Hahaha. Did your cheap dime store board get shut down? No wonder you are butt hurt. No one to pick on anymore, so you come here? This is TER, babe. We're a little more upscale than the street corner. You are a little out of your league.
Yeah, I heard of you. Now, you mentioned another low rent board. You re the trash talker misogynist who gets pissed, because we girls make more in one night then you make in a month old hoes included. Lol. Btw, there are plenty of backpage girls putting out for 100-150, and they are 10 to 15 years younger than me. I don't do f.s. for anything less than 300 and many times much more. And yes, i still get the same rates I got 10 years ago. Good luck with mongering. Although you don't really hobby, do you? It's ok. One day you'll get a real job and you'll be able to afford us. LolWhy can’t most hookers quit?
While it’s obvious many mongers turn in their man card it’s equally obvious many hookers sacrifice their dignity by hanging on well past their shelf life. Like aging athletes some are a mere shadow of their former selves.
I’m looking for some insights into these phenomena. I found one girl who was once a superstars working under another name out of her motor home. She lives in it. Other hookers purported to “retire” change their names and work for far less than their prime years using BP.
I am well aware that turning a few tricks a week pays better than the food server and cosmetic counter jobs some use to supplement their income but their must be other reasons.
Some possibilities:
Ego: Where else could an ordinary girl get so much male attention?
Drugs: rehab didn’t work out for them.
Fast Money: it has a very strong appeal.
Anger at men: They hate us but can laugh at how much money they can get out of us.
Freedom: They can sleep in ‘till noon and not answer to a boss.
Identity Crisis: identifying with your real identity when you've pretended to be a completely different person for years must be tough.
Inability to build a new social circle: Some get very entrenched into the hooker lifestyle. Are they able to cut off ties with this sordid world and build a new social circle in the real world?
Feel free to add to the possible reasons.
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Fixed it for you.
Some possibilities:
Ego: Where else can old fat guys get the attention of gorgeous women?
Drugs: The Viagra is keeping them barely functional and they're afraid it'll quit working?
Fast Sex: No impulse control or ability to deal with a relationship.
Anger at women: Unable to get sex any other way, they like to denigrate women who do this as a job.
Freedom: They can treat women as a collection of slippery holes without having to deal with them as people. The short word for this is misogyny.
Identity Crisis: They get to play out little James Bond fantasies when no one actually gives a shit who they're fucking.
Inability to build a new social circle: Cut off from the real world, they seek out escorts because they have no social life in the real world. Entrenched in the monger world, they resort to posting on Fuck Boards to make themselves feel important.
That was fairly good. I need to revise and expand my 2017 edition of hooker tricks and marketing gimmicks.
Don't get me wrong, I actually enjoy troll posts, but you seriously need some new material.
How many times do you think you can use the same tired line and ask the same tired questions and still get a rise out of the peanut gallery?
Sorry, but your actual OP is not worth commenting on and I sincerely hope you get nothing but tumbleweeds for this pathetic effort at board trolling. We hold our board trolls to a MUCH higher standard.
I'm going to comment on it anyways, because I'm in an ornery mood today (probably because I didn't get any last weekend.)
But, anyhoo:
First of all, there are escorts who quit all the time, much to my great regret in many instances. So the very basis of your thesis is for shit.
Secondly, I see many mature, and then some providers who are excellent providers. Age is no reason for them to quit, and they appear to be doing quite well judging by their digs, clothing, and car.
Now, as for somebody who ought to be hanging them up, I suggest you look in the mirror. Your misogyny is getting quite irritating.
But the use of the faux word "anyhoo" is one of the few ways. Perhaps because my first mother-in-law used it. She was vile.
I picked that up from Vicki Nicole, if anyone remembers her.
Hey babe, good to see I left an impression on you. Anyhoo..... I have quit and come back to this business several times. I've quit for religious reasons many times. But now I'm not religious anymore and I don't see any reason to quit a industry that I enjoy so much.
Fish, you are funny. Not that I ever liked you and your sucking up. Escorts may quit under one name but come back as another UTR. Some have always had multiple personas.
The motorhome example may have been extreme but true. The examples of girls "quitting" but using different names elsewhere at much lower than their "prime" prices on BP and regional groups is common.
