I know many of us providers have our wishlist posted on our profiles and social media.
However, some of us like to gift our clients from time to time. Other than the usual "lower rates" and "more time", does anyone have any recommendations for a gift that a provider can give? I've been toying with the idea of discretely sending my XXX videos in a flash drive. For my clients who work in offices and cubicles . . . a paperweight, maybe. Anyhow, Christmas is only 104 days away!
One of my very first clients had a soup up ducati but I was too scared to ride on it with him.
He certainly had a need for speed . . . even in the bedroom.
You've got craigslist, tinder, Madison, Okcupid and Plenty of Fish . . . . why are you here?
"Free Pussy." The hooker's Kryptonite. LMAO!
"Free Pussy" is the most expensive kind and in large part the reason for hookers in the first place.
No such thing.....
Nice wristwatch
Gucci wallet
Coffee cup
Pics, videos of yourself, I'm sure would go over well
OTC time, dinner and movie, if you do that
Maybe romantic picnic for 2 with some homemade gumbo
Gift cards, of course
Maybe tickets to sporting events, plays, concerts...
Find out what your special gentlemen enjoy (besides fucking) and go with it
😀
Christmas is getting closer
Damn this year is flying by!
It's one of my specialties! I love making a homemade seafood gumbo . . . most of my Chicago clients haven't had "authentic" creole food anyway!
PS - Great list. 
Sex, date. Sex. A pro would cost 4x as much
Come over and cook dinner for you. If you think its good and would like to reward me in some way, I'm sure your provider brain will think of something. Lol
Find some of that delicious sauce and he'll purr like a walrus.
the need for a nifty overnight bag is pretty high. Who wants to be seen in the lobby of a nice hotel toting a gym bag? So, many years ago one very fine gal gifted me a gorgeous black leather tote just the right size for one change of clothes and some toiletries. It's by the far the most thoughtful and practical gift I received.
Other nice gifts included clothing which fit my tastes perfectly, and then I received all kinds of knick-knacks the best of which reflect my penchant for maps, the worst were kind of silly (A battery powered hand held fan?) A lovely blanket that I use to keep warm in the winter with always reminds me of the gal who gave it to me with a wondrous glow. Another gift from the same gal was a set of smooth stones to give hot stone massages with.
Things we use every day are always a delight. One gal knew I drank tea after dinner each night, so got me a beautiful tea cup that reminds me of her each time I use it.
By the way, no one needs a paperweight anymore, not since offices have climate control and the need to open windows is nill. What we still have in our offices however are pictures. Nice little frames are always a nice touch. (I've got plenty of them, by the way.)
You're right about the paperweights! I suppose there isn't really much need for them anymore.
One lady gave me a mouse pad with a Lombard St graphic on it, another one brought me back cigars and a CD of island tunes from her trip to HI, but the best one was when a lady invited me back to her home for a freebie, after we had met at my hotel earlier in the day. Her photog, aka as her voyeur husband, was busy snapping pictures while we went at it. She e-mailed some of them to me a few days later.
These were ladies I had seen multiple times. The lady who gave me the cigars and CD is still active here on TER, the other two are not.
MfSD>>>>
I really like the idea of the flash drive with some special, unique pictures on it.
One very smart provider gave me a new leather wallet. I thought of her often when I was at the ATM.
One that is full of Benjamins and Grants every time I open it.
I don't have to ask for lower rates, I can pay for more time, everybody's happy.
The only thing I want is a reserved parking place at my favorite incall location. Anything else pales by comparison. I know it sounds like whining, but I had a rough morning leading up to my session, and the parking situation didn't help.
It's Wednesday not Thursday. Maybe that was the reason your 'parking' spot wasn't available?
to be M-W-Th-Sat due to my work schedule. There are just too many new girls to see in LA, so I have added another day on weeks where I can work it in.
Gives a new meaning to hump day. Make hay while the sun shines. Or in your case, kimchi.
"back to back" meant you had a session with one girl, then walked across the living room and had another one with her roommate. Have done that a few time, but one time almost killed me. I did a one-hour double with two roommates, then sent one away and did another hour with just one of them. For a guy over 55, it was just too much. I said "Uncle" on that one. Once in awhile I will still do the consecutive sessions with two roommates. Its no different than doing two hours with one girl, except the second one isn't tired yet. Its a very time-efficient way to see two girls in one day. Park once and see two girls.
I don't know what a session every day of the week would be called, probably a damn good week.
I've been tempted to have the back to back you mentioned, but thought it would create a bit too much drama.
you're NOT a regular with one of the girls. If you are, then you ask your regular to introduce you to her roommate. If she gets pouty, tell her nevermind. If she does it, its a get out of jail free card. That was how the one I described above happened. I was seeing a regular and told her I noticed here and her roommate were offering doubles. She asked if I wanted to meet her roommate, so after I was dressed, she called her roommate in and introduced me, the roommate gave me a DFK and nearly sucked my tongue out of my head right in front of my regular, so I booked the double followed by an hour just with my regular, in case there was any damage control needed. Turned out it was no problem. She was happy to share my business with her roommate/friend.
I am not looking for free pussy because it is never free anyways. A nice discount would be awesome.
...having the woman im with,cum in my mouth....
Cigars, booze, books, a watch, cologne. Please no nick nacks. Things that would really knock my socks off: If we're at your incall, maybe after the session cook something for us to share together. It would be fun to work on that together. Or naked baking sounds interesting. If you don't want to spend that free time together (and we all understand that), make some cookies or something ahead of time and send me home with them.
I have to say getting something from a provider would be very unexpected and would make me happy no matter what it was, because of the thought.
