with lingerie in only when we are first meeting. I like lingerie just not at the door. Plus undressing a woman or watching her undress is a huge turn on.

I like it for an outcall to my home

As far as a hotel goes - it's quite possible to dress up in a sexy secretary type outfit
and look like every other woman at that particular hotel who is attending some
business conference - then, knock on my door and just unbutton a few buttons

And of course in the winter, you can just wear a long coat that covers the most outrageous
parts of the "costume"