If I was the terrible misogynist you claim I am I would be outing the girls I know who are doing it. You are trying to tell us that the 45 year old (on average) makes as much or more than the 25 year old. Your sucking up is getting quite irritating.
What a pleasure and surprise to see some clients (monger is mysogenistic) commenting in a positive way and sticking up for the women. Your balanced comments are much appreciated. For my own part, although theoretically the rating and review system seems like a great idea, it quickly became the last refuge for the dinosaurs who only want to use and put women down and I can't say I am a fan of that. Probably why I haven't garnered more reviews....
Well said MrFisher! It seems to me that many of the great ladies I've met have quit far too early. The OP's post is a straw man argument not based in reality.
no to assholes like you.
Please stop posting. You're a joke.
If you want anything out of me, you need a new act. This is yesterday's potato salad.
While it’s obvious many mongers turn in their man card it’s equally obvious many hookers sacrifice their dignity by hanging on well past their shelf life. Like aging athletes some are a mere shadow of their former selves.
I’m looking for some insights into these phenomena. I found one girl who was once a superstars working under another name out of her motor home. She lives in it. Other hookers purported to “retire” change their names and work for far less than their prime years using BP.
I am well aware that turning a few tricks a week pays better than the food server and cosmetic counter jobs some use to supplement their income but their must be other reasons.
Some possibilities:
Ego: Where else could an ordinary girl get so much male attention?
Drugs: rehab didn’t work out for them.
Fast Money: it has a very strong appeal.
Anger at men: They hate us but can laugh at how much money they can get out of us.
Freedom: They can sleep in ‘till noon and not answer to a boss.
Identity Crisis: identifying with your real identity when you've pretended to be a completely different person for years must be tough.
Inability to build a new social circle: Some get very entrenched into the hooker lifestyle. Are they able to cut off ties with this sordid world and build a new social circle in the real world?
Feel free to add to the possible reasons.
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And why can't we fix stupid?
Notice we both posted in the same threads.
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I haven't heard anything from most of them that they want to quit. If they didn't tell me, it's none of my damn business.
Why can’t most hookers quit?
While it’s obvious many mongers turn in their man card it’s equally obvious many hookers sacrifice their dignity by hanging on well past their shelf life. Like aging athletes some are a mere shadow of their former selves.
I’m looking for some insights into these phenomena. I found one girl who was once a superstars working under another name out of her motor home. She lives in it. Other hookers purported to “retire” change their names and work for far less than their prime years using BP.
I am well aware that turning a few tricks a week pays better than the food server and cosmetic counter jobs some use to supplement their income but their must be other reasons.
Some possibilities:
Ego: Where else could an ordinary girl get so much male attention?
Drugs: rehab didn’t work out for them.
Fast Money: it has a very strong appeal.
Anger at men: They hate us but can laugh at how much money they can get out of us.
Freedom: They can sleep in ‘till noon and not answer to a boss.
Identity Crisis: identifying with your real identity when you've pretended to be a completely different person for years must be tough.
Inability to build a new social circle: Some get very entrenched into the hooker lifestyle. Are they able to cut off ties with this sordid world and build a new social circle in the real world?
Feel free to add to the possible reasons.
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For some, It's a career choice, not that they can't quit, but they don't want to quit and enjoy the life style and freedom,...etc...
we set our working hour, how much we get paid, we vet and screen the cilent and choose who we want to meet. This is empowering and taking control from the shitty world that we live in.
I personally have a healthy social life, career outside of this secret work and I have a loving supportive family.
I am sick of people like YOU think girls in the industry just some crazy messed up damaged drug addicts....etc.
So much hatred from your post. putting down another human being doesn't make yourself a better person.
bless you x
For some, It's a career choice, not that they can't quit, but they don't want to quit and enjoy the life style and freedom,...etc...
we set our working hour, how much we get paid, we vet and screen the cilent and choose who we want to meet. This is empowering and taking control from the shitty world that we live in.
I personally have a healthy social life, career outside of this secret work and I have a loving supportive family.
I am sick of people like YOU think girls in the industry just some crazy messed up damaged drug addicts....etc.
So much hatred from your post. putting down another human being doesn't make yourself a better person.
bless you x
If you have followed the industry you would notice that most who purport to retire never seem to be able to retire. Some have more comebacks than a professional boxer. The question is why?