Good points here. I try to make my gifts useful and but at the same time, discreet. I don't want my friends coming home with any suspicious gifts!
Yeah I'm sure that discretion is very important to a lot of johns. That's thoughtful of you to keep in mind. I was just answering for myself, all the women I've met in this know that's not a concern for me.
I do like the flash drive idea, but I would rather have something more hands on.........like a Jacuzzi suit for an in call.
ATF reserves a room with a Jacuzzi so we can play in the hot, steamy water. She wets my hair (on my head, what left of it) and gives me a sensual scalp massage. Once all hot and relaxed we adjourn to the bed for playtime.
I will pay for the session, she pays for the room.
Las Vegas women are the best, most by just being their pretty pleasant selves, they already satisfy
our wishlists.
Do a careful TER search and you can make your own wishes come true.
HAVING SAID THAT:
I have discovered something new for me, quite erotic, that could be on my wishlist-the Female Condom .
Love it. When it is marked a "NO" in TER, I offer to pay for them myself.
Being in my 60's I don't need material things.
Your thoughts?
Here are some ideas:
1. The flash drive with some special pics or movies would be a great touch and cost effective for the provider....ie: Cheaper. Just make the special to each client...ie: special clothing, something from an encounter you both liked, etc.
2. The Tote is a great idea as well. Most men can use a nice over night bag or travel bag.
3. Grooming kit. Yes I still love these. Also for the traveling gentleman. I seen one at kohls for $30... Travel tooth brush, razor, blades, wine opener, finger nail care items, etc. A nice touch and also say... stay groomed when you see the provider.
4. Going along with the grooming kit idea..... a toiletry bag
5. The blanket is another great idea. If your client is single splash it with your perfume. 
6. Impersonal... but gift cards. You should know your regulars tastes...
Those are some ideas that I would love to get from a provider that I have become a regular with. All of these are also based on how discreet you need to be with the gentleman. Because if the guy have new bags and stuff around might cause alarm with a significant other.
Lucky day professionals get wishlist gift and rate.
A have a red, heart shaped lollipop a provider gave me on a Valentine's day date. Its been in a side pocket of my briefcase for 20 years, and I think of her whenever I run into it.
I remember her very white skin and slim body bent over her bag as she fished something out, "Just for me." I distinctly remember the lighting, too. A late winter afternoon sun coming in a west window of an apartment on the 16th floor on the Parkway. The lighting somehow inspired me to kneel down behind her and eat her out.
The lollipop melted flat in my bag, but it's still roughly heart shaped. It's a brilliant red whenever I hold it up to the light like a piece of stained glass in its cellophane wrap.
I do this regularly with one of my ATF`s and I LOVE it! It`s almost as good (I said almost) as the sex back in the room. This to me is the cherry on the Sundae of GFE. We`re both relaxed, satisfied and happy and the deep open conversations we have are brilliant. The intimacy is blissful. I live for days like this. I`m double her age but during these dinners I`m 35 again and it`s intoxicating. Blows away the booze buzz.
One time, when she went to the ladies room the young bartender whispered to me "Sir, I just have to tell you that I think your daughter is stunningly beautiful." I smiled and said nothing. After she returned to her seat next to me she promptly planted a huge long kiss right on my mouth. Bartender saw this and with his RED face bought us a round and they don`t buy rounds in that restaurant. Lucky for him, it saved his tip.
+1 !
Doesn't every provider need to have supper at the end of the day? Doesn't she occasionally drool for a four-star dining experience?
It may take a little pre-planning or a little chicanery by the hobbyist after 8 o'clock, but it can be done. It can be extraordinarily satisfying to both him and her. She gets a sumptuous dinner. He gets company at a restaurant where he might otherwise have dined alone at the bar.
Note: He covers the dinner tab 100%. He pays nothing for her time.
If a guy regularly takes you on a dinner date.
Though I would enjoy some special XXX photos or videos from a regular provider, especially making them.
Well, she didn't GIVE her to me, but it was a nice surprise in any case.
Other than that, simple things resonate with me: I've been given books, music mixes, wine (a bottle to try from her recent favorite case), invited me to stay for dinner with her roommate, she ordered room service and invited me to stay after our appointment ended. Just sitting and sharing vacation photos. Anything that says this was not JUST a business transaction and I enjoy your company.
now, I'm really liking the dinner idea after. I usually go eat by myself after the appointment.
Next time, just ask her and if she`s not seeing anyone else after you, you just might get lucky. Then again, some of these ladies have strict rules about not seeing clients outside the box, YMMV. Me and my ATF have done this after our last 2 trysts and both times she has whispered to me "I don`t do this with just anybody" Damn , didn`t that make me feel special.
Think about this. In our hobby world we want them, we see them, have great sex, then maybe get to take them to dinner (must be OTC or it doesn`t count lol) and for "a couple more hours" they become our real girlfriend and it`s intimate and wonderful until it`s time to go home. I think they call it living vicariously. Don`t think for a second that some of them don`t do the same and fantasize you us their real life boyfriend for a couple of extra hours assuming that they don`t have one. This way we both get our temporary real love and intimacy fix. It`ll have to do for now. Thankfully she gets to keep her glass slippers and my car doesn`t turn back into a pumpkin with two more years on the lease.
old creole rum. Perhaps you can be the one to indulge me.
It's more fun having OTC time than playing. I just had awesome time with my current provider. I took her and her son to watch Spider Man Homecoming and took them to dinner. We've spent OTC time before. Going to the park, some shopping, just hanging out at her house. She has never asked me for any payment whatsoever. Well I do pay for dinner and shopping.