I am curious Ladies what kind of client do you prefer?
A client who books you once a week for one hour at your incall at $350 an hour. Or a client you see once a month or every second month but takes you for dinner or overnight in his suite and buys you gifts like a new dress, handbag, shoes, perfume, flowers? Or puts on special events for you? Oh and drops between $1,500 dinner date to $2,500 overnight? I am curious and to be honest, confused?I don't have the time or inclination to see people weekly. I have a lot of things going on in addition to a full-time job and they are things I really enjoy and wouldn't be so eager to put off/push aside even for money. It can sometimes be challenging to commit to a monthly date - every 6 weeks would be the optimum for me. The beauty of providing is you can create whatever schedule you like and change it whenever you like.
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Obviously the second option.
Have a few clients like that and way easier instead of committing to a weekly arrangement
I'm not a provider, but it would appear to me that the average lady would prefer option #2 based simply on money made and the extra shopping perks associated with it.
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Exactly. It should be a no brainer. The OP is bragging way to much and is probably full of BS.
The connection you have with each other, in my opinion.
Objectively, I would absolutely prefer a meaningful encounter with a friend where we take our time getting to know each other and deepening our connection. But I have met with clients, who are now former clients, who would consistently meet with me for extended dates and eventually I just had to stop seeing them.. Either your personalities clash too much & it gets too exhausting trying to keep up a sunny disposition or there's a disconnect in communication and one person ends up asking too much of the other as a result of the heightened emotional aspects of your dynamic after spending so much time together.
Maybe it's a security thing though? I don't know what your specific situation is so maybe the provider(s) in question prefer the security of consistent donations. It's hard to say that any of us really know for sure what's going on in someone's life outside of the hobby. It sounds like you'd prefer the latter relational dynamic to the former but maybe you shouldn't take whatever is going on so personally? But again, I don't really know the details of your situation so I can't say for sure..
Its all about balance and keeping yourself grounded in reality. it would depend on the specific client and the connection you have with them, along with their social skills. Nobody wants to spend 12 hours with Swamp-man, but if a guy is sophisticated and worldly, then I would think longer dates would be preferable for most providers. OTOH, if you can't stand a guy except for a short period of time, once a week for an hour is a way to get some decent money out of him without pulling your hair out. I never heard of a provider that couldn't do an hour with an annoying customer.
your second option easy. Quality speaks volumes over quantity every time.
Its more intimate and gives me the chance to get to know close friends on a personal level
Each has it's advantages. Consistent regulars are always amazing and knowing that he wants to see me every week is a feeling like no other. and the overnights and spoiling is great. I prefer longer dates as the conversation gets me every time. lol
... the monthly dinner/overnight date as it offers more intimacy and a non-rushed opportunity to get to know each other outside of s*x. I also
I also don't host incall visits at this time, but even if I did I'd still prefer the monthly dinner/overnight dates.
~Jas
I would definitely prefer the once a month take for dinner, gifts, and overnight. Who wouldn't?! Unless the lady cannot do overnights. Some ladies have children and can't be away for that long.
Weekly. It's difficult for me to accomodate over nights/ whole day sessions due to my demanding personal schedule. Overnights can be very stressful as well....seeing people frequently for shorter sessions keeps it more interesting,fun and less cumbersome.
Also,i frequently take myself out for meals and shopping trips lol and while company for those things can be nice sometimes dont get me wrong,i prefer cash to outings/food/flowers,etc....
But i will say with the right person those things can be nice...