God bless your soul I am glad you say that! I agree with you 100 % thank you so much I am so speechless love it
Thanks
the money and drugs. Yes I know, you already mentioned that, but you forgot to mention their addiction to sex. Many girls enter the hobby because they're nymphos to begin with and they just can't get enough dick. They eat, drink, speak, walk, sleep and dream dick 24/7 365. They might claim to retire and try working a 9-5 for a while, but it won't be long before they realize that filing papers and faxing quarterly review reports to HR wasn't meant for them, and they'll be back by the end of the first day. They miss the excessive male attention and the easy money they made lying on their backs, they miss calling their own shots, they miss the drugs and the partying and yes they also miss the dick.
You fell for the whole nympho thing. I bet you also believe you made her come 15 times in an hour.
if you believe that I could be so naive so as to think that all providers are nymphos. Maybe if you took the time to actually read my comment instead of being so quick to scrutinize me every chance you get, you would actually see where I said that "many", and not all of them are nymphos. You're also an idiot if you think you know my whole life story based on just a couple of exchanges on TER. Don't watch me, watch yourself!
You fell for the whole nympho thing. I bet you also believe you made her come 15 times in an hour.
I know I've won when you have no valuable rebuttals, and only resorts to hurling cheap insults, lol!
Also, your post was complete bullshit and your response to me was flat-out wrong. But by all means, keep on believing your own bullshit.
you have nothing better to do with your life than back and forth bickering with a bunch of mongers on a fuck board for hookers. Ok fine, I get it. What you said before is your opinion and you're more than entitled to it, now get the fuck over it and give someone else a chance.
Also, your post was complete bullshit and your response to me was flat-out wrong. But by all means, keep on believing your own bullshit.
"give someone else a chance?" LMAO! Who's stopping you from posting? We love your posts. And we need pinatas like ElTurdo.
I think they get trapped because when they decide to leave and get a regular 9-5 type job, they don't have any kind of resume. They may have hundreds of recommendations but no job history they can offer
There are jobs available to them but not the type of jobs that pay what hooking does. Faced with a catastrophic loss of income they quickly learn that to have had a good income and lost it is worse than never having it at all. Hookers don't get rich but many make good incomes. The same cannot be said for entry level jobs.
A few at least work a part time job and hook part time. Most will go back to hooking full time because despite all the talk of fancy degrees no other job they are qualified for will pay as much as hooking.
It's all about the Benjamins.....has nothing to do with the Johns.
I believe there are many answers to your question and you answer many of them yourself and in a manner that draws the ire of others. (BTW - I think you partially want a legitimate discussion and partially want to poke the bears on this board) Below is one possible answer.
My answer comes from talking to my good friend and former regular, who did quit. We met recently for a drink and she shared a beautiful story. She is still very young and retired from the escort business. She is now in a relationship (he does not know her past), going to school and working in a low pay hourly job. Her education will not lead to a high income job.
As her money started to disappear, she planned a tour and booked a bunch of former clients. Once she started the tour, but before the first date, she cancelled everything. She told me that as she sat in her hotel room, she had an epiphany in two areas. First, she realized she loved her boyfriend and did not want to violate his trust. Second, her escort life seemed like a completely different person than she is now. As if it were a TV movie starring a different person. At that moment, she said she could not even imagine performing sex for money any more. Without judging the profession and without being ashamed of her past, she simply said "that is no longer me."
Given her prior extravagant lifestyle, clothing and travel (vacations, not work), I inquired how it was possible to give it all up. Her response was simple. She booked the tour our of habit, when her money got low. She cancelled the tour when she realized she was happier in her current life, which did not include any of the material things she had in her escort life.
This is what I learned from her story. Some subset of escorts are searching for a purpose or meaning in life which is falsely and temporarily filled by all that comes with the escort lifestyle. When this group attempts to quit, they fail, because they quit for the wrong reason. They have not yet found their purpose in life. They then return to the lifestyle that filled their void. Think of "The Purpose Drive Life" but without the religion parts of the book.
My exact same logic goes for customers. Also, I refer to a subset. I believe all who posted here, that claim to love the hobby, are sincere and should be believed.
My reply is merely one explanation for one group of ladies.
Bravo.... it's always nice to see.
Good Post!
One of the things I said was:
"Inability to build a new social circle: Some get very entrenched into the hooker lifestyle. Are they able to cut off ties with this sordid world and build a new social circle in the real world? "
For some killing off all ties to the hooker world means killing off a part of their life and having to build an entirely new one. That's easier said than done.
I sure there is a match for every situation. Amazing isn't it . Most mindsets think only one type of female should be a sex worker and one type of mail should be a sex Glutton . Women can get new boobs new faces new pussies new asses I don't know if guys can get new dick skin night that I honestly don't know . But even if the girl doesn't always want to get laid always always always no matter who you are how old you are how ugly you are you will that's life . I'm sure some guy out there's so appreciative of the girl in the RV . Or motorhome which ever you saw that Lady at. 👌👌🌹🌹. Always treated woman with respect always no matter especially if she sucking your dick
Wow, I find you severely lost. I have been moonlighting doing this for quite some time and I find it immensely interesting and enlightening! I have 2 collage degrees, grew up in a country club home with 2 highly educated parents.
OK here goes............ I have tried to Recap what you have said and added in my thoughts
Fast Money: Buddy it is not fast money to say the least. I built my own website after being ripped off from numerous and I say numerous people who thought the same as you. I have had profession websites built at one time that started out at $2500 with profession photo shoots of $3500 and then cloths of about $3500. Let's do the math here. Hmm... that comes to about $9500. Then I have advertising on different sites that amount to this amount and this amount.
If I add in the hours that I screen, drive, etc. it all ads up. This is not easy or fast money.........
Anger at Men: Gosh I love men!
Drugs: I love wine!
Freedom: Tonight I had to drive 1.5 hr. in traffic and got caught in traffic which added another 1/hr. Then my hour date went over 30 minutes just because. I drove home another 1.5/hr. Lets see....? that is 5.5/hr for $350, which he offered me $250, what can I say????? I am already making less than $40 an hour. I have to get up and .........do you get my drift???? Freedom?? My clients are my boss so to speak and if I am not able to connect and make people happy then I have no income. They are my Boss. They pay my bills.......So Yes,,,,, I do have to answer to someone everyday that I wake up.
Identity Crisis: Hmm.. All actors and actress have Stage names, Marilyn Monroe and John Wayne.....????????
Inability to build a new social circle: Well here is my Trump Card Ta Da! I have enclosed a link to 10 Celebrities that were Escorts before becoming famous, including Nancy Regan, Brad Pitt etc.
We all do what we have to do to get to where we want to be. And sometimes in the process, maybe, just maybe some of us like it just the way it is. Intriguing! That is me! Sincerely Kelley White
I have 2 collage degrees, grew up in a country club home with 2 highly educated parents.
but you know this already, so why ask? SMH
I do not believe hookers "sacrifice their dignity" in this business. That is your deep rooted belief system that women should not own the right to their bodies.
Married women sacrifice their dignity to one man and lose their freedom in the process. They put up with all kinds of indignities to keep that roof over their head. This "sacrifice of dignity" is accepted by society.
You are judging hookers as bad, just like society taught you.
In fact ALL women use their femininity and Sex to get what they want.
They learn to use it or get used.
Age and what they use the Sexy for - means nothing.
You misunderstood my post.
I said:
"While it’s obvious many mongers turn in their man card it’s equally obvious many hookers sacrifice their dignity by hanging on well past their shelf life. Like aging athletes some are a mere shadow of their former selves."
No matter what you want to believe hookers have a shelf life. After a certain age they either switch to FBSM or they have to give up more for less. The idea that age means nothing is just being silly.
I said "many" not all. If it does not apply to you why the anger?
femininity , sexiness, the ability to make a man feel great,
will Always be sellable.
I understand you have your preferences but,
it is a false belief that women have an expiration date for selling / bartering
the manifestation of inner and outer beauty (sexiness).
After they get to a certain age? Do me a favor.. Attach a name to whoever it is you're trying to insult, because this roundabout way you have of talking shit about people is getting lame.
After they get to a certain age? Do me a favor.. Attach a name to whoever it is you're trying to insult, because this roundabout way you have of talking shit about people is getting lame.
There have been a multitude of girls who switched to FBSM only when they got too old for FS.
Hahaha. Did your cheap dime store board get shut down? No wonder you are butt hurt. No one to pick on anymore, so you come here? This is TER, babe. We're a little more upscale than the street corner. You are a little out of your league.
Yeah, I heard of you. Now, you mentioned another low rent board. You re the trash talker misogynist who gets pissed, because we girls make more in one night then you make in a month old hoes included. Lol. Btw, there are plenty of backpage girls putting out for 100-150, and they are 10 to 15 years younger than me. I don't do f.s. for anything less than 300 and many times much more. And yes, i still get the same rates I got 10 years ago. Good luck with mongering. Although you don't really hobby, do you? It's ok. One day you'll get a real job and you'll be able to afford us. Lol
I never liked the board that shut down. I've been here since 2008. You are the one who complains all over the internet about your plight. You were the one who posted there not me. The GFE girls took your business away years ago because your man hating ass could not keep up.
You could not even meet the standards at the closed board. You sure as hell are not up to TER standards with your limited menu.
Now that you are in your 50's I doubt you get many calls for full service. You have no idea what I can afford but I can assure you I have not needed a "real job" in ten years.
Reacquaint yourself with one of your meltdown posts from years ago
OMG. ROTFLMAO. I can't believe you went through all that trouble to bring up a 7 year old thread. Are you serious? My friends are laughing their asses off right now. I'm telling them to contain themselves as I type this. You are sad. Who does that? The GFE girls took business away?? OMG - yeah right. Get help. Just wow. In my 50s?? Where did you get that from? I'm in my 50s now. Holy shit! This is too funny. Dude, seriously, you need to get a job. Or, I'll tell ya what. Do some charity work. It will make you feel good. Just do something productive. Anything! Are you in San Francisco where that other board is? Go bake some cookies for the next gay pride parade. Oh shit! lololol. No, seriously, we all wish you lots of luck and success. I'll say a prayer for you. Everybody on TER promise to say a prayer for this dude.
HORNY!!!!
I'm so horny!!! Now more than ever because I'm pregnant. I wish I could get a cock in me every day!!! My s/o is fat with a small dick that was perfect for my 100lb body, but now that I'm knocked up the head doesn't go past my pussy lips; sex with him is not satisfying.
So for now, I'm horny all of the time. Yes I'm pushing 30, but you know black don't crack! I take very good care of myself, don't do drugs or drink, don't party, and eat well. I love how my tits went from a 32B to a 36DD with this pregnancy, but I'm craving my petite sexy -sexed body back.
I don't advertise for dates as a pregnant provider, but I'm soooo lacking sex!!!! I haven't been laid with a warm cock in months; still have 4 months to go. Who knows...maybe my sex drive will deplete after I drop this baby.... maybe I'll still have a juicy center that craves attention....
But quit ??? Why would any woman give up sex once she's discovered how pleasurable it can be. How you can get as freaky as you want without being judged. How you can have a hard cock anytime you want it. How you can be treated like the inner slut that most of us crave ....
Monogamy sucks...well in my situation because I settled for an old guy who can't fuck me anymore. I'm very open about my wants as far as hoping some guy finds me sexy enough to fill my juicy, craving pussy with hard cock. I know that it probably won't happen, but I hope for getting my self back in shape to get fucked until my sex drive is no longer so hungry. Maybe when I'm old and saggy, I will quit; but I'll listen to my hormones and decide when it's time.
Women are just as horny as men. And all the time, we don't get fucked well at home. Sometimes our sex drive is higher than the s/o we are with and we crave more.
You went from a 32B to a 36DD? I need to get pregnant. Just messin'. My went from a 34 A/B to a 34D, but mine was surgical not pregnancy. lol
and honestly freedom is probably the #1 answer for myself. That and I really enjoy making others happy.
I liked that I could take time off to help with the school bake sale, or field day mom, or help with field trips. I also adore that I can just go on a trip if I want without asking anyone.
Plus it is wholefully rewarding when I get that face from my guests, you know the screwed up face with the loud moans followed by that peaceful I don't want to move....EVER look.. Priceless and makes me feel good.
So I don't stay because I am fucked up or have no other choices, I just really like it so why not!